Married But My Mind Cheats!!! Help!
May 6th 2007, 2:04 pm
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Married But My Mind Cheats!!! Help!
I've been married for 7 years, but I've been with my husband for over
19 years. We JUST recently got back together...I had filed for
divorce,but cancelled it @ the last minute. We were apart for like 1
1/2 years and through that time I dates (b/c I wasn't even dreaming of
getting back with him). I'm trying to make things work but I must
admit that my emotions aren't as strong cause I was done wrong before.
I find myself thinking about someone that I was seeing when we were
apart. Little things (like a song, a picture,a place, etc.) bring
memories of him back in my mind then....HE CALLED!! I found myself
sitting on the phone like a teenage school girl agian, excited that I
was actually on HIS mind. I KNOW this isn't right. This weekend seemed
to be one of the worst in our married life since we've been back
together...I slept on the couch after a dissagreement! I feel REALLY
bad b/c I KNOW thid time my husband IS trying and I'm not all the way
there.I just want to know if I'm the only one that has/is going
through this!!
19 years. We JUST recently got back together...I had filed for
divorce,but cancelled it @ the last minute. We were apart for like 1
1/2 years and through that time I dates (b/c I wasn't even dreaming of
getting back with him). I'm trying to make things work but I must
admit that my emotions aren't as strong cause I was done wrong before.
I find myself thinking about someone that I was seeing when we were
apart. Little things (like a song, a picture,a place, etc.) bring
memories of him back in my mind then....HE CALLED!! I found myself
sitting on the phone like a teenage school girl agian, excited that I
was actually on HIS mind. I KNOW this isn't right. This weekend seemed
to be one of the worst in our married life since we've been back
together...I slept on the couch after a dissagreement! I feel REALLY
bad b/c I KNOW thid time my husband IS trying and I'm not all the way
there.I just want to know if I'm the only one that has/is going
through this!!
May 6th 2007, 2:21 pm
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Re: Married But My Mind Cheats!!! Help!
I've been married for 7 years, but I've been with my husband for over
19 years. We JUST recently got back together...I had filed for
divorce,but cancelled it @ the last minute. We were apart for like 1
1/2 years and through that time I dates (b/c I wasn't even dreaming of
getting back with him). I'm trying to make things work but I must
admit that my emotions aren't as strong cause I was done wrong before.
I find myself thinking about someone that I was seeing when we were
apart. Little things (like a song, a picture,a place, etc.) bring
memories of him back in my mind then....HE CALLED!! I found myself
sitting on the phone like a teenage school girl agian, excited that I
was actually on HIS mind. I KNOW this isn't right. This weekend seemed
to be one of the worst in our married life since we've been back
together...I slept on the couch after a dissagreement! I feel REALLY
bad b/c I KNOW thid time my husband IS trying and I'm not all the way
there.I just want to know if I'm the only one that has/is going
through this!!
19 years. We JUST recently got back together...I had filed for
divorce,but cancelled it @ the last minute. We were apart for like 1
1/2 years and through that time I dates (b/c I wasn't even dreaming of
getting back with him). I'm trying to make things work but I must
admit that my emotions aren't as strong cause I was done wrong before.
I find myself thinking about someone that I was seeing when we were
apart. Little things (like a song, a picture,a place, etc.) bring
memories of him back in my mind then....HE CALLED!! I found myself
sitting on the phone like a teenage school girl agian, excited that I
was actually on HIS mind. I KNOW this isn't right. This weekend seemed
to be one of the worst in our married life since we've been back
together...I slept on the couch after a dissagreement! I feel REALLY
bad b/c I KNOW thid time my husband IS trying and I'm not all the way
there.I just want to know if I'm the only one that has/is going
through this!!
Best of luck,
~ Jenney
