Getting married to my american fioncee in the next couple of years..
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So whats the process with getting married and getting the visa? Get married then start the application? and is it true i've got to go all the way to London for the interview? Do we have to go together? cause on my own would be difficult becuase of my disability.
So whats the process with getting married and getting the visa? Get married then start the application? and is it true i've got to go all the way to London for the interview? Do we have to go together? cause on my own would be difficult becuase of my disability.
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Yes you have to go to London for the interview. Just go on the train, only 90 minutes from the Midlands. It's really not that far. It was over 3 hours each way by train for me, and spare a thought for those who have to go there from Scotland!
Your USC spouse doesn't have to attend, but can do if she wishes. You need to specify this on the DS-230 part I form as only the people you specify there will be on the security list for entry into the embassy on that day.
Your USC spouse doesn't have to attend, but can do if she wishes. You need to specify this on the DS-230 part I form as only the people you specify there will be on the security list for entry into the embassy on that day.
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My fiancee and I were going to get married inthe UK but decided that the K1 was a better option for us. We were going to apply for the marriage tourist or visit to marry visa. A UK fiancee visa would be if I was planning on getting married in the UK and moving there instead of him coming here. I was going to stay in the UK two weeks and then come back to the states and my fiancee was going to stay in the UK until the paperwork came through for him to move to the US . I was planning on bringing a letter of employment, my lease and bank statements showing I could support myself as well as a return ticket. The K1 seemed like it would be a quicker process so that's why we chose that route. It was just over 5 months from when we sent in the I129 petition until the visa approval for us. From what I have researched it would hve taken longer if we got married there for his paperwork to be approved for himto move to the states
But there are many advantages to coming over as a green card holder (permanent resident) instead of a K1. If people can stand being apart after being married, it's sure what I would recommend.
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Thanks again for the info,
So whats the process with getting married and getting the visa? Get married then start the application? and is it true i've got to go all the way to London for the interview? Do we have to go together? cause on my own would be difficult becuase of my disability.
So whats the process with getting married and getting the visa? Get married then start the application? and is it true i've got to go all the way to London for the interview? Do we have to go together? cause on my own would be difficult becuase of my disability.
Another note - at the interview, if you are approved, they keep your passport and courier it back. So you need some other form of ID if you intend to fly home (and need to make sure the airline you are on will accept it). My Keith got a UK citizen card, that worked at that time.
The other thing to consider, is if you intend to visit her in the US while waiting for the application to be approved, they might be reluctant to let you in on visa waiver, fearing you would intend to stay. I presume she could visit you in the UK.
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Yes you have to go to London for the interview. Just go on the train, only 90 minutes from the Midlands. It's really not that far. It was over 3 hours each way by train for me, and spare a thought for those who have to go there from Scotland!
Your USC spouse doesn't have to attend, but can do if she wishes. You need to specify this on the DS-230 part I form as only the people you specify there will be on the security list for entry into the embassy on that day.
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No, you arrive as an immigrant. Once the paperwork is processed by the officer at the PoE, then you become a PR, but not one moment before.
You'll get an I-551 stamp at the PoE - which has the full force of the actual physical card... which will arrive a few weeks or so later in the mail! ![Smile](https://britishexpats.com/forum/images/smilies/smile.gif)
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And get the actual card when?
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No, you arrive as an immigrant. Once the paperwork is processed by the officer at the PoE, then you become a PR, but not one moment before.
You'll get an I-551 stamp at the PoE - which has the full force of the actual physical card... which will arrive a few weeks or so later in the mail!![Smile](https://britishexpats.com/forum/images/smilies/smile.gif)
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You'll get an I-551 stamp at the PoE - which has the full force of the actual physical card... which will arrive a few weeks or so later in the mail!
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For practical purposes however, the person is a permanent resident from their first day in the US, which is what I meant (and said very very badly
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It's not an I-551 stamp they get any more, it's an endorsement of the MRIV.
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PS: I know of one gal who is wheelchair-dependent and needs an aide; she took adaptive transport from the north or England for her visa interview. She's also now happily married and living in California.
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Any idea if she worked? I'm still a bit concerned about this Public Charge, we are gonna get legal advice but it's just for piece of mind ight now.
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I only bring up their seemingly complicated situation because at the time I read the beginning of their story I thought "heartbreak ahead", but it was amazingly straight forward, and other than their additional expenses for transport and the need to get an adaptive entrance to the Embassy building, it was like any other K-1 case I've ever read about.
I thought the Public Charge thing would be a deal killer, but it was not. Neither was insurance (don't remember the details, but she got onto his State-based plan somehow). They both have significant medical needs.
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wow, that is pretty shocking but thanks for the info, its kinda put my mind at ease.
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