Ruby Murray

How many have done this? How hard was it for you to make the break? Did you find life better back in the UK without the OH? Need advice, things not good in this household now.

JAJ

Depending on circumstances, the other spouse may have the right to prevent children from being taken back to the U.K.

Ruby Murray

We're not married. 10 y.o. daughter is on my passport, 17 y.o. son has his own. OH would not prevent me leaving with either of the kids. Just want to hear from people's experiences on whether their expectations of going it alone back to the UK lived up to what they hoped, or whether they struggled and missed OH and the country they left.

burton bunch

Well pick me up off the floor Rube

So sorry to hear your little bit of trouble
Gaynor
x

sunbather

I have a friend who has returned in just these circumstances about 4 weeks ago. She's due to ring me this evening so I'll be able to get her first impressions although it's still early days yet.

Ruby Murray

Hi Gay, yeah I know....it's been going on for a while now and not getting any better. Glad you're enjoying life in the windy (albertan) city

burton bunch

Well if you need a good Manc shoulder to lean you know how to get in touch.

Fleaflyfloflum

Sorry to hear this Ruby. Must be a very hard situation to be in. Cant help as never been in your shoes but can only imagine the heartache

Big hugs x

dingbat

No...... So sorry to hear this. P.M. to talk if you want to....

Ruby Murray

Thank you....I mean it xx
Not many words have been spoken between us tonight but those that have could well have set the damage in, and I don't know what tomorrow brings. I had more to drink than he did so he'll have a better memory

I would still appreciate views and advice on other women's experiences on how it was for them having to go back on their own though.

Good night all.
Rubes x

ann m

Sorry to hear this possible turn of events Ruby. Big cyber hugs and I hope things look a little better in the morning

quoll

Aww {{{hugs}}} Ruby. Wishing you a magic wand so you can sort out all the hassles!

Yoong

Sorry to hear about your heart ache Ruby.
Any thought about going through couple
counselling before the final break up?
Sending positive vibes and big hugs to you.
Yoong

G586

http://www.direct.gov.uk/en/BritonsL...eUk/DG_4000140

A practical place to start.....

I had a friend who moved alone with kids, she managed and just picked a place randomly that felt right to her and just got on with things, hard but doable.

Elaine B.

Hey Ruby

just wanted to send a hug I hope things get sorted one way of another.