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Originally posted by James Mars
Whats the latest sighting on Said?
Whats the latest sighting on Said?
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Originally posted by James Mars
Whats the latest sighting on Said?
Whats the latest sighting on Said?
HA!
I do not know where he is.
I am giving up caring where he is.
He did call me, crying, saying that he had made a big mistake. I told him there was nothing else I could do for him. I said I tried to get you home and you snuck out without saying goobye to any of us.....You're on your own now, you made your own choices.
That's all I know.
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Good girl.
Originally posted by lulusmom
Said Sightings....
HA!
I do not know where he is.
I am giving up caring where he is.
He did call me, crying, saying that he had made a big mistake. I told him there was nothing else I could do for him. I said I tried to get you home and you snuck out without saying goobye to any of us.....You're on your own now, you made your own choices.
That's all I know.
~k
Said Sightings....
HA!
I do not know where he is.
I am giving up caring where he is.
He did call me, crying, saying that he had made a big mistake. I told him there was nothing else I could do for him. I said I tried to get you home and you snuck out without saying goobye to any of us.....You're on your own now, you made your own choices.
That's all I know.
~k
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Originally posted by James Mars
Whats the latest sighting on Said?
Whats the latest sighting on Said?
Yah.....you did a good job.
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Originally posted by lulusmom
Said Sightings....
HA!
I do not know where he is.
I am giving up caring where he is.
He did call me, crying, saying that he had made a big mistake. I told him there was nothing else I could do for him. I said I tried to get you home and you snuck out without saying goobye to any of us.....You're on your own now, you made your own choices.
That's all I know.
~k
Said Sightings....
HA!
I do not know where he is.
I am giving up caring where he is.
He did call me, crying, saying that he had made a big mistake. I told him there was nothing else I could do for him. I said I tried to get you home and you snuck out without saying goobye to any of us.....You're on your own now, you made your own choices.
That's all I know.
~k
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I think I got to about page 12 on the other thread...and even getting through those 12 pages probably took me 3 days, haha. I didn't get past that and also didn't get a chance to reply to it, but I just wanted to add to everyone else that I am truely sorry to hear what has happened to you. It is such a complete shocker and no one should have to go through something like that. It's even more so of a shocker when you "know" someone before it happens.
As far as I've followed the other thread you seem to have notified the police, which I think was very wise of you. You just never know what may happen. It may seem silly to do, but you simply don't know,so it's better to be safe than sorry. Of course changing the locks was a good idea as well. I guess if he tried to call you to tell you he's sorry about what he did he may try to sneak back into your life. You definitely don't need a man like that!!!
Again, I am so sorry you had to go through something like that, especially after all the trouble of getting him over here in the first place. Please do keep us posted, and best of luck to you from here on out.
As far as I've followed the other thread you seem to have notified the police, which I think was very wise of you. You just never know what may happen. It may seem silly to do, but you simply don't know,so it's better to be safe than sorry. Of course changing the locks was a good idea as well. I guess if he tried to call you to tell you he's sorry about what he did he may try to sneak back into your life. You definitely don't need a man like that!!!
Again, I am so sorry you had to go through something like that, especially after all the trouble of getting him over here in the first place. Please do keep us posted, and best of luck to you from here on out.
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Originally posted by lulusmom
He did call me, crying, saying that he had made a big mistake. I told him there was nothing else I could do for him. I said I tried to get you home and you snuck out without saying goobye to any of us.....You're on your own now, you made your own choices.
~k
He did call me, crying, saying that he had made a big mistake. I told him there was nothing else I could do for him. I said I tried to get you home and you snuck out without saying goobye to any of us.....You're on your own now, you made your own choices.
~k
Amazing he'd want you to help him or take him back. I'm glad you told him he's on his own. He's "made his bed," now he's gotta sleep in it!
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jcapulet wrote:
> Originally posted by lulusmom
>
>>He did call me, crying,
>
> saying that he had made a big mistake. I told him there was nothing
> else I could do for him. I said I tried to get you home and you snuck
> out without saying goobye to any of us.....You're on your own now, you
> made your own choices.
>
>>~k
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> Kristine,
>
> Amazing he'd want you
> to help him or take him back. I'm glad you told him he's on his own.
> He's "made his bed," now he's gotta sleep in it!
>
To be safe, I think the best solution would be that if he is now
willing, she can give him the ticket home. It would be better for her if
he was on another continent.
> Originally posted by lulusmom
>
>>He did call me, crying,
>
> saying that he had made a big mistake. I told him there was nothing
> else I could do for him. I said I tried to get you home and you snuck
> out without saying goobye to any of us.....You're on your own now, you
> made your own choices.
>
>>~k
>
>
> Kristine,
>
> Amazing he'd want you
> to help him or take him back. I'm glad you told him he's on his own.
> He's "made his bed," now he's gotta sleep in it!
>
To be safe, I think the best solution would be that if he is now
willing, she can give him the ticket home. It would be better for her if
he was on another continent.
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Originally posted by Mtravelkay
To be safe, I think the best solution would be that if he is now
willing, she can give him the ticket home. It would be better for her if
he was on another continent.
To be safe, I think the best solution would be that if he is now
willing, she can give him the ticket home. It would be better for her if
he was on another continent.
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Originally posted by lulusmom
Said Sightings....
HA!
I do not know where he is.
I am giving up caring where he is.
He did call me, crying, saying that he had made a big mistake. I told him there was nothing else I could do for him. I said I tried to get you home and you snuck out without saying goobye to any of us.....You're on your own now, you made your own choices.
That's all I know.
~k
Said Sightings....
HA!
I do not know where he is.
I am giving up caring where he is.
He did call me, crying, saying that he had made a big mistake. I told him there was nothing else I could do for him. I said I tried to get you home and you snuck out without saying goobye to any of us.....You're on your own now, you made your own choices.
That's all I know.
~k
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Originally posted by jcapulet
Kristine,
Amazing he'd want you to help him or take him back. I'm glad you told him he's on his own. He's "made his bed," now he's gotta sleep in it!
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Kristine,
Amazing he'd want you to help him or take him back. I'm glad you told him he's on his own. He's "made his bed," now he's gotta sleep in it!
Btw, I love your new name and Avatar!
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Not amazing at all, Juliet. Very typical behavior.
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I'm curious Kristine, did he call you before or after he was served with the papers for the restraining order?
I'm curious Kristine, did he call you before or after he was served with the papers for the restraining order?
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Originally posted by Steffi
Oh, were those given to him? Like I said, I lost track on that other thread...it got too long to read through.
Oh, were those given to him? Like I said, I lost track on that other thread...it got too long to read through.
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Originally posted by Leslie66
Not amazing at all, Juliet. Very typical behavior.
Not amazing at all, Juliet. Very typical behavior.
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