intrusive questions will be asked at 1st and 2nd interview
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at the AOS interview and the removal of condition interview, should we be prepared to answer intrusive questions like when we last had sex, her last menstrual cycle, her brand of feminine hygiene product, her bath product,
her brand of lipstick, her perfume, her favorite color, her brand of purse.
would you say the likelihood these intrusive questions that will be asked
will be 95-100%?
her brand of lipstick, her perfume, her favorite color, her brand of purse.
would you say the likelihood these intrusive questions that will be asked
will be 95-100%?
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at the AOS interview and the removal of condition interview, should we be prepared to answer intrusive questions like when we last had sex, her last menstrual cycle, her brand of feminine hygiene product, her bath product,
her brand of lipstick, her perfume, her favorite color, her brand of purse.
would you say the likelihood these intrusive questions that will be asked
will be 95-100%?
her brand of lipstick, her perfume, her favorite color, her brand of purse.
would you say the likelihood these intrusive questions that will be asked
will be 95-100%?
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at the AOS interview and the removal of condition interview, should we be prepared to answer intrusive questions like when we last had sex, her last menstrual cycle, her brand of feminine hygiene product, her bath product,
her brand of lipstick, her perfume, her favorite color, her brand of purse.
would you say the likelihood these intrusive questions that will be asked
will be 95-100%?
her brand of lipstick, her perfume, her favorite color, her brand of purse.
would you say the likelihood these intrusive questions that will be asked
will be 95-100%?
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at the AOS interview and the removal of condition interview, should we be prepared to answer intrusive questions like when we last had sex, her last menstrual cycle, her brand of feminine hygiene product, her bath product,
her brand of lipstick, her perfume, her favorite color, her brand of purse.
would you say the likelihood these intrusive questions that will be asked
will be 95-100%?
her brand of lipstick, her perfume, her favorite color, her brand of purse.
would you say the likelihood these intrusive questions that will be asked
will be 95-100%?
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I'm not sure I could answer all those questions about myself, let alone my spouse.
OP, google 'stokes interview' for more information. And look for interview experiences from YOUR District Office. There are a couple of offices with 'funny' officers who think those sorts of Qs are mandatory.
OP, google 'stokes interview' for more information. And look for interview experiences from YOUR District Office. There are a couple of offices with 'funny' officers who think those sorts of Qs are mandatory.
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hehehe..I use whatever feminine hygiene products that I find on sale, cheap no-brand purses from Target & Kohls (no Dooney & Burke here), I wear different perfume everyday (whatever bottle I happen to grab), and I couldn't even say when my last menstrual cycle was. The OH would have been in some serious trouble if he had been asked those questions.
Plus, I would never have answered those questions, if asked of me, on a matter of principle. They may have to 'snoop' somewhat into your personal life, but there's snooping and then there's intruding.
Plus, I would never have answered those questions, if asked of me, on a matter of principle. They may have to 'snoop' somewhat into your personal life, but there's snooping and then there's intruding.
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Why?
Because if you got to the point of those questions being asked, you'd probably be expecting them because you already knew you were destined for a Stokes. Because you were already a weasel and knew it was coming.
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To be fair, legitimate couples get asked these questions, I suppose, but oh so rarely.
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Hi, My husband and I were asked some questions about our relationship. Things like what colour are our bedroom curtains and where does he keep his socks, our intent to have children together, have I met my in-laws things like that etc. That was in Denver CO.
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Mine was in Denver, nothing.
All that time spent memorising the wife's birth date wasted.
All that time spent memorising the wife's birth date wasted.
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The toughest question I got asked was what date did we get married. I did have to run to CVS to get a new set of pictures taken because they had lost one, that was not fun since I only had 10 minutes to do it in. I didn't have an interview for removing the conditions though. Just sent in the form and x amount of time later the card showed up in the mail.
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