To Marry or Not?
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Hi
I would like your opinions please.
I am currently in the US on VWP and have a girlfriend who is a USC, I am UKC. (Dont worry, its not a '10 foot pole' question.)
Having overstayed on VWP on my last visit by 2 days it looks unlikely I will be able to return anytime soon.
My girlfriend and I ar enow considering getting married and starting the legal process to get me here permanently.
Would it make more sense to get married now in the US and then return to the UK whilst she files the paperwork. Or should I go to the UK, she files the papers for a Fiance visa and then I return and get married?
Is there a difference in wait time between these 2 options?
Is either option better than the other?
Like I said its not a '10 foot pole' question. I have to return for 5 months to sort things out anyway.
Thanks for any help, comments, opinions and Have a Great Day
I would like your opinions please.
I am currently in the US on VWP and have a girlfriend who is a USC, I am UKC. (Dont worry, its not a '10 foot pole' question.)
Having overstayed on VWP on my last visit by 2 days it looks unlikely I will be able to return anytime soon.
My girlfriend and I ar enow considering getting married and starting the legal process to get me here permanently.
Would it make more sense to get married now in the US and then return to the UK whilst she files the paperwork. Or should I go to the UK, she files the papers for a Fiance visa and then I return and get married?
Is there a difference in wait time between these 2 options?
Is either option better than the other?
Like I said its not a '10 foot pole' question. I have to return for 5 months to sort things out anyway.
Thanks for any help, comments, opinions and Have a Great Day
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Would it make more sense to get married now in the US and then return to the UK whilst she files the paperwork. Or should I go to the UK, she files the papers for a Fiance visa and then I return and get married?
Is there a difference in wait time between these 2 options?
Is either option better than the other?
Is there a difference in wait time between these 2 options?
Is either option better than the other?
So, since you have the option of getting married now, and filing the I-130 ASAP, in my opinion this is the better overall visa, if you don't mind being separated as a married couple.
Best Wishes,
Rene
p.s. - thread moved to the Marriage-Based Immigration forum.
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Thanks for the quick reply.
(I figured it was in the wrong forum after I had posted it but couldnt find a way to move it)
Looks like marriage it is then.
One further question. After we apply for the I-130 will my new wife be able to join me for some months in the UK?
Or will she be needed for anything further in the US by USCIS or other US agencies and have to stay there?
Thanks
(I figured it was in the wrong forum after I had posted it but couldnt find a way to move it)
Looks like marriage it is then.
One further question. After we apply for the I-130 will my new wife be able to join me for some months in the UK?
Or will she be needed for anything further in the US by USCIS or other US agencies and have to stay there?
Thanks
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Thanks for the quick reply.
(I figured it was in the wrong forum after I had posted it but couldnt find a way to move it)
Looks like marriage it is then.
One further question. After we apply for the I-130 will my new wife be able to join me for some months in the UK?
Or will she be needed for anything further in the US by USCIS or other US agencies and have to stay there?
Thanks
(I figured it was in the wrong forum after I had posted it but couldnt find a way to move it)
Looks like marriage it is then.
One further question. After we apply for the I-130 will my new wife be able to join me for some months in the UK?
Or will she be needed for anything further in the US by USCIS or other US agencies and have to stay there?
Thanks
After those items are sent back to the NVC, the case is forwarded to London, and you'll receive your visa application package.
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Hi
I would like your opinions please.
I am currently in the US on VWP and have a girlfriend who is a USC, I am UKC. (Dont worry, its not a '10 foot pole' question.)
Having overstayed on VWP on my last visit by 2 days it looks unlikely I will be able to return anytime soon.
My girlfriend and I ar enow considering getting married and starting the legal process to get me here permanently.
Would it make more sense to get married now in the US and then return to the UK whilst she files the paperwork. Or should I go to the UK, she files the papers for a Fiance visa and then I return and get married?
Is there a difference in wait time between these 2 options?
Is either option better than the other?
Like I said its not a '10 foot pole' question. I have to return for 5 months to sort things out anyway.
Thanks for any help, comments, opinions and Have a Great Day![Big Grin](https://britishexpats.com/forum/images/smilies/biggrin.gif)
I would like your opinions please.
I am currently in the US on VWP and have a girlfriend who is a USC, I am UKC. (Dont worry, its not a '10 foot pole' question.)
Having overstayed on VWP on my last visit by 2 days it looks unlikely I will be able to return anytime soon.
My girlfriend and I ar enow considering getting married and starting the legal process to get me here permanently.
Would it make more sense to get married now in the US and then return to the UK whilst she files the paperwork. Or should I go to the UK, she files the papers for a Fiance visa and then I return and get married?
Is there a difference in wait time between these 2 options?
Is either option better than the other?
Like I said its not a '10 foot pole' question. I have to return for 5 months to sort things out anyway.
Thanks for any help, comments, opinions and Have a Great Day
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If you overstayed last time by 2 days on the VWP how the heck did you get back in again on it!
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Hi Poppy
See this thread to see what happened http://britishexpats.com/forum/showthread.php?t=494201
See this thread to see what happened http://britishexpats.com/forum/showthread.php?t=494201
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Hi Poppy
See this thread to see what happened http://britishexpats.com/forum/showthread.php?t=494201
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Hope you did not find it rude to ask I just could not work it out, had I of used my common sense then I would of looked up your previous threads.
Good Luck go get her lol
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Hi Poppy
See this thread to see what happened http://britishexpats.com/forum/showthread.php?t=494201
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I am admittedly not well-versed in this sort of thing, but that was the first thing that popped into my mind when I read (in this thread) that you reentered on the VWP when you should have had a tourist visa. Hopefully someone else can comment on the likelihood of that biting you in the butt later on.
In the meantime, don't assume that the POE officer's "good mood decision" to let you in won't negatively affect things later on. Maybe it will, maybe it won't. But as has been witnessed time and time again on this forum, ultimately it's up to the immigrant to follow and comply with immigration law, even if following poor or erroneous advice given from US immigration officials.
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