Why delays in filing for AOS after K-1 marriage?
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I was wondering why some K-1 people don't file for AOS ASAP after getting married. It seems it would be in the best interests of the foreign spouse, esp. in some cases like the recent post by marriagefailing. I've read other posts before where people have said they hadn't filed AOS yet, despite being married for some time. For some reason, I thought that one had to get married *and* file for AOS before the 90 days on the K-1 expired (we filed one week after getting married, though it was about 11 months till we had the interview). Maybe I read something wrong or am not remembering things correctly? Why wouldn't you file immediately after getting married? I don't understand.
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I thought you had to do both within the 90-day period, too. My husband and I got married within 60 days so we could enjoy our honeymoon and still get everything covered when we returned home. ![Big Grin](https://britishexpats.com/forum/images/smilies/biggrin.gif)
Like you, I would think that anyone in that position would want to get it done ASAP. I remember how long the wait seemed before I could actively go out and job hunt so I was glad we applied quickly. Staying at home alone all day got very old very fast.
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Like you, I would think that anyone in that position would want to get it done ASAP. I remember how long the wait seemed before I could actively go out and job hunt so I was glad we applied quickly. Staying at home alone all day got very old very fast.
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psycho,
Some people are procrastinators, some people have their reasons that may or may not make sense to others. In any event, one is required to marry within the 90 day period after entry but is not required to apply for AOS within the 90 day period.
However, one does begin to run certain risks once the 90 day period has expired.
Regards, JEff
Some people are procrastinators, some people have their reasons that may or may not make sense to others. In any event, one is required to marry within the 90 day period after entry but is not required to apply for AOS within the 90 day period.
However, one does begin to run certain risks once the 90 day period has expired.
Regards, JEff
Originally posted by psychobabbler1
I was wondering why some K-1 people don't file for AOS ASAP after getting married. It seems it would be in the best interests of the foreign spouse, esp. in some cases like the recent post by marriagefailing. I've read other posts before where people have said they hadn't filed AOS yet, despite being married for some time. For some reason, I thought that one had to get married *and* file for AOS before the 90 days on the K-1 expired (we filed one week after getting married, though it was about 11 months till we had the interview). Maybe I read something wrong or am not remembering things correctly? Why wouldn't you file immediately after getting married? I don't understand.
I was wondering why some K-1 people don't file for AOS ASAP after getting married. It seems it would be in the best interests of the foreign spouse, esp. in some cases like the recent post by marriagefailing. I've read other posts before where people have said they hadn't filed AOS yet, despite being married for some time. For some reason, I thought that one had to get married *and* file for AOS before the 90 days on the K-1 expired (we filed one week after getting married, though it was about 11 months till we had the interview). Maybe I read something wrong or am not remembering things correctly? Why wouldn't you file immediately after getting married? I don't understand.
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Originally posted by tinaflorida
I thought you had to do both within the 90-day period, too. My husband and I got married within 60 days so we could enjoy our honeymoon and still get everything covered when we returned home.![Big Grin](https://britishexpats.com/forum/images/smilies/biggrin.gif)
Like you, I would think that anyone in that position would want to get it done ASAP. I remember how long the wait seemed before I could actively go out and job hunt so I was glad we applied quickly. Staying at home alone all day got very old very fast.
I thought you had to do both within the 90-day period, too. My husband and I got married within 60 days so we could enjoy our honeymoon and still get everything covered when we returned home.
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Like you, I would think that anyone in that position would want to get it done ASAP. I remember how long the wait seemed before I could actively go out and job hunt so I was glad we applied quickly. Staying at home alone all day got very old very fast.
Time, money, family issues, document preparation time, are all reasons it may take some time to actually do the filing. I believe you don't start being considered out of status until past 180 days. But I do agree the sooner you file after marriage, the better!
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Rene,
One is out of status the day after the date stamped on the I-94, if they haven't applied for adjustment.
The penalty of a ban on re-entry kicks in when one has accumulated 180 days out of status.
Regards, JEff
One is out of status the day after the date stamped on the I-94, if they haven't applied for adjustment.
The penalty of a ban on re-entry kicks in when one has accumulated 180 days out of status.
Regards, JEff
Originally posted by Noorah101
My fiance arrived on April 21st. We got married April 29th. We were waiting for my next paycheck in order to submit paperwork. My mom passed away 2 weeks later on May 13th and for a month I was too busy with family issues and arrangements to have the time to devote to AOS. That's why we didn't file until June 15th.
Time, money, family issues, document preparation time, are all reasons it may take some time to actually do the filing. I believe you don't start being considered out of status until past 180 days. But I do agree the sooner you file after marriage, the better!
Rene
My fiance arrived on April 21st. We got married April 29th. We were waiting for my next paycheck in order to submit paperwork. My mom passed away 2 weeks later on May 13th and for a month I was too busy with family issues and arrangements to have the time to devote to AOS. That's why we didn't file until June 15th.
Time, money, family issues, document preparation time, are all reasons it may take some time to actually do the filing. I believe you don't start being considered out of status until past 180 days. But I do agree the sooner you file after marriage, the better!
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Originally posted by jeffreyhy
Rene,
One is out of status the day after the date stamped on the I-94, if they haven't applied for adjustment.
The penalty of a ban on re-entry kicks in when one has accumulated 180 days out of status.
Regards, JEff
Rene,
One is out of status the day after the date stamped on the I-94, if they haven't applied for adjustment.
The penalty of a ban on re-entry kicks in when one has accumulated 180 days out of status.
Regards, JEff
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psychobabbler1 had something important to tell us on Fri, 16 Jul 2004
20:57:23 +0000:
>I was wondering why some K-1 people don't file for AOS ASAP after
>getting married. It seems it would be in the best interests of the
>foreign spouse, esp. in some cases like the recent post by
>marriagefailing. I've read other posts before where people have said
>they hadn't filed AOS yet, despite being married for some time. For
>some reason, I thought that one had to get married *and* file for AOS
>before the 90 days on the K-1 expired (we filed one week after getting
>married, though it was about 11 months till we had the interview).
>Maybe I read something wrong or am not remembering things correctly?
>Why wouldn't you file immediately after getting married? I don't
>understand.
I think the big one is money and coming up with the five-hundred-odd
dollars it takes to file for AOS, AP and a work permit... I know
somebody who's been married for a month and her K1 just ran out, but
she doesn't have the money to file for AOS yet - they have to save up
for it.
I plan to apply ASAP - probably the week after the wedding, because
the sooner you file the sooner you'll be processed and the less chance
there is of something unforseen going wrong back 'at home' before you
get that Advance Parole...
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20:57:23 +0000:
>I was wondering why some K-1 people don't file for AOS ASAP after
>getting married. It seems it would be in the best interests of the
>foreign spouse, esp. in some cases like the recent post by
>marriagefailing. I've read other posts before where people have said
>they hadn't filed AOS yet, despite being married for some time. For
>some reason, I thought that one had to get married *and* file for AOS
>before the 90 days on the K-1 expired (we filed one week after getting
>married, though it was about 11 months till we had the interview).
>Maybe I read something wrong or am not remembering things correctly?
>Why wouldn't you file immediately after getting married? I don't
>understand.
I think the big one is money and coming up with the five-hundred-odd
dollars it takes to file for AOS, AP and a work permit... I know
somebody who's been married for a month and her K1 just ran out, but
she doesn't have the money to file for AOS yet - they have to save up
for it.
I plan to apply ASAP - probably the week after the wedding, because
the sooner you file the sooner you'll be processed and the less chance
there is of something unforseen going wrong back 'at home' before you
get that Advance Parole...
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Originally posted by Kajikit
I think the big one is money and coming up with the five-hundred-odd dollars it takes to file for AOS, AP and a work permit... I know
somebody who's been married for a month and her K1 just ran out, but she doesn't have the money to file for AOS yet - they have to save up for it.
I think the big one is money and coming up with the five-hundred-odd dollars it takes to file for AOS, AP and a work permit... I know
somebody who's been married for a month and her K1 just ran out, but she doesn't have the money to file for AOS yet - they have to save up for it.
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psychobabbler1 <member21586@british_expats.com> wrote in message news:<[email protected]>...
> I was wondering why some K-1 people don't file for AOS ASAP after
> getting married. It seems it would be in the best interests of the
> foreign spouse, esp. in some cases like the recent post by
> marriagefailing. I've read other posts before where people have said
> they hadn't filed AOS yet, despite being married for some time. For
> some reason, I thought that one had to get married *and* file for AOS
> before the 90 days on the K-1 expired (we filed one week after getting
> married, though it was about 11 months till we had the interview).
> Maybe I read something wrong or am not remembering things correctly?
> Why wouldn't you file immediately after getting married? I don't
> understand.
For some people, it's lack of money. We filed ours within 2 months
after we married.
> I was wondering why some K-1 people don't file for AOS ASAP after
> getting married. It seems it would be in the best interests of the
> foreign spouse, esp. in some cases like the recent post by
> marriagefailing. I've read other posts before where people have said
> they hadn't filed AOS yet, despite being married for some time. For
> some reason, I thought that one had to get married *and* file for AOS
> before the 90 days on the K-1 expired (we filed one week after getting
> married, though it was about 11 months till we had the interview).
> Maybe I read something wrong or am not remembering things correctly?
> Why wouldn't you file immediately after getting married? I don't
> understand.
For some people, it's lack of money. We filed ours within 2 months
after we married.
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"sibsie" wrote:
> $725 now for a complete AOS package!
Is there anywhere I can see a breakdown of that?
Because of the amount of information involved, I've been very blinkered in
my approach to this, just concentrating on one step at once.
AOS will soon be my next priority.
Cheers,
Andy
> $725 now for a complete AOS package!
Is there anywhere I can see a breakdown of that?
Because of the amount of information involved, I've been very blinkered in
my approach to this, just concentrating on one step at once.
AOS will soon be my next priority.
Cheers,
Andy
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Originally posted by psychobabbler1
I was wondering why some K-1 people don't file for AOS ASAP after getting married. It seems it would be in the best interests of the foreign spouse, esp. in some cases like the recent post by marriagefailing. I've read other posts before where people have said they hadn't filed AOS yet, despite being married for some time. For some reason, I thought that one had to get married *and* file for AOS before the 90 days on the K-1 expired (we filed one week after getting married, though it was about 11 months till we had the interview). Maybe I read something wrong or am not remembering things correctly? Why wouldn't you file immediately after getting married? I don't understand.
I was wondering why some K-1 people don't file for AOS ASAP after getting married. It seems it would be in the best interests of the foreign spouse, esp. in some cases like the recent post by marriagefailing. I've read other posts before where people have said they hadn't filed AOS yet, despite being married for some time. For some reason, I thought that one had to get married *and* file for AOS before the 90 days on the K-1 expired (we filed one week after getting married, though it was about 11 months till we had the interview). Maybe I read something wrong or am not remembering things correctly? Why wouldn't you file immediately after getting married? I don't understand.
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And if the AOS results in the spouse ending up with a CR1 then you can add in another $200 for the removal of conditions later. For this kind of money, we are better off waiting for the I-130 approval and going back to Bogota for the IR1 next year.
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Originally posted by psychobabbler1
I was wondering why some K-1 people don't file for AOS ASAP after getting married. It seems it would be in the best interests of the foreign spouse, esp. in some cases like the recent post by marriagefailing. I've read other posts before where people have said they hadn't filed AOS yet, despite being married for some time. For some reason, I thought that one had to get married *and* file for AOS before the 90 days on the K-1 expired (we filed one week after getting married, though it was about 11 months till we had the interview). Maybe I read something wrong or am not remembering things correctly? Why wouldn't you file immediately after getting married? I don't understand.
I was wondering why some K-1 people don't file for AOS ASAP after getting married. It seems it would be in the best interests of the foreign spouse, esp. in some cases like the recent post by marriagefailing. I've read other posts before where people have said they hadn't filed AOS yet, despite being married for some time. For some reason, I thought that one had to get married *and* file for AOS before the 90 days on the K-1 expired (we filed one week after getting married, though it was about 11 months till we had the interview). Maybe I read something wrong or am not remembering things correctly? Why wouldn't you file immediately after getting married? I don't understand.
But no, technically, there is nothing that states that you have to file AOS within those 90 days. The only stipulation of the visa is to get married within those 90 days. But waiting does only complicate matters, and for every day past those iniitial 90, you accrue 'out of status' days. I think if you reach 180 days, then you can incur the 3 yr ban, even if you go ahead and file for Advance Parole later on. And if you wait for a full year to file after the first 90 days, then you will have accrued 1 yr Out of Status, and could be subject to the 10 year ban, if you leave the US before having the Green Card in your hand.
hope this answers your q's a little bit.
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sibsie <member17406@british_expats.com> wrote in message news:<[email protected]>...
> Originally posted by Kajikit
> > I think the big one is
> money and coming up with the five-hundred-odd dollars it takes to file
> for AOS, AP and a work permit... I know
> > somebody who's been married
> for a month and her K1 just ran out, but she doesn't have the money to
> file for AOS yet - they have to save up for it.
> >
> $725 now
> for a complete AOS package!
sibsie <member17406@british_expats.com> wrote in message news:<[email protected]>...
> Originally posted by Kajikit
> > I think the big one is
> money and coming up with the five-hundred-odd dollars it takes to file
> for AOS, AP and a work permit... I know
> > somebody who's been married
> for a month and her K1 just ran out, but she doesn't have the money to
> file for AOS yet - they have to save up for it.
> >
> $725 now
> for a complete AOS package!