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Old Nov 21st 2009, 7:02 am
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Originally Posted by hugeness
Under Utah housing law, this is her house, she can serve a notice to evict .. 5 days notice.
You are not a tenant, however. You are a spouse and as a spouse you can't be evicted under the housing law.

You can be court ordered to leave the premises based on the divorce / separation proceedings especially if you are not part owner of the house, i.e. it was owned by her before the marriage or acquired by her after the marriage without your name on the mortgage and deed.

You truly need to have a divorce attorney of your own and that is going to cost you and you are without funds. Please check out the web for pro bono agencies in Utah that might be of assistance to you.
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I did waiver and i was approved. If you have more questions ask me. I will be glad to help. If you won't see my post on here, that means someone delete it again LOL so you can PM me. Best wishes Milan
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It's extremely poor policy to PM or email individuals for immigration information; it's strongly discouraged here or anywhere. If the information is incorrect, at least when posted in public, others have a chance to correct it.

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I did waiver and i was approved. If you have more questions ask me. I will be glad to help. If you won't see my post on here, that means someone delete it again LOL so you can PM me. Best wishes Milan
Considering your own record of errors in posting, you in particular should take that on board Milan. Tell someone again to PM you for information and you will have a vacation from this site.
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Originally Posted by meauxna
It's extremely poor policy to PM or email individuals for immigration information; it's strongly discouraged here or anywhere. If the information is incorrect, at least when posted in public, others have a chance to correct it.


Considering your own record of errors in posting, you in particular should take that on board Milan. Tell someone again to PM you for information and you will have a vacation from this site.
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Old Jan 2nd 2010, 11:28 am
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update:

thanks to everyone for the advice, very useful.
I managed to get out of the house, just in time, she changed the locks on the monday, managed to get most of my stuff out.

shes concocting a claim that i have taken a couple of books from her...
just muddying the waters, but at least i am out, and although still stressed, not a mentalist (sorry about that, just such a shock, i am a tough guy, but it was the still being in love with my attacker made it so tricky)..

so.. it appears that i can apply to remove conditions when the divorce is over, but it actually looks like a tricky one, it was her house, no co-mingling of finances (i didnt get my first job till the week she left me) and all the letters i sent her (the ones that prove i came in good faith) are with her!
i have some emails. hope thats enough.

what if i didnt apply to change conditions immediately, and saved up to buy a place? i heard that if you own property it helps?
thanks again...
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so.. it appears that i can apply to remove conditions when the divorce is over...
You'll want to do a bit of research on this, I believe the rules recently changed, and now you can file the I-751 actually before you have the divorce decree in hand.

but it actually looks like a tricky one, it was her house, no co-mingling of finances (i didnt get my first job till the week she left me) and all the letters i sent her (the ones that prove i came in good faith) are with her! i have some emails. hope thats enough.
It will benefit you to get as much documentation as possible that you had a joint life together.

what if i didnt apply to change conditions immediately, and saved up to buy a place?
I would not postpone the I-751 filing.

i heard that if you own property it helps?
I've not heard this.

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Originally Posted by Noorah101
You'll want to do a bit of research on this, I believe the rules recently changed, and now you can file the I-751 actually before you have the divorce decree in hand.


It will benefit you to get as much documentation as possible that you had a joint life together.


I would not postpone the I-751 filing.


I've not heard this.

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Excellent Rene!
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