Michicko

Hi ive asked this question but im still confuse. 4 months ago i had a fight with my husband . Our neighbor called a police and told that my husband abusing me which is domestic violence police came.and they talk me and my husband in the street inside in a seperate police car. They recorded the conversation. Police ask me my date of birth nationality and full name. They asked me what happened same to my partner and we said we just had a misunderstanding. I said to the police that i just get offended on his words snd end up in arguments. There was no physicsl abuse. I didnt say thay my husband abusing me. When they asked me. I even said i love my husband. We just had a misunderstanding. The police let us go but they follow us on our way home and check inside our house and they took off. My question is. Is this is a caution or warning. Coz im worrying if i have to declare this in my application in flr in the future that i have caution. Which i dont remember signing anything or giving a letter. In the incident it looks like i am the victim of my husband. But its not true its just a misunderstanding as i said to the police. Im the one whos in the spouse visa .please help. Im so worried thank you. Idont know if i have a police caution or warning jn this incident.

moneypenny20

I've moved you to the Moving Back forum, more support from Brits with knowledge there. I have no clue, sorry.

mikelincs

If you had been given a caution, then you would have had to sign some sort of form and would have been given a copy. Sounds a bit like it was just them checking up. They seem to have taken no official action.

Michicko

No i havent given anything and never sign anything. They just let us go and follow us on the way home check inside our house and took off. Never heard anything about them .its been 4 months now. I didnt say my husband abusing me when they are questioning me. I defended my husband. Coz it looks like in their questions i am a victim of domestic violence. But i said no we just had a misunderstanding and i get offended. Is this means i dont have to declare anything if i have neen question do i have a cauiton or warning .when i applied in my future spouse visa. Since that fight we never past the day without settling things up. Lesson learned.

Michicko

Its ok moneypenny20. Thank you so much for your help. No need to say sorry.

Dorothy

No, you don't have to declare anything. You have not got a caution from this incident. You have nothing to worry about with this argument.

Michicko

Thank you dorothy i can perpectly breath fine now. Lol. Been thinking about it since last night. Thank you so much.

Michicko

Also is this means by recording the conversation when they are questioning me and my husband and asking my date of birth. Name and nationality is just normal? What is that for? Sorry for asking again and again

Dorothy

It's normal. Stop fretting about it.

quiltman

As Dorothy says, it's normal. UK police are required to collect this type of information for the statistics in order to show that certain ethnic groups are not being disproportionately stopped. There were cases in the past where certain groups complained they were "always" being stopped and questioned and as at that time a stop was not required to record ethnicity, only when cautioned/arrested, it was not easy to deny/substantiate the claims , so eventually the rules were changed so that when anyone was stopped by the police this info is collected.

Michicko

Ok thank you guys for your help

scot47

It is "procedure" Like recording your occupation.

Michicko

So if i have been question if i have been caution or have warning. I will say no.