Leaving Ater Marriage
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Hi,
If I married my girlfriend on a visa waiver then left America for a while would I be allowed back in on a visa waiver with her to visit her family for a few weeks here and there?
Would the immigration officers even have the information that shows that we are married?
Also if I left the USA for a few months and then we decided that we would like to live in USA how long is it likely to take before I would be allowed back in there as a resident and would I be able to visit her (if she had to go back) during the application?
Thanks.
If I married my girlfriend on a visa waiver then left America for a while would I be allowed back in on a visa waiver with her to visit her family for a few weeks here and there?
Would the immigration officers even have the information that shows that we are married?
Also if I left the USA for a few months and then we decided that we would like to live in USA how long is it likely to take before I would be allowed back in there as a resident and would I be able to visit her (if she had to go back) during the application?
Thanks.
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Would the immigration officers even have the information that shows that we are married?
Also if I left the USA for a few months and then we decided that we would like to live in USA how long is it likely to take before I would be allowed back in there as a resident and would I be able to visit her (if she had to go back) during the application?
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Thanks,
Yes she is a USC.
It's confusing. I'm currently here visiting in USA and we will be going to the UK for a few weeks in August. We will then be living in Canada until December. I will be on a working holiday visa there and she will be on a student visa.
We would love to marry here now and have been told that we are allowed by the local town hall but do not know where we would like to settle yet so things are unsure right now.
Once I make that application for Visa adjustment can I still visit on the VWP.
Could I file for the I-130 whilst in Canada through the US embassy there?
Thanks for the quick response.
Yes she is a USC.
It's confusing. I'm currently here visiting in USA and we will be going to the UK for a few weeks in August. We will then be living in Canada until December. I will be on a working holiday visa there and she will be on a student visa.
We would love to marry here now and have been told that we are allowed by the local town hall but do not know where we would like to settle yet so things are unsure right now.
Once I make that application for Visa adjustment can I still visit on the VWP.
Could I file for the I-130 whilst in Canada through the US embassy there?
Thanks for the quick response.
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It's confusing. I'm currently here visiting in USA and we will be going to the UK for a few weeks in August. We will then be living in Canada until December. I will be on a working holiday visa there and she will be on a student visa.
We would love to marry here now and have been told that we are allowed by the local town hall but do not know where we would like to settle yet so things are unsure right now.
We would love to marry here now and have been told that we are allowed by the local town hall but do not know where we would like to settle yet so things are unsure right now.
Once I make that application for Visa adjustment can I still visit on the VWP.
Could I file for the I-130 whilst in Canada through the US embassy there?
Part of the process entails your USC wife filing an I-864 affidavit of support on your behalf. If she doesn't meet the income requirements, you'd need a joint sponsor, so that's something to look into as well.
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Wow thanks very much,
One last question.....
If we ended up living in UK for a while (on a spouse VISA or alternative) would she have to go home to file for me or would we be able to apply jointly from the UK?
Thanks so so much for all the help, i'm feeling a little lighter on the situation now. I'm still hating the fact that we may end up spending time apart though!!
I guess I could always hang around in Canada and she could come visit if we choose the US!!!!!
One last question.....
If we ended up living in UK for a while (on a spouse VISA or alternative) would she have to go home to file for me or would we be able to apply jointly from the UK?
Thanks so so much for all the help, i'm feeling a little lighter on the situation now. I'm still hating the fact that we may end up spending time apart though!!
I guess I could always hang around in Canada and she could come visit if we choose the US!!!!!
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I just wanted to say, perhaps you CAN file the I-130 directly to Montreal, if you are married and both are living in Canada more than 6 months at that time. I'm not 100% sure on that one. It might be possible.
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When I got married on VWP, I was allowed to stay and wait for my change in status. Took 1 year for status change instead of several years if I waited in UK. I specifically went to the USCIS office to ask & was told it was fine, I just couldn't leave US while I waited for the change.
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When I got married on VWP, I was allowed to stay and wait for my change in status. Took 1 year for status change instead of several years if I waited in UK. I specifically went to the USCIS office to ask & was told it was fine, I just couldn't leave US while I waited for the change.
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On Jul 4, 9:30 am, danfan <[email protected]> wrote:
> > Yes, you can get married in the USA on the VWP, no problem there. You
> > just can't remain in the USA to adjust status to permenent resident,
> > but it sounds like you don't want to do that anyway, as you have a job
> > in Canada waiting for you. If you don't know where you want to settle
> > yet, don't do anything about immigration yet. No sense spending all
> > that money to get your Immigrant Visa if you then decide not to use it
> > (in my opinion, anyway). Wait until a time closer to when you'll know
> > where you guys want to end up living.
>
> > If you're thinking of the Immigrant Visa, it's not a visa adjustment.
> > It's a whole new visa. And yes, you can visit the USA on the VWP
> > while it's processing.
>
> > No, the I-130 would need to be filed in the USA, at the service
> > center having jurisdiction over where the USC lives. You might be
> > able to use the US Embassy in Montreal for your Immigrant Visa
> > interview, though.
>
> > Part of the process entails your USC wife filing an I-864 affidavit of
> > support on your behalf. If she doesn't meet the income requirements,
> > you'd need a joint sponsor, so that's something to look into as well.
>
> > Rene
>
> When I got married on VWP, I was allowed to stay and wait for my change
> in status. Took 1 year for status change instead of several years if I
> waited in UK. I specifically went to the USCIS office to ask & was told
> it was fine, I just couldn't leave US while I waited for the change.
That's great for you, but this is a dodgy area. The problem is that it
is illegal to enter the USA on the visa waiver with the intention of
staying. If they suspect later on that you did this, it can cause all
sorts of issues and complications.
Coming to visit someone (or even meeting someone while in the USA) and
deciding on the spur of the moment to marry and settle in the USA is
fine. Even coming to marry someone with the intention of leaving again
afterwards then changing your plans once you're there is fine. Coming
on the visa waiver to marry and stay is illegal.
Even if you did not intend to stay when you entered the USA, the
burden of proof of that is on you. If the USCIS get the idea in their
heads that you entered with the intention to stay, you have to prove
that you didn't. That can be difficult.
> > Yes, you can get married in the USA on the VWP, no problem there. You
> > just can't remain in the USA to adjust status to permenent resident,
> > but it sounds like you don't want to do that anyway, as you have a job
> > in Canada waiting for you. If you don't know where you want to settle
> > yet, don't do anything about immigration yet. No sense spending all
> > that money to get your Immigrant Visa if you then decide not to use it
> > (in my opinion, anyway). Wait until a time closer to when you'll know
> > where you guys want to end up living.
>
> > If you're thinking of the Immigrant Visa, it's not a visa adjustment.
> > It's a whole new visa. And yes, you can visit the USA on the VWP
> > while it's processing.
>
> > No, the I-130 would need to be filed in the USA, at the service
> > center having jurisdiction over where the USC lives. You might be
> > able to use the US Embassy in Montreal for your Immigrant Visa
> > interview, though.
>
> > Part of the process entails your USC wife filing an I-864 affidavit of
> > support on your behalf. If she doesn't meet the income requirements,
> > you'd need a joint sponsor, so that's something to look into as well.
>
> > Rene
>
> When I got married on VWP, I was allowed to stay and wait for my change
> in status. Took 1 year for status change instead of several years if I
> waited in UK. I specifically went to the USCIS office to ask & was told
> it was fine, I just couldn't leave US while I waited for the change.
That's great for you, but this is a dodgy area. The problem is that it
is illegal to enter the USA on the visa waiver with the intention of
staying. If they suspect later on that you did this, it can cause all
sorts of issues and complications.
Coming to visit someone (or even meeting someone while in the USA) and
deciding on the spur of the moment to marry and settle in the USA is
fine. Even coming to marry someone with the intention of leaving again
afterwards then changing your plans once you're there is fine. Coming
on the visa waiver to marry and stay is illegal.
Even if you did not intend to stay when you entered the USA, the
burden of proof of that is on you. If the USCIS get the idea in their
heads that you entered with the intention to stay, you have to prove
that you didn't. That can be difficult.
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You could have filed for an advanced parole.
Sir P.
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From: Noorah101 [mailto:Noorah101] On Behalf Of Noorah101
Posted At: Wednesday, July 04, 2007 1:41 PM
Posted To: misc.immigration.usa
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Subject: Re: Leaving Ater Marriage
> When I got married on VWP, I was allowed to stay and wait for my
> change in status. Took 1 year for status change instead of several
> years if I waited in UK. I specifically went to the USCIS office to
> ask & was told it was fine, I just couldn't leave US while I waited
> for the change.
Dan...had you planned to go that route before you entered the USA on the
VWP? Was your intent to enter on the VWP, marry, and adjust status,
even before you came here? That might be the difference in these two
scenarios.
Rene
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Sir P.
-----Original Message-----
From: Noorah101 [mailto:Noorah101] On Behalf Of Noorah101
Posted At: Wednesday, July 04, 2007 1:41 PM
Posted To: misc.immigration.usa
Conversation: Leaving Ater Marriage
Subject: Re: Leaving Ater Marriage
> When I got married on VWP, I was allowed to stay and wait for my
> change in status. Took 1 year for status change instead of several
> years if I waited in UK. I specifically went to the USCIS office to
> ask & was told it was fine, I just couldn't leave US while I waited
> for the change.
Dan...had you planned to go that route before you entered the USA on the
VWP? Was your intent to enter on the VWP, marry, and adjust status,
even before you came here? That might be the difference in these two
scenarios.
Rene
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Hiya Everyone,
I entered the USA July last year on the vwp and was taken to see an officer there as they where worried about my intentions and i had no proof of living back home in the UK, Did not have a job back home in the UK either but after talking to the officer he did let me in on the understanding that i was leaving 90 days later, which with the trouble i had at the poe me and my now hubby decided to get married which we did 15 days before i was due to leave, i remained in the USA and did not file my forms till march this year went for the biometrics and then my interview in may and was told they where just waiting for my fbi checks to come back and would be given conditional permanant resident coz we had been married less than 2 years and i got my green card last thursday and now i am a resident, maybe i was lucky in with what had happened to me but i still am reeling a bit from how quick it took my application to be approved and to have my green card which only took me 3 months to get in total maybe it might be worth it for him to try what i did, you know we brits do say (you don't know unless you try it) just a thought there for you that in some cases it don't take as long as it does with other people.
Even though i had problems at the port of entry july 2006 and to let you know i had been coming back and forth on the vwp since october 2005 and had only been home to visit for less than 2 weeks at a time, it never hindered my application at all.
Hope this helps a little and is not to long winded if you need anymore info on this from me send me a message and i will go into some detail for you thanks Michelle
I entered the USA July last year on the vwp and was taken to see an officer there as they where worried about my intentions and i had no proof of living back home in the UK, Did not have a job back home in the UK either but after talking to the officer he did let me in on the understanding that i was leaving 90 days later, which with the trouble i had at the poe me and my now hubby decided to get married which we did 15 days before i was due to leave, i remained in the USA and did not file my forms till march this year went for the biometrics and then my interview in may and was told they where just waiting for my fbi checks to come back and would be given conditional permanant resident coz we had been married less than 2 years and i got my green card last thursday and now i am a resident, maybe i was lucky in with what had happened to me but i still am reeling a bit from how quick it took my application to be approved and to have my green card which only took me 3 months to get in total maybe it might be worth it for him to try what i did, you know we brits do say (you don't know unless you try it) just a thought there for you that in some cases it don't take as long as it does with other people.
Even though i had problems at the port of entry july 2006 and to let you know i had been coming back and forth on the vwp since october 2005 and had only been home to visit for less than 2 weeks at a time, it never hindered my application at all.
Hope this helps a little and is not to long winded if you need anymore info on this from me send me a message and i will go into some detail for you thanks Michelle
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Thanks,
Yes she is a USC.
It's confusing. I'm currently here visiting in USA and we will be going to the UK for a few weeks in August. We will then be living in Canada until December. I will be on a working holiday visa there and she will be on a student visa.
We would love to marry here now and have been told that we are allowed by the local town hall but do not know where we would like to settle yet so things are unsure right now.
Once I make that application for Visa adjustment can I still visit on the VWP.
Could I file for the I-130 whilst in Canada through the US embassy there?
Thanks for the quick response.
Yes she is a USC.
It's confusing. I'm currently here visiting in USA and we will be going to the UK for a few weeks in August. We will then be living in Canada until December. I will be on a working holiday visa there and she will be on a student visa.
We would love to marry here now and have been told that we are allowed by the local town hall but do not know where we would like to settle yet so things are unsure right now.
Once I make that application for Visa adjustment can I still visit on the VWP.
Could I file for the I-130 whilst in Canada through the US embassy there?
Thanks for the quick response.
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When I got married on VWP, I was allowed to stay and wait for my change in status. Took 1 year for status change instead of several years if I waited in UK. I specifically went to the USCIS office to ask & was told it was fine, I just couldn't leave US while I waited for the change.
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