Name Change After Marriage
#1
Name Change After Marriage
As it's something I'm trying to make a decision about at the moment, I was wondering what people's opinions are about name changes after marriage - what option did you go for? Why? What do you think of the various options? etc. I'm interested in views from both men and women!
#3
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Either or is fine, but avoid the silly double-barrelled compromise at all costs.
#7
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The Wife kept her name, it's fairly unique plus she has a career and reputation. A double barreled name would have sounded extremely silly. That said, when we eventually have kids we will be doing the relatively traditional thing of having the mother's maiden name as an extra middle name.
#8
Re: Name Change After Marriage
The Wife kept her name, it's fairly unique plus she has a career and reputation. A double barreled name would have sounded extremely silly. That said, when we eventually have kids we will be doing the relatively traditional thing of having the mother's maiden name as an extra middle name.
EDIT: I should have said that it will sound silly with our particular names. I don't think all double-barrelled names sound silly. Come to think of it, when I meet people with double-barrelled names I never think they sound silly, but when my friends get married and take them on it does sound odd.
Last edited by Apfelkuchen; Aug 28th 2011 at 5:50 am.
#9
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My wife was reluctant to take my name. She said the reason was, "complex" - which meant she was clearly taking the piss. Boy did I wipe the smirk off her face when little baby Zoster was born....
#10
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Maybe I will try 'bargaining'. If I keep my name, he can name the kids. If I take his name, I get to name them. And I will go to town with it.
Blackmail is a completely sensible way to start a marriage, right?
#11
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I kept my name for a while but it caused a problem once with flight tickets and it seemed more trouble than it was worth so I changed it.
#12
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It's certainly better than the old way of giving some bloke a cow and a barrel of soy beans on the agreement he'll let you knob his 12 year old daughter.
IT really makes one wonder why Republican Presidential candidates want to go back to that so badly.
IT really makes one wonder why Republican Presidential candidates want to go back to that so badly.
#13
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Good point. I will note that one down for use in future arguments.
#14
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On the other hand there are some elder relatives that insist on addressing mail to Mr and Mrs Myname. These are the same relatives confused over why the Wife didn't insist on a bigger rock for her finger, you know as insurance
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Re: Name Change After Marriage
I disagree that double-barrelled names sound silly. Some people are born with them; for others they represent a valid expression of dual identity.