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I am an american girl and have recently become engaged to my british boyfriend. He lives in London and we spoke of getting married on the phone so I haven't yet seen him to get an engagement ring but want to go ahead and start the paperwork since it is a long wait for the process to go through.
I keep feeling hesitant .. I don't want to miss anything or fill out any section incorrectly and further delay the process. Do I need to send photos? I haven't got pictures of plane tickets but I've got the data surrounding the flights.
I've filled out the I-129F Petition for Alien Fiance and am about to redo it because I heard answering none is better than n/a. Am I being paranoid? Also I am unsure of the fee required to get this processed.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
I keep feeling hesitant .. I don't want to miss anything or fill out any section incorrectly and further delay the process. Do I need to send photos? I haven't got pictures of plane tickets but I've got the data surrounding the flights.
I've filled out the I-129F Petition for Alien Fiance and am about to redo it because I heard answering none is better than n/a. Am I being paranoid? Also I am unsure of the fee required to get this processed.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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The obligation is to demonstrate that you have met face-to-face at least once in the prior 2 years. You don't "need" photos... but absent other forms of evidence, they'll do nicely.
If a question is *not* applicable, then "n/a" is the correct response. If a question *is* applicable, then "n/a" is an incorrect response.
Not paranoid... but also, perhaps, not up to doing this on your own. Don't try to interpret the questions... just take them at face value.
The correct and current fee is *always* posted at www.uscis.gov.
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I've filled out the I-129F Petition for Alien Fiance and am about to redo it because I heard answering none is better than n/a.
Am I being paranoid?
Also I am unsure of the fee required to get this processed.
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How is this typically done? A lawyer fee on top of the application fee makes for a mighty hefty fee!
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If you feel confident enough to do it yourself, you can do it yourself and save money, if you don't feel confident, then pay for a lawyer...you can always search around for charitable groups to see if a lawyer will do pro bono work....there's a list somewhere or there use to be on the uscis website.
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thank you for your direction, ian! very helpful.
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This is the best option to take, right? I read something about the immigration visa on this forum wherein we marry before filing anything and he spends the time it takes to process everything in his respective country .. thereby avoiding sitting around 6 months in the U.S. waiting to get a green card for working purposes.
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This is the best option to take, right? I read something about the immigration visa on this forum wherein we marry before filing anything and he spends the time it takes to process everything in his respective country .. thereby avoiding sitting around 6 months in the U.S. waiting to get a green card for working purposes.
You can do the fiance visa or the marriage visa, either one will require time waiting around, the difference being one will be before you are married, the other after.
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is there perhaps a link to some information to weigh the pros and cons of fiance or marriage visa?
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I am an american girl and have recently become engaged to my british boyfriend. He lives in London and we spoke of getting married on the phone so I haven't yet seen him to get an engagement ring but want to go ahead and start the paperwork since it is a long wait for the process to go through.
I keep feeling hesitant .. I don't want to miss anything or fill out any section incorrectly and further delay the process. Do I need to send photos? I haven't got pictures of plane tickets but I've got the data surrounding the flights.
I've filled out the I-129F Petition for Alien Fiance and am about to redo it because I heard answering none is better than n/a. Am I being paranoid? Also I am unsure of the fee required to get this processed.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
I keep feeling hesitant .. I don't want to miss anything or fill out any section incorrectly and further delay the process. Do I need to send photos? I haven't got pictures of plane tickets but I've got the data surrounding the flights.
I've filled out the I-129F Petition for Alien Fiance and am about to redo it because I heard answering none is better than n/a. Am I being paranoid? Also I am unsure of the fee required to get this processed.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Have a read here: K1 Visa Flowchart and here: GUIDELINES FOR THE FILING OF THE 1-129F
There's links to the official pages you need, good checklists there and you can read around about the value of different types of evidence and what it is you need to prove in the petition.
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This is the best option to take, right? I read something about the immigration visa on this forum wherein we marry before filing anything and he spends the time it takes to process everything in his respective country .. thereby avoiding sitting around 6 months in the U.S. waiting to get a green card for working purposes.
They are just two different routes to the same goal...living and working permanently in the USA.
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I am an american girl and have recently become engaged to my british boyfriend. He lives in London and we spoke of getting married on the phone so I haven't yet seen him to get an engagement ring but want to go ahead and start the paperwork since it is a long wait for the process to go through.
I keep feeling hesitant .. I don't want to miss anything or fill out any section incorrectly and further delay the process. Do I need to send photos? I haven't got pictures of plane tickets but I've got the data surrounding the flights.
I keep feeling hesitant .. I don't want to miss anything or fill out any section incorrectly and further delay the process. Do I need to send photos? I haven't got pictures of plane tickets but I've got the data surrounding the flights.
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We've spent a bit of time together throughout the last 2 and a half years .. going back and forth and spending time on holiday. I've got some of my tickets in the memory box and loads of photographs I was just wondering for his ticket since I don't have the actual printed out receipt if the data that he emailed me about his flight arrival would be sufficient.
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We've spent a bit of time together throughout the last 2 and a half years .. going back and forth and spending time on holiday. I've got some of my tickets in the memory box and loads of photographs I was just wondering for his ticket since I don't have the actual printed out receipt if the data that he emailed me about his flight arrival would be sufficient.
With my I-129F petition, I included photos of us together, a copy of my travel itinerary, a copy of the boarding pass stubs, and a copy of my passport showing entry and exit stamps as proof of us meeting in person.
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