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Hi,
I'm planning on marrying my US girlfriend within the the next year or 2 and trying to move to the US. We have heard that the easiest way is to travel to the US on a travel visa then marry in the US and apply for the green card there. However, i don't want to risk being out of work for too long as I won't be able to legally work this way.
The other option is for us to marry here and try and apply for a green card before we leave. Unfortunately her visa runs out at the end of 2010 and she has to leave back to the US, so we really only have a year and a bit to get married and try and sort everything out.
I guess my questions are this:
Does anyone know whether it is easiest to apply for a green card in the US or prior?
And also are there any constrictions on how long you've had to have been married or together before you're likely to get a green card?
Any help would be very much appreciated.
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I'm planning on marrying my US girlfriend within the the next year or 2 and trying to move to the US. We have heard that the easiest way is to travel to the US on a travel visa then marry in the US and apply for the green card there. However, i don't want to risk being out of work for too long as I won't be able to legally work this way.
The other option is for us to marry here and try and apply for a green card before we leave. Unfortunately her visa runs out at the end of 2010 and she has to leave back to the US, so we really only have a year and a bit to get married and try and sort everything out.
I guess my questions are this:
Does anyone know whether it is easiest to apply for a green card in the US or prior?
And also are there any constrictions on how long you've had to have been married or together before you're likely to get a green card?
Any help would be very much appreciated.
Cheers
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However, i don't want to risk being out of work for too long as I won't be able to legally work this way.
Unfortunately her visa runs out at the end of 2010 and she has to leave back to the US, so we really only have a year and a bit to get married and try and sort everything out.
Getting married in the US does not confer any special privileges unless one of you is a USC. Since neither of you are, getting married in the US is all you can do. Neither of you have a basis to remain in the US.
Bottom line - there is *no* way for you to live and work in the US in your current situation. End of story. Full stop.
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mlw500 - if she is a US citizen, you should marry before April 2010. She should then file form I-130 in the US (plus supporting documents). It'll take about 6-8 months before you get a visa (it'll be an "immigrant visa"... not a green card), but if you time this right, you will both be able to enter the US at the end of 2010 when her visa expires. You will become a PR the day you enter the US with your immigrant visa - and will be able to live/work in the US from day one.
Sorry about my earlier confusion. I shouldn't reply to messages before I have a sufficient infusion of coffee!
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My bad... I misread this bit. So, she is a USC currently in the UK on a visa.
mlw500 - if she is a US citizen, you should marry before April 2010. She should then file form I-130 in the US (plus supporting documents). It'll take about 6-8 months before you get a visa (it'll be an "immigrant visa"... not a green card), but if you time this right, you will both be able to enter the US at the end of 2010 when her visa expires. You will become a PR the day you enter the US with your immigrant visa - and will be able to live/work in the US from day one.
Sorry about my earlier confusion. I shouldn't reply to messages before I have a sufficient infusion of coffee!
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mlw500 - if she is a US citizen, you should marry before April 2010. She should then file form I-130 in the US (plus supporting documents). It'll take about 6-8 months before you get a visa (it'll be an "immigrant visa"... not a green card), but if you time this right, you will both be able to enter the US at the end of 2010 when her visa expires. You will become a PR the day you enter the US with your immigrant visa - and will be able to live/work in the US from day one.
Sorry about my earlier confusion. I shouldn't reply to messages before I have a sufficient infusion of coffee!
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I'm correcting Ian's thought that your wife should file the I-130 in the US. Since she has a visa to remain in the UK, she should file the I-130 at the USCIS/US Consulate in London first. If accepted there, it will shave months off the wait time. Has she already been living in the UK for six months? If so, it is quite possible they will accept the I-130 in the UK.
If they don't they will return it to her in a matter of a week or two with instructions for her to file it in the US. So only a minimal amount of time lost.
If accepted for filing in the UK wait time at present (which can change at any time) is approximately 6 to 8 months. If not accepted and she has to file stateside, the wait is approximately 8 to 10 months.
This is the preferable way for you to go as when you enter the US with an approved Immediate Relative Visa in your passport, you become a US Permanent Resident/Greencard holder upon entry with all the rights to live and work there from day one.
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Thanks for the replies, they have been great.
My girlfriend is a US citizen and we are both currently living in Ireland (her visa to ireland will run out next and she will also be returning to the US for a college program). I am also currently living in Ireland but i'm a UK citizen. I'm not sure whether we can sort out any of our documentation theought the embassy in Ireland or whether i would have to travel to london to sort it out.
The suggestions you made are great, I was just concerned that timings might look bad, i.e. we got married before april and then applied for the immigrant visa straight away, and if it would be more difficult if she moved back to the US and I was still over here. I was concerned that it looks like we were marrying just for the visa, or am I over thinking this?
Also my g/friend believs it's easier for us to try and sort it out over there but i'm really not keen on doing it, especially as I'll be illegal. Could you tell me why it's a bad and the possible consequences, just so we can rule it out.
Cheers and thanks for all your help.
My girlfriend is a US citizen and we are both currently living in Ireland (her visa to ireland will run out next and she will also be returning to the US for a college program). I am also currently living in Ireland but i'm a UK citizen. I'm not sure whether we can sort out any of our documentation theought the embassy in Ireland or whether i would have to travel to london to sort it out.
The suggestions you made are great, I was just concerned that timings might look bad, i.e. we got married before april and then applied for the immigrant visa straight away, and if it would be more difficult if she moved back to the US and I was still over here. I was concerned that it looks like we were marrying just for the visa, or am I over thinking this?
Also my g/friend believs it's easier for us to try and sort it out over there but i'm really not keen on doing it, especially as I'll be illegal. Could you tell me why it's a bad and the possible consequences, just so we can rule it out.
Cheers and thanks for all your help.
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Originally Posted by mlw500
The suggestions you made are great, I was just concerned that timings might look bad, i.e. we got married before april and then applied for the immigrant visa straight away, and if it would be more difficult if she moved back to the US and I was still over here. I was concerned that it looks like we were marrying just for the visa, or am I over thinking this?
The possible consequences? Let's say that you follow your girlfriend's preferred plan -- you enter the US on the VWP with the intention of marrying and then staying and applying for a green card. If you fail -- for example, the immigration officials don't believe that you didn't have immigration intent when you entered the US (and they'd be correct) -- then you CANNOT appeal their ruling. You waived those rights away when you signed the I-94W card on the plane. You must leave the US and face a possible lifetime ban from the US.
The sooner your girlfriend accepts that little in immigration is "easy" the better off you'll both be. She may not like it, but what she wants has little to do with it. Ultimately it's the US government that decides, everything's at their discretion entirely, and it's better to play by their rules rather than face the consequences for choosing to go your own way -- which may be illegal.
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Thanks for the replies, they have been great.
My girlfriend is a US citizen and we are both currently living in Ireland (her visa to ireland will run out next and she will also be returning to the US for a college program). I am also currently living in Ireland but i'm a UK citizen. I'm not sure whether we can sort out any of our documentation theought the embassy in Ireland or whether i would have to travel to london to sort it out.
The suggestions you made are great, I was just concerned that timings might look bad, i.e. we got married before april and then applied for the immigrant visa straight away, and if it would be more difficult if she moved back to the US and I was still over here. I was concerned that it looks like we were marrying just for the visa, or am I over thinking this?
Also my g/friend believs it's easier for us to try and sort it out over there but i'm really not keen on doing it, especially as I'll be illegal. Could you tell me why it's a bad and the possible consequences, just so we can rule it out.
Cheers and thanks for all your help.
My girlfriend is a US citizen and we are both currently living in Ireland (her visa to ireland will run out next and she will also be returning to the US for a college program). I am also currently living in Ireland but i'm a UK citizen. I'm not sure whether we can sort out any of our documentation theought the embassy in Ireland or whether i would have to travel to london to sort it out.
The suggestions you made are great, I was just concerned that timings might look bad, i.e. we got married before april and then applied for the immigrant visa straight away, and if it would be more difficult if she moved back to the US and I was still over here. I was concerned that it looks like we were marrying just for the visa, or am I over thinking this?
Also my g/friend believs it's easier for us to try and sort it out over there but i'm really not keen on doing it, especially as I'll be illegal. Could you tell me why it's a bad and the possible consequences, just so we can rule it out.
Cheers and thanks for all your help.
If your GF fits this criteria, she is eligible to file in Ireland, cutting the visa application timeline down considerably. You should easily be able to complete this process within a year.
U.S. citizens who have been resident in the Republic of Ireland who wish to sponsor an immediate relative can file the I-130 petition at the Embassy. Both the U.S. citizen petitioner and the beneficiary (the alien spouse) must have maintained continuous residency in our consular district (the Republic of Ireland) for a minimum of the preceding six months in order to demonstrate principal residence. Appropriate evidence that the petitioner and the beneficiary have permission to reside in the Republic of Ireland must be provided. We will require evidence in the form of:
* the U.S. citizen petitioner - a photocopy of the leave to remain stamp from the Irish government, in the petitioner's passport; (must also include a photocopy of the photo page of U.S. passport)
If that fits you, please read the first link in my signature for a description of the process.
Then go to the Dublin page here for further information: http://dublin.usembassy.gov/filing_the_i130.html
Doing this while abroad secures an Immigrant Visa for you before you immigrate. You become a Permanent Resident (green card) on arrival, and are employment authorized from the first day.
IF you do the previously debated 'fly in and file' method, you won't have work authorization, it is illegal and you are at significant risk if your case goes bad. I just think it's a no brainer when you already want to be married, and are both together overseas.
We did the DCF method and haven't had a single complaint about the process.
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a) I'm not sure whether we can sort out any of our documentation theought the embassy in Ireland or whether i would have to travel to london to sort it out.
b) I was just concerned that timings might look bad, i.e. we got married before april and then applied for the immigrant visa straight away
c) and if it would be more difficult if she moved back to the US and I was still over here.
d) I was concerned that it looks like we were marrying just for the visa, or am I over thinking this?
e) Also my g/friend believs it's easier for us to try and sort it out over there
f) i'm really not keen on doing it, especially as I'll be illegal.
g) Could you tell me why it's a bad and the possible consequences, just so we can rule it out.
b) I was just concerned that timings might look bad, i.e. we got married before april and then applied for the immigrant visa straight away
c) and if it would be more difficult if she moved back to the US and I was still over here.
d) I was concerned that it looks like we were marrying just for the visa, or am I over thinking this?
e) Also my g/friend believs it's easier for us to try and sort it out over there
f) i'm really not keen on doing it, especially as I'll be illegal.
g) Could you tell me why it's a bad and the possible consequences, just so we can rule it out.
Most of the process is accomplished by post. You'd need a trip to London for a medical examination and visa interview.
b) Nah, lots of folk do it. If you don't have a criminal record and satisfy the other conditions they stipulate (like financial conditions) you'll be fine.
c) The level of difficulty would be the same. But it would take longer, plus you'd be apart for the best part of a year (I'm comparing the two legal options here, not the one she wants you to take). Why do that when an easier route is available to you?
d) See b)
e) She's wrong.
f) Good. Hold that thought. And don't let her convince you otherwise.
g) It's illegal. Is the potential of a lifetime ban from entering the US enough of a deterrent?
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