Stay At Home Dad Moving to Dubai...
First post, so go easy on me....
My wife and i are being posted to Dubai for 18-24months in a few weeks and unusually, or so it seems, its for her job, not mine! We're just finishing our maternity leave in New Zealand so i'll be looking after our little boy when we get there. Thats exciting, if not a little daunting. Given this is the first time i've lived in an Islamic country, it also throws up a few questions i'm hoping you can help with! - If i'm at home with the baby, is this going to cause problems being alone in the house with a housemaid or nanny? - if I host "coffee morning" (a regular thing here in NZ) will I get in trouble if there is only one other female and another baby?!? It would be good to hear from any other Stay at home dads or partners of to see how they've got on. All we need to do now is find a house and a car.... Thanks in advance for any help! |
Re: Stay At Home Dad Moving to Dubai...
You're moving to DXB, not the KSA...
Welcome to BE and good luck though! |
Re: Stay At Home Dad Moving to Dubai...
Originally Posted by Bob
(Post 10736047)
You're moving to DXB, not the KSA...
Welcome to BE and good luck though! My assumption would be that others more familiar provide a guideline. It's always good to test assumptions though.... |
Re: Stay At Home Dad Moving to Dubai...
Well there's plenty of info in previous threads on SAHM's, but similar thing really and lot in the wiki for stuff to do.
The big issues tend to revolve around cost of housing followed by cost of schooling and ability to get kids in school and everything else is fluff. |
Re: Stay At Home Dad Moving to Dubai...
Originally Posted by Enzed
(Post 10735983)
First post, so go easy on me....
My wife and i are being posted to Dubai for 18-24months in a few weeks and unusually, or so it seems, its for her job, not mine! We're just finishing our maternity leave in New Zealand so i'll be looking after our little boy when we get there. Thats exciting, if not a little daunting. Given this is the first time i've lived in an Islamic country, it also throws up a few questions i'm hoping you can help with! - If i'm at home with the baby, is this going to cause problems being alone in the house with a housemaid or nanny? - if I host "coffee morning" (a regular thing here in NZ) will I get in trouble if there is only one other female and another baby?!? It would be good to hear from any other Stay at home dads or partners of to see how they've got on. All we need to do now is find a house and a car.... Thanks in advance for any help! Why would you need a nanny if you are at home with the bebe ? I don t think you can ask these questions and assume '..all you need to do is find a house and car' Let your wife do the recon,you stay @ home with the bebe and family and friends.No,you won t be the first hands on Dad when you arrive in UAE but at least you will have given your wife the distance to decide if it will work out for you as a growing family. Keep your options open back home for a few months as it can all go pear shaped thru' no fault of those brought out on the promise of Nirvana. Good,luck. |
Re: Stay At Home Dad Moving to Dubai...
Originally Posted by Enzed
(Post 10735983)
First post, so go easy on me....
My wife and i are being posted to Dubai for 18-24months in a few weeks and unusually, or so it seems, its for her job, not mine! We're just finishing our maternity leave in New Zealand so i'll be looking after our little boy when we get there. Thats exciting, if not a little daunting. Given this is the first time i've lived in an Islamic country, it also throws up a few questions i'm hoping you can help with! - If i'm at home with the baby, is this going to cause problems being alone in the house with a housemaid or nanny? - if I host "coffee morning" (a regular thing here in NZ) will I get in trouble if there is only one other female and another baby?!? It would be good to hear from any other Stay at home dads or partners of to see how they've got on. All we need to do now is find a house and a car.... Thanks in advance for any help! That said, my experience is that the bitch-head-up-arse school mums here shun the stay at home fathers almost as much as they do the washing up. It'll be fine - you just need to work on it a bit. No touching the maid when you are alone with her all day. That's not what they are there for. |
Re: Stay At Home Dad Moving to Dubai...
daytime milf ogling yoga classes!!
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Re: Stay At Home Dad Moving to Dubai...
Originally Posted by saudiflares
(Post 10736317)
daytime milf ogling yoga classes!!
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Re: Stay At Home Dad Moving to Dubai...
Originally Posted by Millhouse
(Post 10736308)
You will have no issues what-so-ever with what you have said. I know a couple of stay at home dads and they seem to have it figured out.
That said, my experience is that the bitch-head-up-arse school mums here shun the stay at home fathers almost as much as they do the washing up. It'll be fine - you just need to work on it a bit. No touching the maid when you are alone with her all day. That's not what they are there for. Get a playstation/Xbox and good internet connection. Don't have coffee mornings...have parties :p Dubai feels more western that muslim so you will have fun :thumbup: |
Re: Stay At Home Dad Moving to Dubai...
Why do you need a housemaid or a Nanny, that's your job :) enjoy it I did :)
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Re: Stay At Home Dad Moving to Dubai...
Originally Posted by Blue Cat
(Post 10736389)
Why do you need a housemaid or a Nanny, that's your job :) enjoy it I did :)
Obviously bachelors will 'fiddle' but married men won't :D I think it's a bargain at 2K/month |
Re: Stay At Home Dad Moving to Dubai...
Originally Posted by Enzed
(Post 10735983)
First post, so go easy on me....
My wife and i are being posted to Dubai for 18-24months in a few weeks and unusually, or so it seems, its for her job, not mine! We're just finishing our maternity leave in New Zealand so i'll be looking after our little boy when we get there. Thats exciting, if not a little daunting. Given this is the first time i've lived in an Islamic country, it also throws up a few questions i'm hoping you can help with! - If i'm at home with the baby, is this going to cause problems being alone in the house with a housemaid or nanny? - if I host "coffee morning" (a regular thing here in NZ) will I get in trouble if there is only one other female and another baby?!? It would be good to hear from any other Stay at home dads or partners of to see how they've got on. All we need to do now is find a house and a car.... Thanks in advance for any help! This post was brought to you by bobbymcferrin.com |
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you guys crack me up!!!
Thanks for the reassurances. They say a little knowledge is a dangerous thing, so imagine what **** all does?! I can imagine what its like with some of the expat wives - I've seen a few in action in London & Auckland. I'll be working freelance/remotely from home and will also be training a fair bit for international competitions, so it will be necessary to have a housemaid/nanny a few days a week. It'll be sweet as. If you know of any stay at home dads with 10-14 months olds, ask them to PM me. They can let me know the best spin classes... |
Re: Stay At Home Dad Moving to Dubai...
Originally Posted by Ronnie Biggs
(Post 10737856)
Whoever you have been speaking with knows **** all about Dubai, that's for sure. Not sure you'll want to host any coffee mornings after the first batch of horrendous Jumeirah Janes have left your gaff with their noses in the air.
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Re: Stay At Home Dad Moving to Dubai...
It was the same for my wife & I before moving to Al Ain, Abu Dhabi.
We researched the net, bought tonnes of books and emailed friends. Nothing can prepare you other than living here and gaining the experience first hand. I would honestly say 98% of the things you here, you can totally ignore! It isn't as strict as they said, other wise we wouldn't be here. Dubai is more a holiday destination anyways, so more is forgiven there. Al Ain is where the locals live and should be more strict. It's totally fine though. I haven't had one problem whilst living here. It'll be 2 years this September. Good Luck! |
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