Home Alone too?
Sep 23rd 2010, 5:35 am
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Re: Home Alone too?
The whole idea of normalization of any situation is totally relevant to the individual.
The more you look at the negatives of the situation the harder it's going to be, although I understand why you are doing so fully. It's totally up to you really, as surely its about how you frame your current moment in time. If you frame it as being lost and mundane then it's going to be a more difficult than if you search for the opportunity that lies within the period to positively reframe this time.
Sincere good luck x
The more you look at the negatives of the situation the harder it's going to be, although I understand why you are doing so fully. It's totally up to you really, as surely its about how you frame your current moment in time. If you frame it as being lost and mundane then it's going to be a more difficult than if you search for the opportunity that lies within the period to positively reframe this time.
Sincere good luck x
Sep 24th 2010, 1:35 am
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Re: Home Alone too?
Well there you go, you too can bang your head like ya just don't care and let it all hang out.......Good for you!
Sep 28th 2010, 3:23 pm
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Re: Home Alone too?
Having just read another thread on the Immigration section, I take it all back.
I am complaining about nothing
. I still have my OH he just isn't geographically close by. I am a very lucky woman.
I am complaining about nothing
. I still have my OH he just isn't geographically close by. I am a very lucky woman.
Sep 29th 2010, 2:02 am
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Re: Home Alone too?
what you feel is what you feel smellycat, it's your experience and emotions in this moment so that's ok and isn't something you should feel bad about. However, like you say, sometimes you have to get a grip once you have owned how you feel, get your dancing shoes on and kick yourself up the arse and get ready to face things once more, with a glass half full attitude.
Anyway, all the best and I still think you need to get your top drawer a little something and loosen up a bit Dammit, when it doubt revert to the basics of life lol!
Take care lady,
Mrs M x
Anyway, all the best and I still think you need to get your top drawer a little something and loosen up a bit
Dammit, when it doubt revert to the basics of life lol!Take care lady,
Mrs M x
