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Old Aug 27th 2008, 3:56 pm
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Originally Posted by Manc
bingo!
Problem solved in 30 posts ...longer than most ...
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Old Aug 27th 2008, 3:57 pm
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And this other person is a boyfriend ....

Hows marriage fit into your plans

gyarrr. let's just say that in the sake of conservatism, i am still quite young and with an unfinished degree.
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i would just rather not go that route, because it can bring a slew of problems that perhaps neither of us is ready for. if, for example, we fall out of favor, the visas go poof - he could be in the middle of an education... it's just hairy. i would much prefer him to get a non-marriage based visa that isn't contingent upon what we do, because regardless he is pretty set on wanting to continue the education, furthermore wanting to do it here. this is his primary goal.
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gyarrr. let's just say that in the sake of conservatism, i am still quite young and with an unfinished degree.
So thats a maybe .. it solves all the problems

A nice k-1 visa for him ...
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i would just rather not go that route, because it can bring a slew of problems that perhaps neither of us is ready for. if, for example, we fall out of favor, the visas go poof - he could be in the middle of an education... it's just hairy. i would much prefer him to get a non-marriage based visa that isn't contingent upon what we do, because regardless he is pretty set on wanting to continue the education, furthermore wanting to do it here. this is his primary goal.
The odds are stacked against that happening
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The odds are stacked against that happening
what if the university expressed willingness to want him to study here? i mean, not just financially, but for someone to say, "yes, we want you to come here because of what you can offer us." ?
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that's why i was hoping that he could get funding provided through the university. MOST of the foreign students i know have these kinds of scholarships or assistanceships, which depends on other variables like grades, program, grants, et cetera, but at least it is possible - here - to end up not going deathly into debt.
Here's what the consulate will expect to see to ensure he has enough money.

http://undergrad.osu.edu/intlCosts.html

He needs $35k - $40k / year
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what if the university expressed willingness to want him to study here? i mean, not just financially, but for someone to say, "yes, we want you to come here because of what you can offer us." ?
A fellowship?
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Here's what the consulate will expect to see to ensure he has enough money.

http://undergrad.osu.edu/intlCosts.html

He needs $35k - $40k / year
oh jesus, no, we're not even half the costs of OSU here.... but i believe i have seen similar forms for us, just can't find them atm.

as an aside, i read that my school normally accepts these visas: F-1, J-1, and H-1, and mentions something about an I-94 form that can be adjusted if the student is still doing what the visa was originally issued for... but reading the descriptions, the F-1 looks like it would be a close match, i suppose. for students with an F-1, it also mentions that they need to submit a I-20/DS-2019 with the visa....

http://www.uakron.edu/admissions/int...abId=tab110394 for reference...
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A fellowship?
a fellowship is like a scholarship - is that what you meant?
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oh jesus, no, we're not even half the costs of OSU here.... but i believe i have seen similar forms for us, just can't find them atm.

as an aside, i read that my school normally accepts these visas: F-1, J-1, and H-1, and mentions something about an I-94 form that can be adjusted if the student is still doing what the visa was originally issued for... but reading the descriptions, the F-1 looks like it would be a close match, i suppose. for students with an F-1, it also mentions that they need to submit a I-20/DS-2019 with the visa....

http://www.uakron.edu/admissions/int...abId=tab110394 for reference...
You're looking up those visa letters and numbers and choosing randomly again! Don't do it -- it'll make you blind!

Call up or visit the international office at your university. Ask them how an international student can take whatever he wants to take and how much money he'll need to show to get the visa. It WILL be in the tens of thousands. Then ask if there are any scholarships/fellowships/etc to reduce the cost and how to apply for them.

After you've done that, choose your wedding dress and take the only practical route.
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You're looking up those visa letters and numbers and choosing randomly again! Don't do it -- it'll make you blind!

Call up or visit the international office at your university. Ask them how an international student can take whatever he wants to take and how much money he'll need to show to get the visa. It WILL be in the tens of thousands. Then ask if there are any scholarships/fellowships/etc to reduce the cost and how to apply for them.

After you've done that, choose your wedding dress and take the only practical route.
i can do this on the morrow - the contact, more specifically - and then just report back here with the info, i suppose. but the grad school often operates independently of the specific programs... this could get quite convoluted. regardless, admissions is admissions, and moneys may come from them or departmentally. i just have to figure that part out... thinking aloud now.
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i can do this on the morrow - the contact, more specifically - and then just report back here with the info, i suppose. but the grad school often operates independently of the specific programs... this could get quite convoluted. regardless, admissions is admissions, and moneys may come from them or departmentally. i just have to figure that part out... thinking aloud now.
So we are thinking ..white at the wedding ...for you both
with bridemaid in Ivory
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So we are thinking ..white at the wedding ...for you both
with bridemaid in Ivory
Well I'm sure she'll be posting the pics in our gallery.
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Well I'm sure she'll be posting the pics in our gallery.
We love a good wedding.................
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