K3 marriage has failed
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Does anyone have any documentation on what I need to do??
He's moved out and gone to Miami. I don't want problems with BCIS..........Thanks.
He's moved out and gone to Miami. I don't want problems with BCIS..........Thanks.
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Originally posted by xiomi
Does anyone have any documentation on what I need to do??
He's moved out and gone to Miami. I don't want problems with BCIS..........Thanks.
Does anyone have any documentation on what I need to do??
He's moved out and gone to Miami. I don't want problems with BCIS..........Thanks.
As for the BCIS you can write them and advise them that the marriage is being dissolved and that your husband has moved to Miami, Florida. Since you will not be attending the AOS interview, he will have no legal basis to remain in the US as the AOS will be terminated at that point. Don't know what the ramifications for him is under the K-3. After the divorce is he free to continue working and living in the US until the K-3 expires in April 2005? Can he marry another US citizen and adjust status based on that marriage? I know a K-1 can't and don't know if this is true of K-3 visa holders.
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Sorry to hear this, xiomi
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Originally posted by xiomi
Does anyone have any documentation on what I need to do??
He's moved out and gone to Miami. I don't want problems with BCIS..........Thanks.
Does anyone have any documentation on what I need to do??
He's moved out and gone to Miami. I don't want problems with BCIS..........Thanks.
I don't know if **YOU** **HAVE** to do anything. Your timeline does not indicate you have an APPROVAL of the I-130 yet. If you want, you can withdraw the pending I-130 at TSC.
The rest of the thing will then eventually die of its own accord. I just had a potential client in here where he is before the IJ for asylum only [he is from a VW country] and BCIS denied the AOS on the basis of withdrawl of the I-130.
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Xiomi I have no advice to give other than that which far wiser have already given. I just wanted to I'm sorry to hear that your marriage did not work out. I remember your posts a couple of months back seeking support and advice about issues that were going on during the transition and how hard you were trying to see the bright future ahead.
Keep the faith.
Keep the faith.
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I'll be withdrawing the I-130 within the next week.
Thanks all for the thoughts. This was truly the best for me.
For some reason, now I just feel used.
A year wasted is better than a whole lifetime wasted!!!!
Good luck to all of you....
Thanks all for the thoughts. This was truly the best for me.
For some reason, now I just feel used.
A year wasted is better than a whole lifetime wasted!!!!
Good luck to all of you....
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Originally posted by Leslie66
You are really brave. I think I would be much more bitter. I guess all realtionships come with risks, but this just seems so sad.
God Bless,
Leslie
You are really brave. I think I would be much more bitter. I guess all realtionships come with risks, but this just seems so sad.
God Bless,
Leslie
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I am very sorry to hear that this happened to you. That must be so difficult
because of all we have to go through with all this process.
"xiomi" <[email protected]> wrote in message
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> Originally posted by Leslie66
> > You are really brave. I think I would be much more bitter. I guess
> > all realtionships come with risks, but this just seems so sad.
> >
> > God Bless,
> > Leslie
> I don't think it's about being brave. I wasn't happy and I took the
> necessary steps to get away from a situation that made me unhappy. I am
> taking responsibility for all my actions, included that of marrying him
> without truly knowing who he was. We got married on a whim, didn't know
> each other well. We both realize it was a mistake. I don't want to ruin
> the rest of my life for one mistake that I know I can repair.
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because of all we have to go through with all this process.
"xiomi" <[email protected]> wrote in message
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> Originally posted by Leslie66
> > You are really brave. I think I would be much more bitter. I guess
> > all realtionships come with risks, but this just seems so sad.
> >
> > God Bless,
> > Leslie
> I don't think it's about being brave. I wasn't happy and I took the
> necessary steps to get away from a situation that made me unhappy. I am
> taking responsibility for all my actions, included that of marrying him
> without truly knowing who he was. We got married on a whim, didn't know
> each other well. We both realize it was a mistake. I don't want to ruin
> the rest of my life for one mistake that I know I can repair.
> --
> Posted via http://britishexpats.com