Many moons ago.....
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Same in the US, living here has become very expensive. Would be/ soon-to-be immigrants seeking advice often don't believe the advice, and even some people who live here (and post on BE) are in denial (I'm not sure how that happens, but I suspect in large part it's because they bought their home many years ago and don't see the massive increase in housing costs - see below v ), but I wouldn't recommend coming to the US without a job that pays very well if you're moving to Boston, New York, DC, California etc.
Even in lower cost areas of the US the cost of buying or renting a home has doubled in the past decade. I thought that massive house price inflation was something I had left behind in the UK, but my home that I bought in 2012, is now worth three times what I paid for it, which is madness!
Even in lower cost areas of the US the cost of buying or renting a home has doubled in the past decade. I thought that massive house price inflation was something I had left behind in the UK, but my home that I bought in 2012, is now worth three times what I paid for it, which is madness!
Owning a home is not cheap either and I just spent 5 figures on a new septic system. Sorry, slightly off topic:-).
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.... Owning a home is not cheap either and I just spent 5 figures on a new septic system. Sorry, slightly off topic:-).
Last edited by Pulaski; Aug 28th 2023 at 3:49 pm.
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Reading the thread, St. Georges Girl' is "English" and England is her home.
There's a text in a John Le Carre book, the Tailor of Panama, that sums it up:
‘And you don’t feel — having skipped around the globe so much - family here, there and everywhere - dual passports -
that you’re as it were too un-English ... Too much a citizen of the world, rather than one of us?
‘England’s where I keep my toothbrush, he replied ... "
It's sensible to pay heed to people saying a location has changed, but not too much. Most western countries appear to have experienced similar changes, both positive and negative in the past few years / decades (and a particular change can be either, depending on your circumstances and outlook). And whether a location suits you is very much personal - relationship with family, preferred climate, lifestyle, personality, financial circumstances, job situation, etc. Lists are often published of the best / worst places to live, but they are very broad brush - a person may enjoy living in a "bad" location and dislike life in a "good" location, depending on their personality and circumstances.
There's a text in a John Le Carre book, the Tailor of Panama, that sums it up:
‘And you don’t feel — having skipped around the globe so much - family here, there and everywhere - dual passports -
that you’re as it were too un-English ... Too much a citizen of the world, rather than one of us?
‘England’s where I keep my toothbrush, he replied ... "
It's sensible to pay heed to people saying a location has changed, but not too much. Most western countries appear to have experienced similar changes, both positive and negative in the past few years / decades (and a particular change can be either, depending on your circumstances and outlook). And whether a location suits you is very much personal - relationship with family, preferred climate, lifestyle, personality, financial circumstances, job situation, etc. Lists are often published of the best / worst places to live, but they are very broad brush - a person may enjoy living in a "bad" location and dislike life in a "good" location, depending on their personality and circumstances.
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No idea, but there won't be too many 62 years old who have that amount of money. Being mortgage free with 400K in savings is a luxury and that should be more than enough to retire early.
Finding basic work shouldn't be a problem (if flexible) and you constantly hear businesses can't find staff.
Finding basic work shouldn't be a problem (if flexible) and you constantly hear businesses can't find staff.
As for work it’s reassuring to know it is possible to find work. I have been in banking/finance but am very flexible as to what I do next.
nothing wrong with NZ if you have family and close connections here but I don’t so that’s the pull back for me…has been ongoing shall I shan’t I foe the last ten years! It’s a tough decision but the indecision is also very stressful
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thanks for that it’s hard to know exactly how much is enough!
As for work it’s reassuring to know it is possible to find work. I have been in banking/finance but am very flexible as to what I do next.
nothing wrong with NZ if you have family and close connections here but I don’t so that’s the pull back for me…has been ongoing shall I shan’t I foe the last ten years! It’s a tough decision but the indecision is also very stressful
As for work it’s reassuring to know it is possible to find work. I have been in banking/finance but am very flexible as to what I do next.
nothing wrong with NZ if you have family and close connections here but I don’t so that’s the pull back for me…has been ongoing shall I shan’t I foe the last ten years! It’s a tough decision but the indecision is also very stressful
I have no experience in finding a job in your 60s but as mentioned above there seems to be a real shortage of workers so if you are prepared to be flexible you should be able to find something suitable.
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It's just about everyone and their aunties on FB and the hundreds on YT that are desperate to leave the UK that has frightened me. It is so good to hear someone say their life back home is fab, someone other than my family of course because they want us home. That's why I came back on BE, to hear from people who have actually lived overseas and then returned. People who have never lived anywhere else just can't see that there are problems everywhere around the world, although the lack of border control, not knowing who is entering and, what it will do for the future of our tiny island is worrying.
Can I ask which part of the UK you returned to?
