Going Back
#16
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Re: Going Back
Thats why i want to go home now its so hard already to get on the property ladder in uk.
#17
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Re: Going Back
Hi to everyone,
Ive been reading many threads on here in hope of something that will make up my mind on what to do. im hearing such horror stories about moving to OZ with finding work etc and how difficult it is as a british (Pom) to interact with the Aussies.
My husband and I have to 2 year old twin girls and are at this very moment just signed the application forms to move to OZ. For a few weeks now ive started to look at my life here and weighed up the pro's and con's of staying. Here, we are very financially secure with good jobs and a nice house in a good location and after reading some of the treads its like am I mad in throwing all that away for a dream I have as it seems not to be all rosy. I think I took the rose tinted glasses off a while ago, unfortunately having paid £3,000 for an agent, but this is nothing to what I could lose. Its something I want to do but am I just jriskingeverything considering my husband would not be able to get as well paid job over there and my skills are on the "most Wanted" list but "Is IT", I mean I think we may struggle when we get there like most for jobs etc and its even harder when you have children to consider. I would really like to move away from my family, id miss my friends but only them so family isn't an issue for me.
My question is, should I post this envelope that is sat on my desk now? Sorry any advise would be great
Ive been reading many threads on here in hope of something that will make up my mind on what to do. im hearing such horror stories about moving to OZ with finding work etc and how difficult it is as a british (Pom) to interact with the Aussies.
My husband and I have to 2 year old twin girls and are at this very moment just signed the application forms to move to OZ. For a few weeks now ive started to look at my life here and weighed up the pro's and con's of staying. Here, we are very financially secure with good jobs and a nice house in a good location and after reading some of the treads its like am I mad in throwing all that away for a dream I have as it seems not to be all rosy. I think I took the rose tinted glasses off a while ago, unfortunately having paid £3,000 for an agent, but this is nothing to what I could lose. Its something I want to do but am I just jriskingeverything considering my husband would not be able to get as well paid job over there and my skills are on the "most Wanted" list but "Is IT", I mean I think we may struggle when we get there like most for jobs etc and its even harder when you have children to consider. I would really like to move away from my family, id miss my friends but only them so family isn't an issue for me.
My question is, should I post this envelope that is sat on my desk now? Sorry any advise would be great
#18
Re: Going Back
What amazes me is that there is a massive shortage of teachers all over OZ, so when i hear that a professional teacher from the UK is struggling to get a job, it is just bloody ridiculous!!!!!
What on earth are the government trying to do, wanting trained and skilled workers, then when they get here it's like "f**k off"..
I too am going home for the same reasons. No work, no money, no fun!
What on earth are the government trying to do, wanting trained and skilled workers, then when they get here it's like "f**k off"..
I too am going home for the same reasons. No work, no money, no fun!
Anyway my teacher training and first teaching position were in Queensland before I went to the UK with my future OH. So if a Queensland trained teacher cannot get work in Queensland then I really feel for those who came over here on the promise that Australia needed teachers.
#19
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Re: Going Back
Regarding jobs, the skills shorage ... most of the skills shortage jobs in OZ are not in the bits immigrants want to move to. They want the beach, the city the lovely little holiday towns where theres probably already 100 people for each job> The jobs oz cant fill are not in these places but in the dusty, hot, isolated rural areas where aussies wont move to. As for low unemployment, 2 hours is considered employed.
#20
Re: Going Back
Regarding jobs, the skills shorage ... most of the skills shortage jobs in OZ are not in the bits immigrants want to move to. They want the beach, the city the lovely little holiday towns where theres probably already 100 people for each job> The jobs oz cant fill are not in these places but in the dusty, hot, isolated rural areas where aussies wont move to. As for low unemployment, 2 hours is considered employed.
#21
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Location: Back home :)
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Re: Going Back
Hi to everyone,
Ive been reading many threads on here in hope of something that will make up my mind on what to do. im hearing such horror stories about moving to OZ with finding work etc and how difficult it is as a british (Pom) to interact with the Aussies.
My husband and I have to 2 year old twin girls and are at this very moment just signed the application forms to move to OZ. For a few weeks now ive started to look at my life here and weighed up the pro's and con's of staying. Here, we are very financially secure with good jobs and a nice house in a good location and after reading some of the treads its like am I mad in throwing all that away for a dream I have as it seems not to be all rosy. I think I took the rose tinted glasses off a while ago, unfortunately having paid £3,000 for an agent, but this is nothing to what I could lose. Its something I want to do but am I just jriskingeverything considering my husband would not be able to get as well paid job over there and my skills are on the "most Wanted" list but "Is IT", I mean I think we may struggle when we get there like most for jobs etc and its even harder when you have children to consider. I would really like to move away from my family, id miss my friends but only them so family isn't an issue for me.
My question is, should I post this envelope that is sat on my desk now? Sorry any advise would be great
Ive been reading many threads on here in hope of something that will make up my mind on what to do. im hearing such horror stories about moving to OZ with finding work etc and how difficult it is as a british (Pom) to interact with the Aussies.
My husband and I have to 2 year old twin girls and are at this very moment just signed the application forms to move to OZ. For a few weeks now ive started to look at my life here and weighed up the pro's and con's of staying. Here, we are very financially secure with good jobs and a nice house in a good location and after reading some of the treads its like am I mad in throwing all that away for a dream I have as it seems not to be all rosy. I think I took the rose tinted glasses off a while ago, unfortunately having paid £3,000 for an agent, but this is nothing to what I could lose. Its something I want to do but am I just jriskingeverything considering my husband would not be able to get as well paid job over there and my skills are on the "most Wanted" list but "Is IT", I mean I think we may struggle when we get there like most for jobs etc and its even harder when you have children to consider. I would really like to move away from my family, id miss my friends but only them so family isn't an issue for me.
My question is, should I post this envelope that is sat on my desk now? Sorry any advise would be great
Some will say go for it, if its your dream. I would have said the same thing.
Now, I think if you are happy where you are, why come.
If you do, keep your house and rent it out
all the best
not much help I know
#22
Re: Going Back
I agree! If you have the wanderlust you may have to get it out of your system, but boy can it be heart wrenching and expensive. With hindsight, it is not something I would put my family through.
#24
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Location: Back home :)
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Re: Going Back
But why move to another country to want to be with people from the UK.
Yes you have stuff in common (humour for one) which is brill but if you're migrating, that shouldnt be a concern. If it is, you should not not come
#25
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Joined: Jan 2005
Location: The Shoalhaven, New South Wales, Australia
Posts: 11,056
Re: Going Back
You've said it all there - you are financially secure, live in a nice house, working within a social system you understand with friends whose company you enjoy. What do you have to gain by moving to Australia? The fact that your skills are on the most-wanted list means nothing. It doesn't guarantee you work in any way shape or form. And as Jad 'n' Rich have pointed out - what work there is, is usually well inland and not in the picturesque coastal settlements that all the immigrants want to live in.
If you want some excitement in your life, take up a hobby. Don't want to sound rude, but your story is familiar and the outcome is too ...
#26
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Location: Cottingham E.Yorks
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Re: Going Back
Thanks for all your comments
Well its still sat here on my desk so I havent posted it yet. Its not excitement im looking for,I have plenty of that already, its a change in life, a new direction a different upbringing for my children, some may say a better life. The question im looking to find answers for is....... "IS IT REALLY"
People's different experiences, those who have gone and its great and those who have come back and there why's! im not the type of person thats thinks its all beaches and sunshine thats not the reasons for wanting to move, its the quality of life and the processes etc (work, medicare, Schooling and such things) which are bothering me at the moment and making me question the idea.
I was in a shop this afternoon and there was a girl in there I think she was from South Africa and she was telling one assistant about the medical care and if you were out of a job over there. i kind of got closer so I could ear wig more and it kind of got me thinking her words were "sure its colder here but you have to que in the blazing heat for medical attention and if your out of a job ur on the streets, to be here you dont know how lucky you are to be British"......... or do we? so why do so many emigrate??
So is it for Oz or
Well its still sat here on my desk so I havent posted it yet. Its not excitement im looking for,I have plenty of that already, its a change in life, a new direction a different upbringing for my children, some may say a better life. The question im looking to find answers for is....... "IS IT REALLY"
People's different experiences, those who have gone and its great and those who have come back and there why's! im not the type of person thats thinks its all beaches and sunshine thats not the reasons for wanting to move, its the quality of life and the processes etc (work, medicare, Schooling and such things) which are bothering me at the moment and making me question the idea.
I was in a shop this afternoon and there was a girl in there I think she was from South Africa and she was telling one assistant about the medical care and if you were out of a job over there. i kind of got closer so I could ear wig more and it kind of got me thinking her words were "sure its colder here but you have to que in the blazing heat for medical attention and if your out of a job ur on the streets, to be here you dont know how lucky you are to be British"......... or do we? so why do so many emigrate??
So is it for Oz or
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#27
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Posts: 370
Re: Going Back
Thanks for all your comments
Well its still sat here on my desk so I havent posted it yet. Its not excitement im looking for,I have plenty of that already, its a change in life, a new direction a different upbringing for my children, some may say a better life. The question im looking to find answers for is....... "IS IT REALLY"
People's different experiences, those who have gone and its great and those who have come back and there why's! im not the type of person thats thinks its all beaches and sunshine thats not the reasons for wanting to move, its the quality of life and the processes etc (work, medicare, Schooling and such things) which are bothering me at the moment and making me question the idea.
I was in a shop this afternoon and there was a girl in there I think she was from South Africa and she was telling one assistant about the medical care and if you were out of a job over there. i kind of got closer so I could ear wig more and it kind of got me thinking her words were "sure its colder here but you have to que in the blazing heat for medical attention and if your out of a job ur on the streets, to be here you dont know how lucky you are to be British"......... or do we? so why do so many emigrate??
So is it for Oz or
Well its still sat here on my desk so I havent posted it yet. Its not excitement im looking for,I have plenty of that already, its a change in life, a new direction a different upbringing for my children, some may say a better life. The question im looking to find answers for is....... "IS IT REALLY"
People's different experiences, those who have gone and its great and those who have come back and there why's! im not the type of person thats thinks its all beaches and sunshine thats not the reasons for wanting to move, its the quality of life and the processes etc (work, medicare, Schooling and such things) which are bothering me at the moment and making me question the idea.
I was in a shop this afternoon and there was a girl in there I think she was from South Africa and she was telling one assistant about the medical care and if you were out of a job over there. i kind of got closer so I could ear wig more and it kind of got me thinking her words were "sure its colder here but you have to que in the blazing heat for medical attention and if your out of a job ur on the streets, to be here you dont know how lucky you are to be British"......... or do we? so why do so many emigrate??
So is it for Oz or
Honestly, I seriously do believe that Australia offers a better lifestyle-objectively- If you can avoid coming to dislike the place over non-tangible things-like "its bland" or trite things like "I miss tesco's."
Althought I do think the NHS is better and more attentive than medicare.
#28
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Joined: Oct 2006
Location: Kings Moss, UK - it's a bit like Emmerdale
Posts: 1,389
Re: Going Back
Honestly, I seriously do believe that Australia offers a better lifestyle-objectively- If you can avoid coming to dislike the place over non-tangible things-like "its bland" or trite things like "I miss tesco's."
Althought I do think the NHS is better and more attentive than medicare.
Althought I do think the NHS is better and more attentive than medicare.
For us our lifestyle was far superior in the UK to anything we had in Oz.
#29
Re: Going Back
we arrived end of Jan 07 we went to the Gold Coast we rented a flat in currumbin which is a really nice place my daughter settled in really well she went to Elenora high School she loved it there my son went to currumbin junior school he has never liked it over here in Oz.
we thought it would be so easy to find work me being a chef manager in uk ,my wife a teacher how wrong was i we applied for at least over 100 jobs the worst thing is you never here from them if you have the job or not which really pissed me off at time the 4 months or so bring has been the most frustrated time of our life!! I did mange to find some causal work which turned out shit to they just out to use you when they want you the would rather have school kids to do the jobs for peanuts,wages here are so low price of food is expensive here to within 4 months of being here we spent over £10k.
its all money money ,and nothing coming in ,now we are getting so bored here to.We love it here to but the work situation is crazy its a common thing here to.
Here its not what you know its who,
we thought it would be so easy to find work me being a chef manager in uk ,my wife a teacher how wrong was i we applied for at least over 100 jobs the worst thing is you never here from them if you have the job or not which really pissed me off at time the 4 months or so bring has been the most frustrated time of our life!! I did mange to find some causal work which turned out shit to they just out to use you when they want you the would rather have school kids to do the jobs for peanuts,wages here are so low price of food is expensive here to within 4 months of being here we spent over £10k.
its all money money ,and nothing coming in ,now we are getting so bored here to.We love it here to but the work situation is crazy its a common thing here to.
Here its not what you know its who,
We made the decision to return and to be honest it is the best decision we have ever made. We came home £25,000 down from the equity from our house that we sold but we have started again and have never been happier.
Susan
#30
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Joined: May 2007
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Re: Going Back
What amazes me is that there is a massive shortage of teachers all over OZ, so when i hear that a professional teacher from the UK is struggling to get a job, it is just bloody ridiculous!!!!!
What on earth are the government trying to do, wanting trained and skilled workers, then when they get here it's like "f**k off"..
I too am going home for the same reasons. No work, no money, no fun!
What on earth are the government trying to do, wanting trained and skilled workers, then when they get here it's like "f**k off"..
I too am going home for the same reasons. No work, no money, no fun!