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Old May 8th 2014, 1:13 pm
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Tuesday is the day. I have spent all my adult life in the USA having moved here at 19, so I'm fully expecting to have a little adjustment to do. What were your biggest 'culture shocks' as a Brit, returning home after a long absence?
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Don't have any advice but wanted to say good luck to you on your move. I moved to the US when I was 21 and now returning Next Friday after 18 year. I'm not too worried about the reverse culture shock. I did once when coming to the US and will do it again but this time with family and friends around me to support me.
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Originally Posted by rosemarybrown
Tuesday is the day. I have spent all my adult life in the USA having moved here at 19, so I'm fully expecting to have a little adjustment to do. What were your biggest 'culture shocks' as a Brit, returning home after a long absence?
I did get some weird looks when I came over all enthusiastic (as you do when you live in in the US). It took me a while to adapt to the more low-key, subtle, sarcastic sense of humour. People are especially "dour" up here in Glasgow, which made the contrast even greater.

And driving and parking was a nightmare at first.
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Good luck to both you Rose and to igabriel.....I was 25 when I came to Virginia...will be moving back to the UK in July after 27yrs.....so you aint alone...keep us posted with your experience
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Good luck to you both.
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Originally Posted by rosemarybrown
Tuesday is the day. I have spent all my adult life in the USA having moved here at 19, so I'm fully expecting to have a little adjustment to do. What were your biggest 'culture shocks' as a Brit, returning home after a long absence?
One thing to point out is that there aren't a lot of reserves in the UK. Shocking, I know.
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One thing to point out is that there aren't a lot of reserves in the UK. Shocking, I know.
Reserves? You mean people call a spade a spade? Or, not many nature reserves?
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Reserves? You mean people call a spade a spade? Or, not many nature reserves?
Just a wry remark concerning the title typo. Keep your shirt on.
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Ah sorry... The joy of moving is not having access to really Internet and not being able to correct the mistake easily from my phone lol!
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Just a wry remark concerning the title typo. Keep your shirt on.
OK thanks! Didn't think to look at the title!
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As I mentioned before the weird humour of some Brits can take some time to get used to.

Even now that I am re-acclimatised to the "dry", "wry", "sarcastic", "subtle", whatever, British humour, half the time I still find myself thinking, OK, I get it, but it wasn't particularly funny.

Not sure I want to get over that aspect of culture shock if it means I have to laugh at things that aren't really very funny.
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Originally Posted by ncoomber
Good luck to both you Rose and to igabriel.....I was 25 when I came to Virginia...will be moving back to the UK in July after 27yrs.....so you aint alone...keep us posted with your experience
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Originally Posted by dunroving
As I mentioned before the weird humour of some Brits can take some time to get used to.

Even now that I am re-acclimatised to the "dry", "wry", "sarcastic", "subtle", whatever, British humour, half the time I still find myself thinking, OK, I get it, but it wasn't particularly funny.

Not sure I want to get over that aspect of culture shock if it means I have to laugh at things that aren't really very funny.
for most brits going bak though this is not going to be an issue as Im sure many of them have kept their own british dry, sarcastic wit.
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Originally Posted by lgabriel73
for most brits going bak though this is not going to be an issue as Im sure many of them have kept their own british dry, sarcastic wit.
Either 'dry' as in a nice fino sherry, or 'dry' as in a 4000 year old Egyptian mummy in a glass case in the museum...
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Very best of luck to you!!!
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