You know your kids have integrated when....
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.... you drop your 4 year old off at nursery (he was 1 when we moved here and has only been at nursery for a few months) , you're hanging his backpack etc on his hook, he stands up straight and looks all serious and refuses to budge, as he has heard the into to 'O Canada' and he's not going to move until it's over.
Earlier this week I volunteered in my 6 year old daughter's class (she was 4 when we moved) and there she was proudly singing "O Canada' in French......
My little almost Canadians!
Earlier this week I volunteered in my 6 year old daughter's class (she was 4 when we moved) and there she was proudly singing "O Canada' in French......
My little almost Canadians!
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I always feel a little sorry for the parents and the kids when that happens. There's a cultural disconnect that neither can fully appreciate and that creates and unfortunate distance. I suppose the parents and kids can't be as close if you don't grow up with the same shared experiences. It’s a bit sad really, but I guess that's the price you pay when you emigrate.
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@Oink
I think you're worrying about nothing. Cultural disconnect? Are you really suggesting that there's an age cutoff for assimilating a culture? It's just easier for the child because they're surrounded by other canadian children who will become their friends easily. If you put an adult in a similar situation I think they would assimilate just as fast. It's all about immersing yourself, adult or child. I'm sure the parents can catch up
@dbd33
You're rather negative about that... but you're entitled to your opinion of course. I would add personally that I don't think a culture will completely take over from the views and attitudes of the parents.
I think you're worrying about nothing. Cultural disconnect? Are you really suggesting that there's an age cutoff for assimilating a culture? It's just easier for the child because they're surrounded by other canadian children who will become their friends easily. If you put an adult in a similar situation I think they would assimilate just as fast. It's all about immersing yourself, adult or child. I'm sure the parents can catch up
@dbd33
You're rather negative about that... but you're entitled to your opinion of course. I would add personally that I don't think a culture will completely take over from the views and attitudes of the parents.
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I saw the film East is East which deals with this very issue and it seems that there's anger and resentment on both sides.
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I don't think there's a uniform culture that covers the entire scope of Canada, no, because it's a massive country. You get localised attitudes, in Vancouver for example the culture is defined largely by it's presence on the west coast. And there are certainly some strong cultural elements here.
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I don't think there's a uniform culture that covers the entire scope of Canada, no, because it's a massive country. You get localised attitudes, in Vancouver for example the culture is defined largely by it's presence on the west coast. And there are certainly some strong cultural elements here.
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love both these songs, any one would be great for the national anthem imo I also love OH Canada, and not the star spangled banner, but the other one sorry don't know the name it starts "oh beautiful something I prefer that one
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A national anthem needs a memorable tune, something you can belt out loud and not worry that you are singing off key, add some emotive words and and some sort of flourish and there you are. Instant patriotism.
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Hose A would be Jose perhaps?
Oh, say can you see by the dawn's early light
What so proudly we hailed at the twilight's last gleaming?
Whose broad stripes and bright stars thru the perilous fight,
O'er the ramparts we watched were so gallantly streaming?
And the rocket's red glare, the bombs bursting in air,
Gave proof through the night that our flag was still there.
Oh, say does that star-spangled banner yet wave
O'er the land of the free and the home of the brave?
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I like the star spangled banner, stirring words. The tune to Oh Canada is still indecipherable to my electronic ear which makes me think it doesn't use many notes.
A national anthem needs a memorable tune, something you can belt out loud and not worry that you are singing off key, add some emotive words and and some sort of flourish and there you are. Instant patriotism.
A national anthem needs a memorable tune, something you can belt out loud and not worry that you are singing off key, add some emotive words and and some sort of flourish and there you are. Instant patriotism.
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ah, I never understand lyrics so I look them up.
Hose A would be Jose perhaps?
Oh, say can you see by the dawn's early light
What so proudly we hailed at the twilight's last gleaming?
Whose broad stripes and bright stars thru the perilous fight,
O'er the ramparts we watched were so gallantly streaming?
And the rocket's red glare, the bombs bursting in air,
Gave proof through the night that our flag was still there.
Oh, say does that star-spangled banner yet wave
O'er the land of the free and the home of the brave?
Hose A would be Jose perhaps?
Oh, say can you see by the dawn's early light
What so proudly we hailed at the twilight's last gleaming?
Whose broad stripes and bright stars thru the perilous fight,
O'er the ramparts we watched were so gallantly streaming?
And the rocket's red glare, the bombs bursting in air,
Gave proof through the night that our flag was still there.
Oh, say does that star-spangled banner yet wave
O'er the land of the free and the home of the brave?
patriotic? ans are we not a bit jealous fo USA patriotism? We have just travelled up through the states, and I have to say I am more than impressed by the way they support their troups, and seem to honour them, I think about the poor boys from Blighty and they are nowhere as well looked after, and some of the people of Britain do not honour them as much as our american neighbours do, what a shame. These poor guys are out there against the odds, and it is against the odds (I have'nt known a gorilla warfare to be defeated yet) givining their lives its obscene IMO If I had my way they would be brought home