How do I marry my American Man?
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So sorry, I know everyone starts a thread on here with the "I'm sorry for the repetitive nature of this post" post, but I really am sorry to be a pain in the bum!
See maybe I'm just having a funny 5 minutes but I'm freaking out reading through all the visa info. I just can't take any of it in and was hoping some lovely kind person might be able to explain the action needed in my specific case.
I'm a UK citizen and I met a wonderful American man a year and a half ago whilst on holiday in NY. I spent 3 months over there with him last summer on a regular VWP thingy! He came over here, I went back over there (all for holidays) and then he proposed to me at Xmas.
We had planned for him to move over here but decided it'd make more economic sense for me to move over there. All this was decided in the last 24 hours - hence the hectic message I'm writing here!
So, I'm heading over there for a 2 week holiday at Easter where we had planned to get married. We're both more than happy with a very quiet ceremony as we had a huge engagement party!
Firstly, do I need a special visa to go over there and marry him at Easter? I'm intending to come home for a month or so afterwards to finish my uni course - so this wouldn't be my move out there, just a holiday out there where I happen to marry him.
If we do get married at Easter, what procedure do I then go about to get a greencard to work in the USA? How long does this process take?
Or am I better off waiting to marry him until I'm done with my uni course at the end of May and going over there on a fiance visa? Then what's the procedure and how long would it take before I could work?
Basically, I can't really afford to be out there for more than a month or two without working, so. . errr. . any advice is very very very welcomed and appreciated!
Many Thanks.
See maybe I'm just having a funny 5 minutes but I'm freaking out reading through all the visa info. I just can't take any of it in and was hoping some lovely kind person might be able to explain the action needed in my specific case.
I'm a UK citizen and I met a wonderful American man a year and a half ago whilst on holiday in NY. I spent 3 months over there with him last summer on a regular VWP thingy! He came over here, I went back over there (all for holidays) and then he proposed to me at Xmas.
We had planned for him to move over here but decided it'd make more economic sense for me to move over there. All this was decided in the last 24 hours - hence the hectic message I'm writing here!
So, I'm heading over there for a 2 week holiday at Easter where we had planned to get married. We're both more than happy with a very quiet ceremony as we had a huge engagement party!
Firstly, do I need a special visa to go over there and marry him at Easter? I'm intending to come home for a month or so afterwards to finish my uni course - so this wouldn't be my move out there, just a holiday out there where I happen to marry him.
If we do get married at Easter, what procedure do I then go about to get a greencard to work in the USA? How long does this process take?
Or am I better off waiting to marry him until I'm done with my uni course at the end of May and going over there on a fiance visa? Then what's the procedure and how long would it take before I could work?
Basically, I can't really afford to be out there for more than a month or two without working, so. . errr. . any advice is very very very welcomed and appreciated!
Many Thanks.
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If we do get married at Easter, what procedure do I then go about to get a greencard to work in the USA? How long does this process take?
Or am I better off waiting to marry him until I'm done with my uni course at the end of May and going over there on a fiance visa?
Then what's the procedure and how long would it take before I could work?
I can't really afford to be out there for more than a month or two without working...
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So, I'm heading over there for a 2 week holiday at Easter where we had planned to get married. We're both more than happy with a very quiet ceremony as we had a huge engagement party!
Firstly, do I need a special visa to go over there and marry him at Easter? I'm intending to come home for a month or so afterwards to finish my uni course - so this wouldn't be my move out there, just a holiday out there where I happen to marry him.
If we do get married at Easter, what procedure do I then go about to get a greencard to work in the USA? How long does this process take?
Or am I better off waiting to marry him until I'm done with my uni course at the end of May and going over there on a fiance visa? Then what's the procedure and how long would it take before I could work?
Basically, I can't really afford to be out there for more than a month or two without working, so. . errr. . any advice is very very very welcomed and appreciated!
Many Thanks.
Firstly, do I need a special visa to go over there and marry him at Easter? I'm intending to come home for a month or so afterwards to finish my uni course - so this wouldn't be my move out there, just a holiday out there where I happen to marry him.
If we do get married at Easter, what procedure do I then go about to get a greencard to work in the USA? How long does this process take?
Or am I better off waiting to marry him until I'm done with my uni course at the end of May and going over there on a fiance visa? Then what's the procedure and how long would it take before I could work?
Basically, I can't really afford to be out there for more than a month or two without working, so. . errr. . any advice is very very very welcomed and appreciated!
Many Thanks.
If he petitions for your K-1 visa now, in 6-8 months, you could have a visa that gives you permission to move to the US and get married and stay. You'll have several months without employment authorization this way.
It doesn't seem like these answers will make you very happy, sorry.
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Ignore or triple check everything you read about the K-3 visa if you do come across it; most of the info is not accurate as of today.
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No problem in being repetitive. However, I will restate what I have said in other threads -- what you "want" and what you "can do" can be quite different in the immigration context. And if you allow "want" to be the overwhelming factor rather than "can do" -- it may blow up in your face with no chance of living together in the US.
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Hi Everyone,
Thank you so much for your replys. Can I just clarify a couple of things -
So, if we get married at Easter and I come back to England and file for the paper work, which is the only way to do it if you go over there on a VWP and marry - it's going to take anywhere between 6 - 10 months to have the paperwork complete?
How much will the above process cost?
And if I wanted to go over there and marry him on a fiance visa, this wouldn't be possible at Easter because it'd take approx 6+ months to obtain this visa. Then once married and in the US it'll take around 3 months to obtain something to allow me to work? And this process will cost around $1000.
So from door to door as it were, both visas are looking at taking over 6 months before I can live and work in the US?
Are there anyways of paying to speed up the visa process, she ask in an optomistic yet doubtful voice?
In particular is there anyway of speeding up the fiance visa, because I could afford to be out there for 3 or 4 months not working.
I think I can guess to the answers to all of these questions, but hey, I feel I have to ask!
Thank you again everyone, what a wonderful place where you can come and get answers to your questions. I hope soon I'll be well versed enough in all this to help other people too!
Thank you so much for your replys. Can I just clarify a couple of things -
So, if we get married at Easter and I come back to England and file for the paper work, which is the only way to do it if you go over there on a VWP and marry - it's going to take anywhere between 6 - 10 months to have the paperwork complete?
How much will the above process cost?
And if I wanted to go over there and marry him on a fiance visa, this wouldn't be possible at Easter because it'd take approx 6+ months to obtain this visa. Then once married and in the US it'll take around 3 months to obtain something to allow me to work? And this process will cost around $1000.
So from door to door as it were, both visas are looking at taking over 6 months before I can live and work in the US?
Are there anyways of paying to speed up the visa process, she ask in an optomistic yet doubtful voice?
In particular is there anyway of speeding up the fiance visa, because I could afford to be out there for 3 or 4 months not working.
I think I can guess to the answers to all of these questions, but hey, I feel I have to ask!
Thank you again everyone, what a wonderful place where you can come and get answers to your questions. I hope soon I'll be well versed enough in all this to help other people too!
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Hi Everyone,
Thank you so much for your replys. Can I just clarify a couple of things -
So, if we get married at Easter and I come back to England and file for the paper work, which is the only way to do it if you go over there on a VWP and marry - it's going to take anywhere between 6 - 10 months to have the paperwork complete?
How much will the above process cost?
And if I wanted to go over there and marry him on a fiance visa, this wouldn't be possible at Easter because it'd take approx 6+ months to obtain this visa. Then once married and in the US it'll take around 3 months to obtain something to allow me to work? And this process will cost around $1000.
So from door to door as it were, both visas are looking at taking over 6 months before I can live and work in the US?
Are there anyways of paying to speed up the visa process, she ask in an optomistic yet doubtful voice?
In particular is there anyway of speeding up the fiance visa, because I could afford to be out there for 3 or 4 months not working.
I think I can guess to the answers to all of these questions, but hey, I feel I have to ask!
Thank you again everyone, what a wonderful place where you can come and get answers to your questions. I hope soon I'll be well versed enough in all this to help other people too!
Thank you so much for your replys. Can I just clarify a couple of things -
So, if we get married at Easter and I come back to England and file for the paper work, which is the only way to do it if you go over there on a VWP and marry - it's going to take anywhere between 6 - 10 months to have the paperwork complete?
How much will the above process cost?
And if I wanted to go over there and marry him on a fiance visa, this wouldn't be possible at Easter because it'd take approx 6+ months to obtain this visa. Then once married and in the US it'll take around 3 months to obtain something to allow me to work? And this process will cost around $1000.
So from door to door as it were, both visas are looking at taking over 6 months before I can live and work in the US?
Are there anyways of paying to speed up the visa process, she ask in an optomistic yet doubtful voice?
In particular is there anyway of speeding up the fiance visa, because I could afford to be out there for 3 or 4 months not working.
I think I can guess to the answers to all of these questions, but hey, I feel I have to ask!
Thank you again everyone, what a wonderful place where you can come and get answers to your questions. I hope soon I'll be well versed enough in all this to help other people too!
If you are coming back at Easter time, get married then, go home and do what the other posters said, it is the fastest ( albeit long ) way to get you back here.
PS it isnt all too expensive( my fiance is immigrating here while we are on a limited income ) I dont know how much the fees are for the k-3 visa but if you search US immigration fees on google, it will pull up the page....where in the uk are you?
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... it's going to take anywhere between 6 - 10 months to have the paperwork complete?
How much will the above process cost?
And if I wanted to go over there and marry him on a fiance visa, this wouldn't be possible at Easter because it'd take approx 6+ months to obtain this visa.
Then once married and in the US it'll take around 3 months to obtain something to allow me to work? And this process will cost around $1000.
So from door to door as it were, both visas are looking at taking over 6 months before I can live and work in the US?
Are there anyways of paying to speed up the visa process, she ask in an optomistic yet doubtful voice?
In particular is there anyway of speeding up the fiance visa, because I could afford to be out there for 3 or 4 months not working.
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Still a few more questions. . just out of interest, what is a K-3?
Also, I found info about an I-765. . people have told me this could be applied for once you have a fiance visa to enable you to work for a short while.
I've also been told about an EAD that can be valid for 90 days on entering the US on a K-1. I read something about it being a case of your passport being stamped on arrival at JFK.
I'm sorry as I konw everyone is being very clear about my two opptions, but I just wanted to ask about these things I've read and been told.
I really appreciate the help as I have dyslexia and find it far easier to take in information that is directed to my specific situation. Thank you all for your patients!
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Back in the days when an I-130 was taking YEARS to process, the K-3 was a visa which allowed a foreign spouse to come and wait inside the USA until the I-130 is approved. The K-3 takes about 8 - 10 months to process, which back then was much quicker than the YEARS it took for the I-130 to be approved. Now, the I-130 gets approved in a few months, and the whole Immigrant Visa process only takes 8 - 10 months, so there is no more need for a K-3.
Yes. If you enter the USA on a K-1 fiance visa, the I-765 is part of the adjustment of status application, which you apply for after getting married. The I-765 is for a 1-year Employment Authorization Document (EAD).
If you enter JFK using a K-1 visa, you *might* get a temporary, 90-day EAD. They are phasing this out, though, so don't count on it.
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Also, I found info about an I-765. . people have told me this could be applied for once you have a fiance visa to enable you to work for a short while.
I've also been told about an EAD that can be valid for 90 days on entering the US on a K-1. I read something about it being a case of your passport being stamped on arrival at JFK.
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