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Old May 16th 2014, 4:41 pm
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Originally Posted by Sally Redux
You would think so.
I think there is a confusion between 'not saying what's on your mind' (i.e. being quiet) and 'hiding your thoughts', here

Predictably, I got sucked into this. It's the pedant gene, it won't let me ignore things
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Originally Posted by SultanOfSwing
I think there is a confusion between 'not saying what's on your mind' (i.e. being quiet) and 'hiding your thoughts', here

Predictably, I got sucked into this. It's the pedant gene, it won't let me ignore things
Well,sending people to sleep is our forte
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Originally Posted by Sally Redux
Well,sending people to sleep is our forte
It's the best skill to have. Send everyone to sleep and get some time to yourself
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Originally Posted by SultanOfSwing
It's the best skill to have. Send everyone to sleep and get some time to yourself
I like to think they're speechless at the display of wit, rather than asleep
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Originally Posted by Sally Redux
I like to think they're speechless at the display of wit, rather than asleep
Works for me
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For Pete's sake, "shut the front door."
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Originally Posted by Mallory
For Pete's sake, "shut the front door."
Aww, bless.

If you can't take it, don't give it out. Perhaps this is why you prefer people who don't say what they are thinking ...
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Originally Posted by Mallory
For Pete's sake, "shut the front door."
Wasn't it Everard?
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Originally Posted by Mallory
That's what makes American and Aussie men so incredibly sexy! You never know what they are thinking. So much more interesting than boring sarcastic men who think they are funny!
That's it? This comment (which I don't particularly agree with) then leads to the TIO twins bunfest??

Back on topic? Or are you two having too much fun?
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That's it? This comment (which I don't particularly agree with) then leads to the TIO twins bunfest??

Back on topic? Or are you two having too much fun?
Sorry Miss.
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Sorry Miss.
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Originally Posted by Mallory
That's what makes American and Aussie men so incredibly sexy! You never know what they are thinking. So much more interesting than boring sarcastic men who think they are funny!
The American guy my friend is dating never shuts up lol
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Originally Posted by SultanOfSwing
Americans and Australians are sarcastic sometimes, too.

What a ridiculous argument.
Of course it is a ridiculous argument, look who started it
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That's what makes American and Aussie men so incredibly sexy! You never know what they are thinking. So much more interesting than boring sarcastic men who think they are funny!
You defeated your own argument, there. If someone is being sarcastic, then by definition they are not saying what they are thinking.
Apparently it's better if you don't say what you think and aren't funny.
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Cor blimey, this threads been a bit quiet while I was gone!

Back in sunny England - biggest shockers so far-


The price of car insurance and not being allowed to keep my no claims. We were paying $360 a year in the us fully comp on a 2012 car with a 2.8 engine, here I'm having to pay about $2000 on a 1.6 vauxhall zaffira from 2000.

How cold the ocean is on a sunny day ...was quite used to Outer banks and Galveston beaches - not abersoch weather. kept wanting to wrap people in blankets! To cold to be on the beach in swimming costumes!

How little time it takes to do things because everything is only a few minutes away.

How I didn't have to show any passports, birth certificates, etc to register my kids at school and with the NHS ... They just took my word for it all.

Play groups .... How have I lived without mum and toddler groups for 8 years? Lovely.

Nothing has changed .... Nothing. Everything is the same and I bump into all the same people.

Getting a bank account... Holy mackerel. I was shocked how much suspicion I was treated with... I was interrogated to make sure I wasn't an international money launderer.

People laughing at my sense of humor and not giving me funny looks

I'm sure I will think of more...

Oh... Yes, chocolate eclairs and bake well tarts are as yummy as I remember, fish and chips are even better than remembered.

So far, very happy, feels like I have never been away and loving having family all around
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