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At last!!

Im leaving on saturday afternoon & will arrive on sunday morning UK time in newcastle!!

Will stay at my sisters for a bit so i can sort housing & money then will go see mum for as bit while i wait for news of a house or flat!!

Cant beleieve it. Im finally coming home!!

Its all a bit sad though & si has been crying. Im actually quite numb & i dont think it will hit me till im home & settled

I will miss him sooo much but i know ive made the right decision for me & my daughter!

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Jeez, that couldn't have been easy.

I hope everything works out very well for you, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger.

Remember to post updates when you are back!:)

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You go Girl :thumbup:

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I wish you all the happiness in the world for you and your daughter. You do deserve to be happy and you have my admiration, you are a very brave lady.

Take care and keep in touch with us all.

Love LibbyX

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Congratulations doesn't seem to be quite the right word to use, but well done you. Best of luck for your new life back home.

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gosh,THIS saturday ??? thats quick !!! good luck,chin up,dont worry,im sure another door will open as the OZ one slams shut in your face !!

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Maybe your husband crying is a sign that he is thinking a bit more about the situation? I don't want to get your hopes up but all might not be lost for the future.

Hope it works out for you:)

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That's what I was thinking. I really hope he realises just how much he does love you both. I think both of you beging apart will help sort out emotions.

I wish you every happiness. As someone else has said ...you are one very brave lady :thumbup:

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Just want to wish you well Jude. You are a very brave lady and i hope things turn out fantastic for you back in the UK. That you deserve.;)

I wonder given time, your hubby will regret not returning with you!!

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omg i dont know what to put? congratulations and well done on biting the bullet and booking and sorry it all had to come to this, i mirror what others have written, who knows what the future holds, he may not have thought you were actually gonna do it!

goodluck for the future:)

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Its all come along very quickly Jude.

I'm glad that you're feeling happy about your return anyway and I really hope that something can be resolved between you and your husband, maybe he will follow you at some stage.

All the best with your life back in the UK anyway. I can't believe you've beat me home! We fly on Tuesday. :)

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Ah Jude

Just echoing others replies.
I hope you leaving makes Si realize his priorities.
Good for you for being true to yourself though.
Hang in there, it will get better.
You're a brave & strong woman.
All the very bestest of luck for being back home

Keep us posted
Thinking of you
Tanya
xxxxxx

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Sorry Stu!!:(

Had to get one ASAP as it was too much leaving it any longer!

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The sooner you're happier the better! :)

We wont be far behind.

PS - It looks like you're going back to some good weather anyway, its forecast to be 26 degrees and sunny in Wigan on Sunday! Makes a change! :)

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Home from home then!!:rofl:

Hope its not too bloody hot as thats half the reason im leaving!:blink::D

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Hi Jude

Just wanted to echo whats already been said. You truly are brave, and you really deserve to be happy. Good luck for the future mate ;)

By the way, you have beat us home as well! :lol:

Jo

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I think its been easier for me to get back so quick as its only me my girl.

Im not having to worry about shipping costs etc & saving money which you guys do

It will all be worth it in the end though eh!!:D

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It will be worth it.
Be happy

Be good if we could all book a plane out 2gether - those leaving that is

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All the best you are so brave I wish you well.
Bec

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yes it would we could have big cheers on tke off and landing!:lol:

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Be the best flight ever!
Champagne sir/madam - oooh yes please!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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yes thats what i intend, with three children as well:lol:

hubby can look after the girls:lol:

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When you off?
Soon

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31st july, im excited today, no nervous belly:lol:

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tons of good luck....k on it's way.....i'll be in blighty sunday but just for a few weeks this time however one day i'll be back permanently :)

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BRILLIANT.........So pleased for you.
how long have you been here

I've been costing o/w tickets today...

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All the very best to all of you whatever the future may hold, update us on how things are going.

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Good luck Jude :thumbup:

Do you think the complex you are in will let you out without charging you a fee ;)

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Good luck with everything Jude. It can't be easy for you to do this - it's hard enough returning when you come back as a couple but to do it alone just shows how brave and strong you are. That strenghth will get you through the next few difficult months. I can't tell you just how much admiration I have for you.

You deserve all the happiness in the world and I hope you find it sooner rather than later :thumbsup:

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Probably not Rich!!!:D

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Hi Jude - this thing called life can be a right stinker can't it!! But in my experience when things are bad, good times are always on the horizon - good luck and best wishes for your return to the UK, who knows what the future holds for you but I'm sure good times are just around the corner......

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Good luck Jude and a safe journey home. Like all the others have said you are a very brave young woman. I hope you find happiness as you and your daughter deserve it.

Will catch up with you when we get back if your still in Newcastle.
Take care
Lynne x

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When do you go back then Lynne & where will you be as i will eventually be in newcastle permanently so be good to see a friendly face!!:D

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So glad you have made the right decision for you and Meggy and stuck to it ! It will be a bittersweet few days, but you will soon be home. Once the jetlag has gone you can enjoy planning your new future. It is great to be here. Good luck darling. x

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Not be back until middle/end of August, Durham (just outside) and yes it will be good to catch up.
Have PM'd you Jude

Lynne:)

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Thanks to everyone for all your good wishes!:D

Your support on here has been tremondous & i honestly dont know what id have done without you all :thumbsup::D

I will certainly be staying around as ive made a couple of nice 'friends' now

As for people saying im brave! I dont see it like that at all. I just think it was something i neeeded to do & did it. Its weird as well as im not worried anymore about going as i now know ive made absolutely the right decision

thanks again xx

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Sneak ok at night, over the fence job when are guards are not looking :)

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Good luck and best wishes for a safe journey home.

Look forward to the update on "the other side" :)

Keep in touch

C

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I have enjoyed reading the high and lows of your posts, and can relate to everything mentioned, hope you have a safe journey, keep in touch on your return.