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Old Jun 27th 2007, 12:11 pm
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Hi all

Sorry ive not been on for ages but unfortunately i usually only use the library computer & its dosnt allow access to forums. Ive found this internet cafe now so may try & get on more!!

Just to let you know the latest from me!!

Basically my hubs is a bastard!!! (sorry for language) & there is no chance of us patching up.

Ive just found out ( i was suss for a week) that within a week of me getting home he has already found someone else!! She is only 19 & has never had a propeer boyfriend. She is a friend pf some friends we had there who oddly enough didnt rate Si very highly as they thought he treated me quite bad! Im totally & utterly gutted as i did think that he loved me still regardless. I feel its all my fault & i failed but having just spoke to his ex she says he wasnt much better with her i.e bossy, controlling & had a bad temper! She is really annoyed at him as Stepson is still there & she is now actually thinking of bringing him back here!

At least i just know now i did the right thing by leaving as prob would have had another 'affair as he did at xmas. Im hpoing to watch it all go horribly wrong for him. He has made no conatct hardly with megy apart from when ive rang her text so its his loss & as far as im concerned i want no more to do with him aprt from meg! He is behaving like some teenager rather than a grown adult. In fact i should laugh really as its quite pathetic!

He has changed beyond belief anyway over the time we have been in Oz & i hope that one day he will realise just what he lost. i wont be waitibng though & intend to go out sat night in cardiff & find meself a nice man!!!!

Still no luck with hosuing atm. Am hoping to get some money together for a place in cardiff so i can get on the housing list!!

Anyway hope everyone is well & i will catch up with you all again real soon!

Hope all those that have returned ie Stu, mick & jo are all settling ok!!

take care xxxxxxx
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Hi all

Sorry ive not been on for ages but unfortunately i usually only use the library computer & its dosnt allow access to forums. Ive found this internet cafe now so may try & get on more!!

Just to let you know the latest from me!!

Basically my hubs is a bastard!!! (sorry for language) & there is no chance of us patching up.

Ive just found out ( i was suss for a week) that within a week of me getting home he has already found someone else!! She is only 19 & has never had a propeer boyfriend. She is a friend pf some friends we had there who oddly enough didnt rate Si very highly as they thought he treated me quite bad! Im totally & utterly gutted as i did think that he loved me still regardless. I feel its all my fault & i failed but having just spoke to his ex she says he wasnt much better with her i.e bossy, controlling & had a bad temper! She is really annoyed at him as Stepson is still there & she is now actually thinking of bringing him back here!

At least i just know now i did the right thing by leaving as prob would have had another 'affair as he did at xmas. Im hpoing to watch it all go horribly wrong for him. He has made no conatct hardly with megy apart from when ive rang her text so its his loss & as far as im concerned i want no more to do with him aprt from meg! He is behaving like some teenager rather than a grown adult. In fact i should laugh really as its quite pathetic!

He has changed beyond belief anyway over the time we have been in Oz & i hope that one day he will realise just what he lost. i wont be waitibng though & intend to go out sat night in cardiff & find meself a nice man!!!!

Still no luck with hosuing atm. Am hoping to get some money together for a place in cardiff so i can get on the housing list!!

Anyway hope everyone is well & i will catch up with you all again real soon!

Hope all those that have returned ie Stu, mick & jo are all settling ok!!

take care xxxxxxx
Hey Jude - great to hear from you - you deserve so much better than him and one day you'll find someone who will love you and be mature enough to be in an adult relationship! `

Glad you still sound so strong through all the heartache - you are truly amazing and should be very, very proud of yourself!

On a less supportive note - what the blummin' hell have you done with the weather - it was lovely until you and Stu got home - it's been p*ss*ng down nearly non stop since you guys touched down in the UK!!

All good wishes to you and your little girl as you sort out your lives back here, take care!!
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Hi all

Sorry ive not been on for ages but unfortunately i usually only use the library computer & its dosnt allow access to forums. Ive found this internet cafe now so may try & get on more!!

Just to let you know the latest from me!!

Basically my hubs is a bastard!!! (sorry for language) & there is no chance of us patching up.

Ive just found out ( i was suss for a week) that within a week of me getting home he has already found someone else!! She is only 19 & has never had a propeer boyfriend. She is a friend pf some friends we had there who oddly enough didnt rate Si very highly as they thought he treated me quite bad! Im totally & utterly gutted as i did think that he loved me still regardless. I feel its all my fault & i failed but having just spoke to his ex she says he wasnt much better with her i.e bossy, controlling & had a bad temper! She is really annoyed at him as Stepson is still there & she is now actually thinking of bringing him back here!

At least i just know now i did the right thing by leaving as prob would have had another 'affair as he did at xmas. Im hpoing to watch it all go horribly wrong for him. He has made no conatct hardly with megy apart from when ive rang her text so its his loss & as far as im concerned i want no more to do with him aprt from meg! He is behaving like some teenager rather than a grown adult. In fact i should laugh really as its quite pathetic!

He has changed beyond belief anyway over the time we have been in Oz & i hope that one day he will realise just what he lost. i wont be waitibng though & intend to go out sat night in cardiff & find meself a nice man!!!!

Still no luck with hosuing atm. Am hoping to get some money together for a place in cardiff so i can get on the housing list!!

Anyway hope everyone is well & i will catch up with you all again real soon!

Hope all those that have returned ie Stu, mick & jo are all settling ok!!

take care xxxxxxx
Ahh hi there Jude
Jesus, you poor thing, what a w****r.
Much as it must hurt, least you know you did the right thing leaving. You're well out of it. Its in no way your fault, hes resposible for his actions, not you.
Head high my dear. One step at a time and you'll be fine.
Dont worry, you'll meet a lovely man who deserves you
take good, your in my thoughts
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[QUOTE=pommybird;4975579

On a less supportive note - what the blummin' hell have you done with the weather - it was lovely until you and Stu got home - it's been p*ss*ng down nearly non stop since you guys touched down in the UK!!

All good wishes to you and your little girl as you sort out your lives back here, take care!![/QUOTE]

Thats what everyone has said!! Its been awful hasnt it! I know i wanted rain again but this is ridicolous!!
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Ahh hi there Jude
Head high my dear.
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Took the words right out of my mouth!! You did the right thing, Jude. Although it turned out that he was a complete waste of time, he wasn't a complete waste altogether. You got your daughter out of it all. Onward and upward!
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Took the words right out of my mouth!! You did the right thing, Jude. Although it turned out that he was a complete waste of time, he wasn't a complete waste altogether. You got your daughter out of it all. Onward and upward!
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Hi Jude

His loss not yours. Thank God you did get on that plane. You are one strong woman

Oh, and have fun on the pull!! Be choosey
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You have so done the right thing...you could of wasted years on that guy...now you can go get a real man....

I feel sorry for his new girl...she is young enough for him to control 100%...
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Although I'm very sorry to hear about these events, the whole scenario is now moving back into realms I've seen and heard about so many times before. Thus finally becoming understandable to me.

Best of Luck Jude, and get yourself a damn good lawyer.
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Originally Posted by megansmummy
Hi all

Sorry ive not been on for ages but unfortunately i usually only use the library computer & its dosnt allow access to forums. Ive found this internet cafe now so may try & get on more!!

Just to let you know the latest from me!!

Basically my hubs is a bastard!!! (sorry for language) & there is no chance of us patching up.

Ive just found out ( i was suss for a week) that within a week of me getting home he has already found someone else!! She is only 19 & has never had a propeer boyfriend. She is a friend pf some friends we had there who oddly enough didnt rate Si very highly as they thought he treated me quite bad! Im totally & utterly gutted as i did think that he loved me still regardless. I feel its all my fault & i failed but having just spoke to his ex she says he wasnt much better with her i.e bossy, controlling & had a bad temper! She is really annoyed at him as Stepson is still there & she is now actually thinking of bringing him back here!

At least i just know now i did the right thing by leaving as prob would have had another 'affair as he did at xmas. Im hpoing to watch it all go horribly wrong for him. He has made no conatct hardly with megy apart from when ive rang her text so its his loss & as far as im concerned i want no more to do with him aprt from meg! He is behaving like some teenager rather than a grown adult. In fact i should laugh really as its quite pathetic!

He has changed beyond belief anyway over the time we have been in Oz & i hope that one day he will realise just what he lost. i wont be waitibng though & intend to go out sat night in cardiff & find meself a nice man!!!!

Still no luck with hosuing atm. Am hoping to get some money together for a place in cardiff so i can get on the housing list!!

Anyway hope everyone is well & i will catch up with you all again real soon!

Hope all those that have returned ie Stu, mick & jo are all settling ok!!

take care xxxxxxx
Sorry to hear your now ex is a t**t (NOT) So pleased that you went when you did. Its the best thing you could have done for yourself and little one.
You should be very proud of the decision you have made as they have been the right ones. Anyway take care and a f*****g good night on Saturday and enjoy it!!!!
Speak soon Jude

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Hi Jude

His loss not yours. Thank God you did get on that plane. You are one strong woman

Oh, and have fun on the pull!! Be choosey
She can afford to be, you go Girl
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Im so sorry to hear this, Ive not spoken to you before but I have read your previous posts about your heart wrenching decision to come home and I take my hat off to you, you are a very brave woman.

There are no words to say that will make you feel better, but hold on to the fact that you have already proved you are strong and eventually the pain will lesson.
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Your ex sounds like hes just proved you made the right decision in returning, pardon le french but what a tosser. Your best out of it, best wishes to you and your daughter for your new life
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At least you know that you did the right thing in not only leaving Oz but leaving your hubby. I'm so sorry that it's all worked out like this for you - hopefully it won't be too long before things start to get better for you.

Chin up and stay positive - you can do this
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Originally Posted by megansmummy
Hi all

Sorry ive not been on for ages but unfortunately i usually only use the library computer & its dosnt allow access to forums. Ive found this internet cafe now so may try & get on more!!

He has changed beyond belief anyway over the time we have been in Oz & i hope that one day he will realise just what he lost. i wont be waitibng though & intend to go out sat night in cardiff & find meself a nice man!!!!
Why dont you spend some time on yourself, enjoy your space rather than do something you may regret, besides, is there a chance he's trying to winding you up a little.

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