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Is it easy to come out in Riyadh?

Old Jun 12th 2009, 5:28 pm
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Hey,
its been a couple of weeks since i got to Riyadh SA. Staying here for four months.

Life here is confusing.. I dont know which people i should get with, especially that ive been warned so many times about how critical it is to out yourself!

Is there a normal gay scene in this city?
Please help!!
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Old Jun 12th 2009, 5:30 pm
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Originally Posted by wutevaa
Hey,
its been a couple of weeks since i got to Riyadh SA. Staying here for four months.

Life here is confusing.. I dont know which people i should get with, especially that ive been warned so many times about how critical it is to out yourself!

Is there a normal gay scene in this city?
Please help!!
well...i've no idea about the gay scene in saudi, can't imagine it's that open...but why don't you check out gaydar.com...if it's happening, it will be on there for sure...

MM, xx
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Old Jun 12th 2009, 6:37 pm
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Originally Posted by wutevaa
Is there a normal gay scene in this city?
Please help!!
are you nuts???
whilst i am certain there will be a gay scene in riyadh it almost certainly wont be normal. Homosexuality is illegal in saudi and probably carries the death penalty in the kingdom of doom.
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Sounds like a plant
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Old Jun 12th 2009, 7:03 pm
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Originally Posted by MacScot
Sounds like a plant
My thoughts exactly.....

How and ever there does seem to be an increasing number of people who
move lock, stock and barrel to pastures new then decide to do their research - albeit vicariously.

Now I am as impulsive and as gung ho as the next one but when it comes to life changing decisions surely the heads up on a place is a must?
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Originally Posted by Eva
My thoughts exactly.....

How and ever there does seem to be an increasing number of people who
move lock, stock and barrel to pastures new then decide to do their research - albeit vicariously.

Now I am as impulsive and as gung ho as the next one but when it comes to life changing decisions surely the heads up on a place is a must?
Exactly, a 24-year-old lad from London surely would have done his homework first and, as MM said, would have used gaydar or whatever!
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Originally Posted by MacScot
Sounds like a plant
User name incomplete... could this be Taz Wutevaa?
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Just keep your mouth shut and find a boyfriend who lives in Dubai and hop over every other weekend.
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Old Jun 13th 2009, 11:27 am
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A boyfriend in Lebanon would be even better... for a number of reasons

Seriously, be very, very, very, very careful. There is something of a gay scene in Riyadh but for obvious reasons it's very closed. Unless you speak Arabic and get lucky, as an expat I'd be surprised if you can crack it at all.
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A boyfriend in Lebanon would be even better... for a number of reasons

Seriously, be very, very, very, very careful. There is something of a gay scene in Riyadh but for obvious reasons it's very closed. Unless you speak Arabic and get lucky, as an expat I'd be surprised if you can crack it at all.
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There's always one...
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Originally Posted by typical
There's always one...
Ah, come on.. this thread is such a blatant wind up! He'll be asking where the local nudist colony is next.
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I did hear of one incident where an expat had a local boyfriend, however he spent 3 months in hospital after breaking his legs jumping from a 2nd floor apartment to escape his lovers family.

Was deported soon after.
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Now may be a good time to seriously consider heterosexuality as an option.

Actually, consider celibacy.
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Old Jun 14th 2009, 8:30 am
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Originally Posted by Madam Medusa
well...i've no idea about the gay scene in saudi, can't imagine it's that open...but why don't you check out gaydar.com...if it's happening, it will be on there for sure...

MM, xx

Hey thanks for the reply..
i tried to open me profile with no use..
its blocked as everything else.. lol
you living in SA as well?
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