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alfista1 May 3rd 2018 10:26 pm

Leaving the UK again
 
Been such a tough time these last 4 years trying to integrate into the UK. My wife and son have never been that happy and we've decided to relocate back to Uruguay. Not been an easy deicision at all.

But family comes first and we just don't have that same family union here. The evening life and weather has also had a big impact on our decision.

We're planning to relocate by November so a lot of planning to do.

First concern is how to take our dog on the 24 hour trip!

Thanks for all the support I've received here over the past years.

BritInParis May 3rd 2018 10:46 pm

Re: Leaving the UK again
 
Why November? Why not wait a little longer so your wife can obtain her British citizenship?

alfista1 May 3rd 2018 10:53 pm

Re: Leaving the UK again
 

Originally Posted by BritInParis (Post 12494293)
Why November? Why not wait a little longer so your wife can obtain her British citizenship?

It will be a lot longer before she can get her passport.
These early years of childhood are vital for our son.
27/28 months more plus another year to get her permanent residency after ILR is just way too long. Years my son will never get back.

November to coincide with the Uruguayan school year.

BritInParis May 3rd 2018 11:03 pm

Re: Leaving the UK again
 
If you're a British citizen then your wife doesn't need to wait another year after she is granted ILR; she can apply immediately for British citizenship. She would need to wait for five years minus 28 days from her initial entry on a spouse visa in order to apply for ILR, so only exactly two more years from now. If your son returns to the UK in future years to settle it would mean you and his mother could come to the UK as well without restriction. Fast forward to your dotage and this could prove vital.

alfista1 May 3rd 2018 11:26 pm

Re: Leaving the UK again
 
I see now thanks. We misunderstood the extra year.

Well after many discussions about the future (including our son settling here in later life) she still has no interest in returning to the UK or getting citizenship now unfortunately.
She suffers daily, our son too so 2 years is a long time when you feel like that.

BritInParis May 3rd 2018 11:53 pm

Re: Leaving the UK again
 
Obviously it is your decision; I just feel that it could prove very valuable in the future if your wife requires care in her later years and your son and his family are in the UK.

alfista1 May 4th 2018 12:12 am

Re: Leaving the UK again
 

Originally Posted by BritInParis (Post 12494327)
Obviously it is your decision; I just feel that it could prove very valuable in the future if your wife requires care in her later years and your son and his family are in the UK.

Yes very valid points and I agree with you. I wish she would stay longer.
But she is putting our son first for his early years missing out on the family life.

Who knows what the immigration laws will be like in 20-30 years time.

BritInParis May 4th 2018 12:17 am

Re: Leaving the UK again
 

Originally Posted by alfista1 (Post 12494342)
Yes very valid points and I agree with you. I wish she would stay longer.
But she is putting our son first for his early years missing out on the family life.

Who knows what the immigration laws will be like in 20-30 years time.

My point exactly. A British passport would be the only guarantee.

alfista1 May 4th 2018 1:30 am

Re: Leaving the UK again
 
All I can say a mother will always put their child first. He's been resilient but needs his family more than ever now. Having that close united family develops their brain in ways we can't understand.

BritInParis May 4th 2018 1:42 am

Re: Leaving the UK again
 

Originally Posted by alfista1 (Post 12494406)
All I can say a mother will always put their child first. He's been resilient but needs his family more than ever now. Having that close united family develops their brain in ways we can't understand.

Best of luck. Let us know how it goes.

michali May 4th 2018 11:35 am

Re: Leaving the UK again
 
So sad to hear this but it is your decision. My husband regrets daily that he did not take out a British passport years ago when he had the opportunity. I, too, wish you and your family well and happy.

The wanderer. May 5th 2018 2:53 am

Re: Leaving the UK again
 
Are you using a pet transport company or going it alone?

Perth May 8th 2018 8:17 pm

Re: Leaving the UK again
 

Originally Posted by BritInParis (Post 12494300)
If you're a British citizen then your wife doesn't need to wait another year after she is granted ILR; she can apply immediately for British citizenship. She would need to wait for five years minus 28 days from her initial entry on a spouse visa in order to apply for ILR, so only exactly two more years from now. If your son returns to the UK in future years to settle it would mean you and his mother could come to the UK as well without restriction. Fast forward to your dotage and this could prove vital.

Sorry to jump in here - how long would the citizenship application take to process? Also, with only ILR, how long can one be out of the country without losing status? Thank you BIP!

alfista1 May 8th 2018 8:21 pm

Re: Leaving the UK again
 

Originally Posted by Perth (Post 12496430)
Sorry to jump in here - how long would the citizenship application take to process? Also, with only ILR, how long can one be out of the country without losing status? Thank you BIP!

Conditions of Indefinite LeavePlease note that once you have been granted ILR, it is important to try to not spend 2 years or over outside of the UK, as this can lead to it being revoked. In order to avoid this, most migrants will be able to apply for British Citizenship after 1 year as a permanent resident after qualifying.

alfista1 May 8th 2018 8:22 pm

Re: Leaving the UK again
 

Originally Posted by michali (Post 12494699)
So sad to hear this but it is your decision. My husband regrets daily that he did not take out a British passport years ago when he had the opportunity. I, too, wish you and your family well and happy.

Thank you. We can always go through the process again if we are desperate to live in the UK again.


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