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Old Apr 2nd 2010, 3:43 pm
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I might eventually forgive - but I would never forget - and therefore the trust would be gone .... completely.

An affair would be much worse than a one night stand.

I don't think I'd go for revenge, I'd go for the martyr option, polishing my halo on a daily basis.
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Old Apr 2nd 2010, 3:46 pm
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I didn't and found a younger man
would i if it happened again probably not
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Originally Posted by dollface
Lifted this from the Dingo forum - interesting - discuss....................

With a man, woman or animal
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Default Re: Would you forgive an affair?...............

No - end of

As for the "all men would do it" I don't believe that that is true at all. Let's face it, while this is not bullet proof, it is not that difficult to work out those that would and those that wouldn't. Just like it wasn't that difficult to see who the slappers were and who the knobs were in our younger days.
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With a man, woman or animal
She's not that arsed really (p.s - she's from Edinburgh, they have a ....let's say, a bit of a reputation )
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Old Apr 2nd 2010, 4:43 pm
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Originally Posted by scottishcelts
She's not that arsed really (p.s - she's from Edinburgh, they have a ....let's say, a bit of a reputation )
you must be confusing it with Weegieland, too many bottles of Buckfast has crossed your lips
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It will be interesting to hear from some men, but in my opinion (for what it is worth) If Men do the dirty....women need to forgive and forget....if women do it....Men treat them as soiled goods and as their male pride is truly dented...a lot less forgiveness. I have seen the way my husband reacted when a close friend's wife did it to him.....and it were not pretty, I can tell you.
Do you ever hear a man called a slut, slag or whore for sowing wild oats?????? NO....but let a woman do it and there is no worse creature, in their eyes, on earth!!!!
Don't think I could forgive..........wouldn't want to put myself through the wringer everytime he was outta my sight. Trust is trust....a fragile thing....no....couldn't forgive. Anyway mine snores.....so nights alone would hold some appeal for me....lol.....
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Originally Posted by dollface
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Originally Posted by lins and Stef McLachlan
Hi
It will be interesting to hear from some men, but in my opinion (for what it is worth) If Men do the dirty....women need to forgive and forget....if women do it....Men treat them as soiled goods and as their male pride is truly dented...a lot less forgiveness. I have seen the way my husband reacted when a close friend's wife did it to him.....and it were not pretty, I can tell you.
Do you ever hear a man called a slut, slag or whore for sowing wild oats?????? NO....but let a woman do it and there is no worse creature, in their eyes, on earth!!!!
Don't think I could forgive..........wouldn't want to put myself through the wringer everytime he was outta my sight. Trust is trust....a fragile thing....no....couldn't forgive. Anyway mine snores.....so nights alone would hold some appeal for me....lol.....lol
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Personally, it would depend. We've got two kids and over a decade of marriage together, so I'd work hard to forgive a one night stand. An affair would be a different matter though, if it had gone on for a while then I'd kick him out and contact MMC for vengeance tips!
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Yes, if she was really hot.
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Old Apr 3rd 2010, 12:19 am
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Originally Posted by Oink
Yes, if she was really hot.
Like you having anyone hot is a possibility
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Originally Posted by dollface
you must be confusing it with Weegieland, too many bottles of Buckfast has crossed your lips
Qui?
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Old Apr 3rd 2010, 1:09 am
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Originally Posted by dollface
Not heard from any men yet.............come on guys, Rae, Al, Oink, LV, DBD etc lets hear from ya!
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Old Apr 3rd 2010, 4:05 am
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Like you having anyone hot is a possibility
me?
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Old Apr 3rd 2010, 4:40 am
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How about "on-line" affairs? Are they any less of an offence?
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