American man marrying a British woman
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"Patrick" wrote
> Heres a suggestion, apply for a K1 (Fiance visa), do so you have it in
> time for your wedding in the UK, get married in the UK then enter the US
> on the Fiance visa. You can then AOS straight away as you will be
> married. I have no idea what the legal issues are do doing this but it
> seems like a way around the problem.
No, that won't work. You must not be married when *entering* the US on a
K-1.
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> Heres a suggestion, apply for a K1 (Fiance visa), do so you have it in
> time for your wedding in the UK, get married in the UK then enter the US
> on the Fiance visa. You can then AOS straight away as you will be
> married. I have no idea what the legal issues are do doing this but it
> seems like a way around the problem.
No, that won't work. You must not be married when *entering* the US on a
K-1.
Andy.
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Heres a suggestion, apply for a K1 (Fiance visa), do so you have it in time for your wedding in the UK, get married in the UK then enter the US on the Fiance visa.
I don't think that would work...don't you have to be single to be a K1 visa holder? As soon as you get married, you're no longer eligible for a K1 type visa. That's my understanding, anyway :-)
Rene
I don't think that would work...don't you have to be single to be a K1 visa holder? As soon as you get married, you're no longer eligible for a K1 type visa. That's my understanding, anyway :-)
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The K1 visa route (marry in the UK) does not work.
Imagine AOS...
You entered the US with K1 visa. But your marriage certificate states that you were married in the UK. Not only that, but it's dated from BEFORE you entered the US. Baaaaad move. VERY baaaaad move. You'd be royally screwed because your fiance would have entered the US under false pretenses.
That suggestion, to me, is perfectly illegal.
Sorry, kid - welcome to our world - paperwork, and beaurocracy, and paper pushing, and lots of frustration and tears.
You're going to have to go the same route everyone else does:
Either (1):
a) apply for a K1 visa, wait up to 8 months for it all to clear (depending on where the US Citizen lives)
b) marry in the US
c) wait for the Advance Parole papers, which will allow the UK citizen go to back home (travel) and re-enter the US - without it, the foreign fiance can't go back to the US and would have to apply for the K3 visa.
d) have a non-legal ceremony in the UK for the family there
Or (2):
a) get married in the UK
b) apply for a K3 visa
c) wait
Or (3):
a) get married in the UK
b) live in the UK for a little while
c) apply for DCF
Or (4):
a) take option one but have a non-legal ceremony in the UK before your fiance comes to the US to get married.
Your choices are limited. Welcome to the world of the unacceptable. Wanna know what else is unacceptable? One service centre can process our K1 visas in less than a month. But some of us don't live under that centre's jurisdiction. We have to wait 180 days for the same piece of paper.
It's not fair. It's unacceptable.
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Imagine AOS...
You entered the US with K1 visa. But your marriage certificate states that you were married in the UK. Not only that, but it's dated from BEFORE you entered the US. Baaaaad move. VERY baaaaad move. You'd be royally screwed because your fiance would have entered the US under false pretenses.
That suggestion, to me, is perfectly illegal.
Sorry, kid - welcome to our world - paperwork, and beaurocracy, and paper pushing, and lots of frustration and tears.
You're going to have to go the same route everyone else does:
Either (1):
a) apply for a K1 visa, wait up to 8 months for it all to clear (depending on where the US Citizen lives)
b) marry in the US
c) wait for the Advance Parole papers, which will allow the UK citizen go to back home (travel) and re-enter the US - without it, the foreign fiance can't go back to the US and would have to apply for the K3 visa.
d) have a non-legal ceremony in the UK for the family there
Or (2):
a) get married in the UK
b) apply for a K3 visa
c) wait
Or (3):
a) get married in the UK
b) live in the UK for a little while
c) apply for DCF
Or (4):
a) take option one but have a non-legal ceremony in the UK before your fiance comes to the US to get married.
Your choices are limited. Welcome to the world of the unacceptable. Wanna know what else is unacceptable? One service centre can process our K1 visas in less than a month. But some of us don't live under that centre's jurisdiction. We have to wait 180 days for the same piece of paper.
It's not fair. It's unacceptable.
Welcome to the BCIS, my friend...
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As we say in french: Tu dois prendre ton mal en patience - you must take your pain with patience...
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it was just an idea, I didn't say it was a good idea!
Originally posted by Elenfair
The K1 visa route (marry in the UK) does not work.
Imagine AOS...
You entered the US with K1 visa. But your marriage certificate states that you were married in the UK. Not only that, but it's dated from BEFORE you entered the US. Baaaaad move. VERY baaaaad move. You'd be royally screwed because your fiance would have entered the US under false pretenses.
That suggestion, to me, is perfectly illegal.
Sorry, kid - welcome to our world - paperwork, and beaurocracy, and paper pushing, and lots of frustration and tears.
You're going to have to go the same route everyone else does:
Either (1):
a) apply for a K1 visa, wait up to 8 months for it all to clear (depending on where the US Citizen lives)
b) marry in the US
c) wait for the Advance Parole papers, which will allow the UK citizen go to back home (travel) and re-enter the US - without it, the foreign fiance can't go back to the US and would have to apply for the K3 visa.
d) have a non-legal ceremony in the UK for the family there
Or (2):
a) get married in the UK
b) apply for a K3 visa
c) wait
Or (3):
a) get married in the UK
b) live in the UK for a little while
c) apply for DCF
Or (4):
a) take option one but have a non-legal ceremony in the UK before your fiance comes to the US to get married.
Your choices are limited. Welcome to the world of the unacceptable. Wanna know what else is unacceptable? One service centre can process our K1 visas in less than a month. But some of us don't live under that centre's jurisdiction. We have to wait 180 days for the same piece of paper.
It's not fair. It's unacceptable.
Welcome to the BCIS, my friend...![Wink](https://britishexpats.com/forum/images/smilies/wink.gif)
As we say in french: Tu dois prendre ton mal en patience - you must take your pain with patience...
Elly
The K1 visa route (marry in the UK) does not work.
Imagine AOS...
You entered the US with K1 visa. But your marriage certificate states that you were married in the UK. Not only that, but it's dated from BEFORE you entered the US. Baaaaad move. VERY baaaaad move. You'd be royally screwed because your fiance would have entered the US under false pretenses.
That suggestion, to me, is perfectly illegal.
Sorry, kid - welcome to our world - paperwork, and beaurocracy, and paper pushing, and lots of frustration and tears.
You're going to have to go the same route everyone else does:
Either (1):
a) apply for a K1 visa, wait up to 8 months for it all to clear (depending on where the US Citizen lives)
b) marry in the US
c) wait for the Advance Parole papers, which will allow the UK citizen go to back home (travel) and re-enter the US - without it, the foreign fiance can't go back to the US and would have to apply for the K3 visa.
d) have a non-legal ceremony in the UK for the family there
Or (2):
a) get married in the UK
b) apply for a K3 visa
c) wait
Or (3):
a) get married in the UK
b) live in the UK for a little while
c) apply for DCF
Or (4):
a) take option one but have a non-legal ceremony in the UK before your fiance comes to the US to get married.
Your choices are limited. Welcome to the world of the unacceptable. Wanna know what else is unacceptable? One service centre can process our K1 visas in less than a month. But some of us don't live under that centre's jurisdiction. We have to wait 180 days for the same piece of paper.
It's not fair. It's unacceptable.
Welcome to the BCIS, my friend...
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As we say in french: Tu dois prendre ton mal en patience - you must take your pain with patience...
Elly
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Originally posted by Elenfair
The K1 visa route (marry in the UK) does not work.
Imagine AOS...
You entered the US with K1 visa. But your marriage certificate states that you were married in the UK. Not only that, but it's dated from BEFORE you entered the US. Baaaaad move. VERY baaaaad move. You'd be royally screwed because your fiance would have entered the US under false pretenses.
That suggestion, to me, is perfectly illegal.
Sorry, kid - welcome to our world - paperwork, and beaurocracy, and paper pushing, and lots of frustration and tears.
You're going to have to go the same route everyone else does:
Either (1):
a) apply for a K1 visa, wait up to 8 months for it all to clear (depending on where the US Citizen lives)
b) marry in the US
c) wait for the Advance Parole papers, which will allow the UK citizen go to back home (travel) and re-enter the US - without it, the foreign fiance can't go back to the US and would have to apply for the K3 visa.
d) have a non-legal ceremony in the UK for the family there
Or (2):
a) get married in the UK
b) apply for a K3 visa
c) wait
Or (3):
a) get married in the UK
b) live in the UK for a little while
c) apply for DCF
Or (4):
a) take option one but have a non-legal ceremony in the UK before your fiance comes to the US to get married.
Your choices are limited. Welcome to the world of the unacceptable. Wanna know what else is unacceptable? One service centre can process our K1 visas in less than a month. But some of us don't live under that centre's jurisdiction. We have to wait 180 days for the same piece of paper.
It's not fair. It's unacceptable.
Welcome to the BCIS, my friend...![Wink](https://britishexpats.com/forum/images/smilies/wink.gif)
As we say in french: Tu dois prendre ton mal en patience - you must take your pain with patience...
Elly
The K1 visa route (marry in the UK) does not work.
Imagine AOS...
You entered the US with K1 visa. But your marriage certificate states that you were married in the UK. Not only that, but it's dated from BEFORE you entered the US. Baaaaad move. VERY baaaaad move. You'd be royally screwed because your fiance would have entered the US under false pretenses.
That suggestion, to me, is perfectly illegal.
Sorry, kid - welcome to our world - paperwork, and beaurocracy, and paper pushing, and lots of frustration and tears.
You're going to have to go the same route everyone else does:
Either (1):
a) apply for a K1 visa, wait up to 8 months for it all to clear (depending on where the US Citizen lives)
b) marry in the US
c) wait for the Advance Parole papers, which will allow the UK citizen go to back home (travel) and re-enter the US - without it, the foreign fiance can't go back to the US and would have to apply for the K3 visa.
d) have a non-legal ceremony in the UK for the family there
Or (2):
a) get married in the UK
b) apply for a K3 visa
c) wait
Or (3):
a) get married in the UK
b) live in the UK for a little while
c) apply for DCF
Or (4):
a) take option one but have a non-legal ceremony in the UK before your fiance comes to the US to get married.
Your choices are limited. Welcome to the world of the unacceptable. Wanna know what else is unacceptable? One service centre can process our K1 visas in less than a month. But some of us don't live under that centre's jurisdiction. We have to wait 180 days for the same piece of paper.
It's not fair. It's unacceptable.
Welcome to the BCIS, my friend...
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As we say in french: Tu dois prendre ton mal en patience - you must take your pain with patience...
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Originally posted by dave4j
I am an American citizen planning to marry a British citizen. Our wedding will be in the UK. Immediately after our honeymoon, we will live in the United States.
<<snip>>
US immigration reply not at all helpful. They basically say that my new wife will not be able to go with me to the US until her immigration visa is received and it cannot even be applied for until after the wedding and will then take 6 mos to 1 year to receive. Not acceptable.
I am an American citizen planning to marry a British citizen. Our wedding will be in the UK. Immediately after our honeymoon, we will live in the United States.
<<snip>>
US immigration reply not at all helpful. They basically say that my new wife will not be able to go with me to the US until her immigration visa is received and it cannot even be applied for until after the wedding and will then take 6 mos to 1 year to receive. Not acceptable.
Almost immediately afterwards, we filed DCF (direct consular filing) for my I-130 (spousal visa) directly with the US Embassy in London.
In fact, we began the DCF process before we married. My then fiance wrote to the US Embassy before our marriage, providing evidence of residency in the UK (absolutely essential to be eligible for DCF for the I-130 in the UK) and asking for the Embassy to send the relevant forms for the I-130.
These were in his possession before we married.
I think I even applied for the UK Police Certificate before I married.
Please search through this particular newsgroup to find relevant postings about the DCF process at the US Embassy in the UK.
From the moment we married, I believe it took only 3-4 months for us to complete the process (i.e. go for interview and get handed the visa packet).
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Originally posted by dave4j
...snip...Our wedding will be in the UK. Immediately after our honeymoon, we will live in the United States....snip...
...snip...Our wedding will be in the UK. Immediately after our honeymoon, we will live in the United States....snip...
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ScarlettHill wrote:
> Originally posted by dave4j
>
>>...snip...Our wedding will be in the UK. Immediately after our
>>honeymoon, we will live in the United States....snip...
> I love the optimism of this. I'm sorry the world isn't like that. I
> imagine you're going through a fair amount of shock right now at the
> harsh realities. All I can say is you will get there - it just won't be
> as quick as you hoped. You'll find this newsgroup a lifeline in the next
> few months. Welcome to the gang!
>
I agree. If it was that easy, this group would have a lot less traffic.
To the OP: Whatever you do, be honest with the Immigration people.
> Originally posted by dave4j
>
>>...snip...Our wedding will be in the UK. Immediately after our
>>honeymoon, we will live in the United States....snip...
> I love the optimism of this. I'm sorry the world isn't like that. I
> imagine you're going through a fair amount of shock right now at the
> harsh realities. All I can say is you will get there - it just won't be
> as quick as you hoped. You'll find this newsgroup a lifeline in the next
> few months. Welcome to the gang!
>
I agree. If it was that easy, this group would have a lot less traffic.
To the OP: Whatever you do, be honest with the Immigration people.
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[/QUOTE]Your choices are limited. Welcome to the world of the unacceptable. Wanna know what else is unacceptable? One service centre can process our K1 visas in less than a month. But some of us don't live under that centre's jurisdiction. We have to wait 180 days for the same piece of paper.
It's not fair. It's unacceptable.
Welcome to the BCIS, my friend...![Wink](https://britishexpats.com/forum/images/smilies/wink.gif)
As we say in french: Tu dois prendre ton mal en patience - you must take your pain with patience...
Elly [/QUOTE]
Ya know what Elly What's even more unacceptable the same service center (Nebraska) that takes so long now, 2 years ago was doing the same K1 visa within 60 days some even within 30 days. I was researching dave hollis' site. Even during 9/11 they were processing them within that time period...i was shocked and dismayed...how can the same service center get soo slow....are they having that many more petitions?
Carey
It's not fair. It's unacceptable.
Welcome to the BCIS, my friend...
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As we say in french: Tu dois prendre ton mal en patience - you must take your pain with patience...
Elly [/QUOTE]
Ya know what Elly What's even more unacceptable the same service center (Nebraska) that takes so long now, 2 years ago was doing the same K1 visa within 60 days some even within 30 days. I was researching dave hollis' site. Even during 9/11 they were processing them within that time period...i was shocked and dismayed...how can the same service center get soo slow....are they having that many more petitions?
Carey
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Originally posted by Careybear
Ya know what Elly What's even more unacceptable the same service center (Nebraska) that takes so long now, 2 years ago was doing the same K1 visa within 60 days some even within 30 days. I was researching dave hollis' site. Even during 9/11 they were processing them within that time period...i was shocked and dismayed...how can the same service center get soo slow....are they having that many more petitions?
Carey
Ya know what Elly What's even more unacceptable the same service center (Nebraska) that takes so long now, 2 years ago was doing the same K1 visa within 60 days some even within 30 days. I was researching dave hollis' site. Even during 9/11 they were processing them within that time period...i was shocked and dismayed...how can the same service center get soo slow....are they having that many more petitions?
Carey
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- yet, as recently as last August/September, its turnaround was a month also - see Scarlett's timeline!
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What if we only plan to live in the US for a year or two max, before moving elsewhere? She does not really 'need' an immigration visa. We would rather smply be married and togeher in the US and forget the immigration visa.
Since British citizens can come to the US without a visa anyway - could she not just come on a tourist visa and then leave the country every six months?
Also, which center approves the fiancee visa the quickest in case we decide to go that route? I have family spread around the country and could establish residency where needed to get the processing done in time.
Since British citizens can come to the US without a visa anyway - could she not just come on a tourist visa and then leave the country every six months?
Also, which center approves the fiancee visa the quickest in case we decide to go that route? I have family spread around the country and could establish residency where needed to get the processing done in time.
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Originally posted by dave4j
What if we only plan to live in the US for a year or two max, before moving elsewhere? She does not really 'need' an immigration visa.
What if we only plan to live in the US for a year or two max, before moving elsewhere? She does not really 'need' an immigration visa.
This could be a spousal visa, a work visa, a student visa perhaps. The fiance visa is technically a non-immigrant visa but would allow her to adjust status to become an immigrant. But no matter what, based on what you're telling us, your fiancee DOES need an immigrant visa, even if you do not think it is necessary.
We would rather smply be married and togeher in the US and forget the immigration visa.
Since British citizens can come to the US without a visa anyway - could she not just come on a tourist visa and then leave the country every six months?
Also, which center approves the fiancee visa the quickest in case we decide to go that route? I have family spread around the country and could establish residency where needed to get the processing done in time.
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Originally posted by dave4j
What if we only plan to live in the US for a year or two max, before moving elsewhere? She does not really 'need' an immigration visa. We would rather smply be married and togeher in the US and forget the immigration visa.
What if we only plan to live in the US for a year or two max, before moving elsewhere? She does not really 'need' an immigration visa. We would rather smply be married and togeher in the US and forget the immigration visa.
Since British citizens can come to the US without a visa anyway - could she not just come on a tourist visa and then leave the country every six months?
It is no joke (and it's happened to people here who could prove they were even applying for the right visas) to be stopped when you get off the plane and sent back because the POE oficial belives you have immigrant intent. It's devastating. And it does happen. It's amazing how easy it is for a Brit to get into America UNTIL they marry a USC. Sound crazy. It is. But it's also true.
Also, which center approves the fiancee visa the quickest in case we decide to go that route? I have family spread around the country and could establish residency where needed to get the processing done in time.
http://members.aol.com/MDUdall/sctimes.htm
Best of luck!
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