Originally Posted by sans (Post 6781025)

:) Mo you have just said exactly what i wanted to say, but without the spelling mistakes...................God Bless Ya:thumbsup:

Originally Posted by Morwenna (Post 6780796)

It's odd. I was thinking along the lines of this thread while I was out tidying the garden this morning.

I'm all for free speech and all that, but I think some people post on here things that they wouldn't think of saying to somebody face to face. I know I do too! - hopefully not in a nasty way, but because it's easy to be brave in the relative anonymity, and easy to plan what you are going to say, when you have the chance to write it down and review it.

Of course people are entitled to an opinion, but I really feel that each of us should realise that there are real people sitting at their keyboards. Normally common decency would prevent most people from deliberately being hurtful when they can see the recipients' reaction.

Those people on here who would really say exactly what they are thinking without regard to another's beliefs, opinions or feelings in the presence of those they are talking about are people I would rather not know. In real life I would not choose their company, and in virtual life I think I feel the same way.

There are many, the majority on here probably, who are kind and sensitive and inclined to be helpful, and those I respect. There are some who just like to clown around and make a noise. I can tolerate those and sometimes find them amusing, whether they meant to be or not. There are others who think a lot of themselves and look down on the rest of us. That's OK, I guess. One can ignore them to an extent, but when they are deliberately hurtful just because they can be, it seems to me like cowardly bullying.

There are times when I think there is too much of the latter on here, and then I withdraw for a bit. There's no point in trying to call people like that out on their behaviour ... that is just grist to their mill.

What am I trying to say? .... nothing much really, just musing. Back to the real world, I guess.

Originally Posted by Morwenna (Post 6780796)

It's odd. I was thinking along the lines of this thread while I was out tidying the garden this morning.

I'm all for free speech and all that, but I think some people post on here things that they wouldn't think of saying to somebody face to face. I know I do too! - hopefully not in a nasty way, but because it's easy to be brave in the relative anonymity, and easy to plan what you are going to say, when you have the chance to write it down and review it.

Of course people are entitled to an opinion, but I really feel that each of us should realise that there are real people sitting at their keyboards. Normally common decency would prevent most people from deliberately being hurtful when they can see the recipients' reaction.

Those people on here who would really say exactly what they are thinking without regard to another's beliefs, opinions or feelings in the presence of those they are talking about are people I would rather not know. In real life I would not choose their company, and in virtual life I think I feel the same way.

There are many, the majority on here probably, who are kind and sensitive and inclined to be helpful, and those I respect. There are some who just like to clown around and make a noise. I can tolerate those and sometimes find them amusing, whether they meant to be or not. There are others who think a lot of themselves and look down on the rest of us. That's OK, I guess. One can ignore them to an extent, but when they are deliberately hurtful just because they can be, it seems to me like cowardly bullying.

There are times when I think there is too much of the latter on here, and then I withdraw for a bit. There's no point in trying to call people like that out on their behaviour ... that is just grist to their mill.

What am I trying to say? .... nothing much really, just musing. Back to the real world, I guess.

Originally Posted by purple80 (Post 6782533)

Originally Posted by Rich_007 (Post 6782671)

Sorry to ruin the "fluffy pink poodle comforter" version of life but sometimes a good dose of reality is just not present in peoples heads.

Originally Posted by D15NEY (Post 6782335)

Its funny how now that Sas has left us that it seems ok for others to come out of the woodwork and join in with the 'Saskia Bashing'!

I was never her bezzie or anything but if people didn't like her why didn't they respond in such a way when she was here to defend herself :confused:



Also amazes me how certain people can change.......those few people that seemed to be her 'cyber friends' have now turned into the 'cyber school bullies'. :frown:

Originally Posted by Butch Cassidy (Post 6782716)

OK
1) nobody (until you) has named names
2) since you're prepared to suggest EVERYONE is refering to just ONE person why dont you name names with regards to the bullies?

Originally Posted by kate white (Post 6782760)

but that would just start a right old barney and then things will get out of hand, people know who the bullies are and just leave them to it and to me thats the best way to deal with bullies. they are people who are sad for some reason or another and want to lash out because they can on here and in real life nobody knows who they are sad but true

Originally Posted by Butch Cassidy (Post 6782776)

Well I guess thats means I cant be a bully since at least two regular posters and three casual posters have met me in real life:sneaky:

Originally Posted by kate white (Post 6782787)

Em dont know never met you :p but im sure you are a sweet heart really:unsure: when you met them did they ever meet up again:rofl:if so then yip your a sweet heart

Originally Posted by dazzlerdaz (Post 6782794)

They are still locked in his cellar :eek:

Originally Posted by kate white (Post 6782800)

:rofl::rofl::rofl: I knew it does he still have the key:rofl:

Originally Posted by kate white (Post 6782787)

Em dont know never met you :p but im sure you are a sweet heart really:unsure: when you met them did they ever meet up again:rofl:if so then yip your a sweet heart

Originally Posted by dazzlerdaz (Post 6782804)

Butch doesn't need a key..........they know better than to try and escape :lol::lol:

Originally Posted by kate white (Post 6782816)

:eek: hell that sounds scary, so if he wants to meet up with people they are smart and say NO and if they are stupid they disappear:ohmy: and their was me thinking he was a sweetie when the moon is down:rofl:

Originally Posted by dazzlerdaz (Post 6782826)

How many "sweeties" are on the FBI`s top 10 most wanted :sneaky: ? I cant say anymore as he will hunt me down like the dog i am :D

Originally Posted by dazzlerdaz (Post 6782813)

"they all met me more than once" Ed Gein 1957 :eek:

Originally Posted by kate white (Post 6782839)

:rofl::rofl::rofl:never to be seen again:eek:

Originally Posted by kate white (Post 6782861)

he is not into the old tuff meat:rofl:

Originally Posted by kate white (Post 6782861)

ok, so your both banged up and butch chucks you's in some meat :confused:who the heck are you both eating:eek:who has went missing last? got to be an old bird like myself:rofl:he is not into the old tuff meat:rofl:

Originally Posted by dazzlerdaz (Post 6782871)

He doesn't mind when its washed down with a nice bottle of Chianti fa fa fa fa fa fa fa !:rofl:

Originally Posted by kate white (Post 6782889)

:rofl::rofl::rofl: yeah well this old tuff bird is staying right where she is, chianti fa fa fa or not, I bet sask is in the cellar now and not left at all and she fell into his trap:rofl: he must be feeding on her by now, dont worrie you will get the scraps soon

Originally Posted by Coffeepot (Post 6782895)

Do you think they are all down there, all the ones that have left :p

Originally Posted by moondevil (Post 6782882)

They cant eat you kate......i hear you are skin and bones at the moment ;)
Although i said butch could come to urs for a BBQ when we arrive, not sure now :confused:

But butch is a sweetie, just needs that sugar now and again :rofl::rofl:

I find the site interesting we have mum,dad and grandparents on here (you know who you are) :eek:
i have met some really nice and friendly people on here and then some that i wont give the time of day too, on forum or off forum.
But thats life ;)

Originally Posted by moondevil (Post 6782882)

Although i said butch could come to urs for a BBQ when we arrive, not sure now :confused:

Originally Posted by kate white (Post 6782905)

yeah skin and bone is NOT a good choice

Originally Posted by dazzlerdaz (Post 6782902)

**** we`ve been rumbled !

Originally Posted by dazzlerdaz (Post 6782912)

He loves "ribs" in BBQ sauce :thumbup:

Originally Posted by moondevil (Post 6782915)

If all the ones that went missing went in butch basement......did he really take bazzz :ohmy::thumbsup:

Sugar not a problem, they produce it in the next town ;)
I know im ok, skin and bones with all the stress, so hell leave me alone or maybe he likes sucking on bones :eek::eek:

i woundered why he'd locked the wife in cupboard :blink:

Originally Posted by moondevil (Post 6782915)

i woundered why he'd locked the wife in cupboard :blink:

Originally Posted by kate white (Post 6782918)

cos the man is insane:rofl:

Originally Posted by Coffeepot (Post 6782927)

:rofl::rofl::rofl:

I think Butch is lovely and wouldn't do anything as mean as keep us in the cellar ( is that enough creeping yet ) :sneaky:

Originally Posted by moondevil (Post 6782936)

i can do a mean bacon butty, plus if he gets rid of me, then i wont make him any good old lancashire babys heads :thumbsup::thumbsup:
with gravy and mushy peas :p

Originally Posted by kate white (Post 6782941)

ive planked the rib sauce