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Marmalade Feb 14th 2008 10:09 am

Re: Best decision ever!!
 

Originally Posted by lorids (Post 5930003)
Hi Thought I would update you all. Flew home on Monday night with Emirates , fantastic flights, only half full so plenty of room to crash out for the children plus chocolate for them ....breakfast lunch and dinner!!

Arrived into Glasgow on a beautiful cold crisp sunny..yes sunny morning and felt FRESH air.....fantastic. One bag failed to arrive out of 7 so not bad and it was delivered last night.

Went for a 'making sure we don't fall asleep' walk along Troon beach, sun out, bright blue sky and a bit of snow on top of Goatfell looking over the sea to Arran.....postcard stuff. Even passed some families on the beach having picnics and making sandcastles,,,it's February!!(must have been Glaswegians!!)

Sat outside having a coffee listening to the fantastic scottish patter and so relieved by the warmth friendliness and humour. You do worry slightly that you put your rose tinted glasses on when not settling abroad but thank goodness it is what I expected and missed. The shops, TV and subtle advertising so refreshing compared to Perth.
Out golfing today with middle son walking around in his t-shirt just smiling..he hated the heat, So all I can say it just feels so right, I feel alive again, energetic and optimistic. The children are so happy to be home and so excited to be returning to school next week and have their social diaries filled,,oh to be young again!!

So for us so far the most fantastic decision and absolutely no regrets. feel far more settled as we have scratched the Oz itch and the icing on the cake will be when OH and dog return as well.

From a very happy returnee :thumbsup:

Thank you so much for that lovely post.:wub:

mumof5 Feb 14th 2008 10:40 am

Re: Best decision ever!!
 

Originally Posted by lorids (Post 5930003)
Hi Thought I would update you all. Flew home on Monday night with Emirates , fantastic flights, only half full so plenty of room to crash out for the children plus chocolate for them ....breakfast lunch and dinner!!

Arrived into Glasgow on a beautiful cold crisp sunny..yes sunny morning and felt FRESH air.....fantastic. One bag failed to arrive out of 7 so not bad and it was delivered last night.

Went for a 'making sure we don't fall asleep' walk along Troon beach, sun out, bright blue sky and a bit of snow on top of Goatfell looking over the sea to Arran.....postcard stuff. Even passed some families on the beach having picnics and making sandcastles,,,it's February!!(must have been Glaswegians!!)

Sat outside having a coffee listening to the fantastic scottish patter and so relieved by the warmth friendliness and humour. You do worry slightly that you put your rose tinted glasses on when not settling abroad but thank goodness it is what I expected and missed. The shops, TV and subtle advertising so refreshing compared to Perth.
Out golfing today with middle son walking around in his t-shirt just smiling..he hated the heat, So all I can say it just feels so right, I feel alive again, energetic and optimistic. The children are so happy to be home and so excited to be returning to school next week and have their social diaries filled,,oh to be young again!!

So for us so far the most fantastic decision and absolutely no regrets. feel far more settled as we have scratched the Oz itch and the icing on the cake will be when OH and dog return as well.

From a very happy returnee :thumbsup:

I am so glad that you are home and happy, I was thinking of you at the beginning of the week as I thought you would be leaving.It's really good to know that you feel instantly that you have made the right decision, although I have made my decision to go back I still have a few doubts. I think it's because I haven't been here long, but equally I just want to get home and get on with my life!!
Anyway have a fantastic weekend and hope the good weather continues.
Take Care

brits1 Feb 14th 2008 11:49 am

Re: Best decision ever!!
 

Originally Posted by kez81 (Post 5930013)
Thats fantastic you sound so happy!!! how long were you in perth for?

So glad you are happy to be home and long may it continue....it was lovely to read your thread as after being in Perth for 10 years now you have summed up life here to a tee!!!! and the Point of "you really should consider why you want to leave" is some of the best advise....
It won't be long before your Oh is with you...time does fly when your happier....
Good luck and best wishes to you all....
Jackie in a cloudy and cooler Perth today suits my mood!!! (I jut want to be home...hopefully soon....)

brits1 Feb 14th 2008 12:00 pm

Re: Best decision ever!!
 

Originally Posted by GILDOC (Post 5932129)
Can I also ask for your advice?
We are considering emigrating to Oz, you'll know the place I live (Millport). Have an ideal life here, good jobs, good house, family and friends but just hate the drinkign and ned culture here. Also prefer the sunshine and amount of sports available in Oz (we spent time working and living in Oz while on a 12 month visa) and don't really want our kids growing up to be neds!
Can I ask why you returned? Was the grass not as green on the other side?
Any advice would be appreciated, thanks

I was not going to reply to your thread as I made a rule not to influence anybody because of our wanting to move back to the U.K...so I will put it this way...if I had an ideal life, great/good jobs....and family and friends, would I give all that up....not on your life...because we did...we had all that...and while I am not saying life here in Aus/Perth has been all bad...there are some things you cannot replace.....as some replies have said...it does get to hot in the summer time to enjoy.....we do have a huge drinking culture....some in the "pub" style but mainly in your own homes....sports our boys did more sports in the U.K then here... it is mainly how your bring your children up not as to where your bring them up.....lots of "loonies" here as well....you just hope you have brought your children up to know "better".......we live in a very nice suburb and last Friday as few "lads" about 17/18 walked past my home...(we live oposite a park with a lake) and these "lads" were carrying cartons of beer on their shoulders...now one of them stopped to have a "wee" outside on the park..it was 6.30pm....and they were plastered.....!!! what I am trying to say is that "Sh-t" happens everywhere....please don't think is does not....and living and working is not the same as "travelling/working holiday" etc...just weigh up everything....really take time....it works brilliantly for some people and not so good for others....
All the best.......and goodluck wherever you may live....

Nu-Shooz Feb 14th 2008 1:02 pm

Re: Best decision ever!!
 

Originally Posted by fitz (Post 5932679)
i spent last weekend at millport,i absolutely love millport,i returned from perth last october and one of the first places i headed was millport.
personally i would say if you are happy with your current situation,stay put.
i moved to perth for a better life for my family and i and realised my life was better in the uk.
i had visited oz on a few occasions over the years,but after settling down for a couple of years found myself bored shitless in perth.
it costs a lot of time, effort and MONEY to migrate,it's not always worth it.

Couldn't agree more. This life-style thing really bugs the life out of me...what life-style, there isn't one.

brits1 Feb 14th 2008 1:29 pm

Re: Best decision ever!!
 

Originally Posted by Nu-Shooz (Post 5934792)
Couldn't agree more. This life-style thing really bugs the life out of me...what life-style, there isn't one.

well my social outing for this weekend is a Friday night match watching my sons club play in a Football Match...(not AFL)....now I could be going to Paris with my five friends (from home) this weekend...infact they fly out Friday morning GMT from Manchester....got a great 4 night break from our other friend who "gets" you deals to die for......now thats a lifestyle.

sambapink Feb 14th 2008 1:53 pm

Re: Best decision ever!!
 
oh god i wanna go home!! :blink: it all sounds fabulous!! But i'm here and i'm gonna give it my all.. take it in... experiance all i can... And at the end of it.. good or bad... we did it... we tried something else! :)

I'm chuffed to bits for you :)

jojosan Feb 14th 2008 2:47 pm

Re: Best decision ever!!
 

Originally Posted by lorids (Post 5930003)
Hi Thought I would update you all. Flew home on Monday night with Emirates , fantastic flights, only half full so plenty of room to crash out for the children plus chocolate for them ....breakfast lunch and dinner!!

Arrived into Glasgow on a beautiful cold crisp sunny..yes sunny morning and felt FRESH air.....fantastic. One bag failed to arrive out of 7 so not bad and it was delivered last night.

Went for a 'making sure we don't fall asleep' walk along Troon beach, sun out, bright blue sky and a bit of snow on top of Goatfell looking over the sea to Arran.....postcard stuff. Even passed some families on the beach having picnics and making sandcastles,,,it's February!!(must have been Glaswegians!!)

Sat outside having a coffee listening to the fantastic scottish patter and so relieved by the warmth friendliness and humour. You do worry slightly that you put your rose tinted glasses on when not settling abroad but thank goodness it is what I expected and missed. The shops, TV and subtle advertising so refreshing compared to Perth.
Out golfing today with middle son walking around in his t-shirt just smiling..he hated the heat, So all I can say it just feels so right, I feel alive again, energetic and optimistic. The children are so happy to be home and so excited to be returning to school next week and have their social diaries filled,,oh to be young again!!

So for us so far the most fantastic decision and absolutely no regrets. feel far more settled as we have scratched the Oz itch and the icing on the cake will be when OH and dog return as well.

From a very happy returnee :thumbsup:

Fantastic post! So happy for you. We've been here almost the same time as you; and hopefully taking that one-way trip back very soon :D

Good luck with the rest of your life at home, and of re-uniting with hubby and dog!!

honeybee Feb 14th 2008 3:33 pm

Re: Best decision ever!!
 

Originally Posted by Marmalade (Post 5934240)
Thank you so much for that lovely post.:wub:

A wonderful refreshing take on returning home........ It's true, far away fields are often very green....till you get there!
Good luck on your fresh start in the UK! :)

kelbelinoz Feb 14th 2008 3:38 pm

Re: Best decision ever!!
 

Originally Posted by Nu-Shooz (Post 5934792)
Couldn't agree more. This life-style thing really bugs the life out of me...what life-style, there isn't one.


you can say that again!! I can't wait to get back and enjoy cheap flights to rediscover Europe and of course HOME!

onepearlyb Feb 14th 2008 3:57 pm

Re: Best decision ever!!
 
I have read more posts just in the last few months from folks choosing to go home to the Uk.
I'd say MORE than any other time actually.
What's going on d'you think??

*me*

northernbird Feb 14th 2008 4:19 pm

Re: Best decision ever!!
 

Originally Posted by onepearlyb (Post 5935157)
I have read more posts just in the last few months from folks choosing to go home to the Uk.
I'd say MORE than any other time actually.
What's going on d'you think??

*me*

I agree. In the almost 3 years I have been posting there are far more than any other time.

busterboy Feb 14th 2008 4:41 pm

Re: Best decision ever!!
 

Originally Posted by northernbird (Post 5935209)
I agree. In the almost 3 years I have been posting there are far more than any other time.


I agree NB. Lots going back at the moment.

Irish Guinness Feb 14th 2008 5:31 pm

Re: Best decision ever!!
 

Originally Posted by fitz (Post 5932679)
i spent last weekend at millport,i absolutely love millport,i returned from perth last october and one of the first places i headed was millport.
personally i would say if you are happy with your current situation,stay put.
i moved to perth for a better life for my family and i and realised my life was better in the uk.
i had visited oz on a few occasions over the years,but after settling down for a couple of years found myself bored shitless in perth.
it costs a lot of time, effort and MONEY to migrate,it's not always worth it.

Gildoc !!!!!! listen and take advice from Fitz,the grass is not always greener.
The crime in Oz is just as bad,just covered up more.

If you are happy and content STAY WHERE YOU ARE, or more to another part of the U.K.

Vim Fuego Feb 14th 2008 5:40 pm

Re: Best decision ever!!
 

Originally Posted by onepearlyb (Post 5935157)
I have read more posts just in the last few months from folks choosing to go home to the Uk.
I'd say MORE than any other time actually.
What's going on d'you think??

*me*

Maybe there was a glut of 'reality' shows about 2 years ago that suckered people in?


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