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Old Feb 15th 2004, 2:29 pm
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I'm going nuts with anxiety! Tuesday is the dreaded/much anticipated V-day (Visa Day) and I'm worried about everything. Suggestions from those that have graduated are much appreciated! How did you keep yourself from pulling your hair out or biting every single fingernail off?!?!

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No one has any suggestions for me, eh?
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Originally posted by sunflwrgrl13
No one has any suggestions for me, eh?
Yeah, relax! Mine is on Thursday and I'm a bit of a mess so I imagine you're even worse. I hear it's the most human process of the lot so I'm sure you'll be fine!
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No one has any suggestions for me, eh?
I haven't done an Embassy interview. I have done a couple of AOS interviews - does that qualify?
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Default Re: Less than 36 hrs to the interview!!

Originally posted by sunflwrgrl13
I'm going nuts with anxiety! Tuesday is the dreaded/much anticipated V-day (Visa Day) and I'm worried about everything. Suggestions from those that have graduated are much appreciated! How did you keep yourself from pulling your hair out or biting every single fingernail off?!?!

Love you guys!
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I just want to wish you luck with the interview......
Try and stay clam, and all will be ok.
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Originally posted by sunflwrgrl13
No one has any suggestions for me, eh?
I can't recommend how to keep yourelf sane, as I don't know of anyone who was, right before their interview!

The only advice I have for you is that you should enjoy the day. It isn't nearly as scary as you think, and the people at London seem to understand how nerve-wracking it is, as they're really pleasant. I'd go through that day a million times over.

All the very best to you, and we'll be waiting to read your account of the day. AND DON'T WORRY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Kate. xxxxx
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I've got mine a week tomorrow. My breathe relax thing isn't working so I'm settling for checking everything a zillion times and worrying!

Good luck with yours!
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Oh yes, we've checked, re-checked, and checked some more! I'm about 99% certain that all docs are in order, just scanned the most recent checkstub and emailed it to him.

Bad thing is, he's already left for the airport (from work) to take the flight down to London and he won't get to his hotel until probably 21:00 or so. And since all he has with him is the mobile, I can't really call him or him me! <sigh> I just hate being out of contact with the night before our big day, but I'll just have to get over it. Now how I'm going to get through the rest of the day at work is another problem! How can I possibly sit still!

We've been anticipating this day from Day 1 obviously, but now that it's here, I soo do not feel ready for it. I just hope travel-wise everything goes smoothly as well. My "Just breathe in and out, unclench jaw" technique isn't going too well either! I know there isn't a reason to worry, but tell my brain that!

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best of luck tomorrow.. sounds like london are good people to deal with.. be on time, put a smile on your face.. drink decaf and breathe.. you'll do great and hopefully leave with that visa in hand..

and congrats also to sibsie on your upcoming interview.. good news all around..
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Default Re: Less than 36 hrs to the interview!!

Originally posted by sunflwrgrl13
I'm going nuts with anxiety! Tuesday is the dreaded/much anticipated V-day (Visa Day) and I'm worried about everything. Suggestions from those that have graduated are much appreciated! How did you keep yourself from pulling your hair out or biting every single fingernail off?!?!

Love you guys!
Jamie
Hi there Jamie

Please don't panic!! I had my interview in Londonn in January and I was tearing my nails out and I think now why was I so nervous! It is not as bad as you think.

THe only pain is that there is a lot of waiting and hanging around doing nothing so bring a book or something tho I was too nervous to read lol.

The guy doing the chest x-ray is a laugh. He sure will put you at ease. lol

Good Luck and please don't worry!

Love Gisela xx

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Originally posted by sunflwrgrl13
I'm going nuts with anxiety! Tuesday is the dreaded/much anticipated V-day (Visa Day) and I'm worried about everything. Suggestions from those that have graduated are much appreciated! How did you keep yourself from pulling your hair out or biting every single fingernail off?!?!

Love you guys!
Jamie
Good luck Jamie...take some deep breaths...you are in the home stretch now....Our prayers are with you. Since we haven';t even heard from the embassy...I have no words of wisdom...but, we are here for you.
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Originally posted by sunflwrgrl13
Oh yes, we've checked, re-checked, and checked some more! I'm about 99% certain that all docs are in order, just scanned the most recent checkstub and emailed it to him.

Bad thing is, he's already left for the airport (from work) to take the flight down to London and he won't get to his hotel until probably 21:00 or so. And since all he has with him is the mobile, I can't really call him or him me! <sigh> I just hate being out of contact with the night before our big day, but I'll just have to get over it. Now how I'm going to get through the rest of the day at work is another problem! How can I possibly sit still!

We've been anticipating this day from Day 1 obviously, but now that it's here, I soo do not feel ready for it. I just hope travel-wise everything goes smoothly as well. My "Just breathe in and out, unclench jaw" technique isn't going too well either! I know there isn't a reason to worry, but tell my brain that!

J
Apart from whilst he's on the plane (for obvious reasons) why can't you call him on his cell phone?
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Apart from whilst he's on the plane (for obvious reasons) why can't you call him on his cell phone?
Maybe cos its mega expensive phoning internationally on cell phones
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Maybe cos its mega expensive phoning internationally on cell phones
It's pretty reasonable to call UK to US on a cell phone with Orange.

Yes - it costs more to call a cell phone in the UK than a landline but this isn't everyday consumption.

It would be a special and limited purpose use
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Originally posted by sunflwrgrl13
Oh yes, we've checked, re-checked, and checked some more! I'm about 99% certain that all docs are in order, just scanned the most recent checkstub and emailed it to him.

Bad thing is, he's already left for the airport (from work) to take the flight down to London and he won't get to his hotel until probably 21:00 or so. And since all he has with him is the mobile, I can't really call him or him me! <sigh> I just hate being out of contact with the night before our big day, but I'll just have to get over it. Now how I'm going to get through the rest of the day at work is another problem! How can I possibly sit still!

We've been anticipating this day from Day 1 obviously, but now that it's here, I soo do not feel ready for it. I just hope travel-wise everything goes smoothly as well. My "Just breathe in and out, unclench jaw" technique isn't going too well either! I know there isn't a reason to worry, but tell my brain that!

J
Jamie,
Have you tried 10-10-987....if you know where he is staying tonight...use that to call him...39 cent connecting fee and 3 cents a minute to Western Europe...I use it to call Rudolf all the time...even cheaper than the calling cards we were using...Just a suggestion.
Patricia
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