Feeling homesick - 6 months in Calgary
#16
Re: Feeling homesick - 6 months in Calgary
I agree Vancouver is very strange for breaking into social circles. A few British friends have said the same thing as well as Canadian friends from other provinces. It has been difficult to make male friends though as most are either married, uninterested in friendship or want something else
I also sometimes think that because I'm not a size 0, petite, yoga obsessed, frenchbull dog owner living in a condo that goes against me lol - who could say.
I also sometimes think that because I'm not a size 0, petite, yoga obsessed, frenchbull dog owner living in a condo that goes against me lol - who could say.
Last edited by Shard; Nov 26th 2015 at 3:57 pm.
#17
Re: Feeling homesick - 6 months in Calgary
Just sniff out the out-of-towners and hang with them. I find true Vancouverites very smug, I think they are told so many times from a young age that they live "in the best place on earth" that they truly believe it. Torontonians tend to think they live in the best city in Canada, but they know full well it's not New York, it's not even Chicago. Rest of Canada is a bit more down to earth.
#19
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I believe so. While it may not be a very large sample the ones I've interacted with seem to have a deep vein of insecurity. Culturally speaking, being Canadian must be a very hollow and impotent experience. I think its why it manifests itself as jealously and passive-aggressive vengefulness.
Of course my analysis may be somewhat influenced by the awful fact that we've just run out of chocolate biscuits.
Of course my analysis may be somewhat influenced by the awful fact that we've just run out of chocolate biscuits.
Last edited by Oink; Nov 26th 2015 at 4:19 pm.
#20
Re: Feeling homesick - 6 months in Calgary
I'm the other way, it is male friends I miss. I have loads in the UK and very few here. I also don't have a partner (even after a year of being here but that is probably because I am in Vancouver - a dater's nightmare). I'm sure Calgary is easier for that sort of thing.
Yoga is great but like the gym, it probably won't get you meeting people. I used to do dancing in the UK and met loads of girl friends through that but when I tried it here it was very clicky and again didn't meet anyone.
My work colleagues are the people I am closest to.
Yoga is great but like the gym, it probably won't get you meeting people. I used to do dancing in the UK and met loads of girl friends through that but when I tried it here it was very clicky and again didn't meet anyone.
My work colleagues are the people I am closest to.
2) Pull up stool and order alcohol.
3) Life improves in Canada.
I can't make life any simpler for you folks. All I can do is repeat the recipe.
#22
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If you find decent haggis in Calgary, let me know...the stuff from the so called "best place" in Calgary is pretty horrible, even the stuff out of the tin is better!
#23
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I've found (as have many others on here going by posts) that cradles are very insular people (especially Albertans) and don't seem to move too far outside of a certain social group, usually highschool/college friends...most of the people i "hang out" with are expats, because they actually want to go out and do stuff...even if it is just going downtown for a pissup
I did the same, 3 years ago it wasn't a secondment though...and then I got 'laid off' a year and a half ago...almost went home at that point!
I did the same, 3 years ago it wasn't a secondment though...and then I got 'laid off' a year and a half ago...almost went home at that point!
#24
Re: Feeling homesick - 6 months in Calgary
I agree Vancouver is very strange for breaking into social circles. A few British friends have said the same thing as well as Canadian friends from other provinces. It has been difficult to make male friends though as most are either married, uninterested in friendship or want something else
I also sometimes think that because I'm not a size 0, petite, yoga obsessed, frenchbull dog owner living in a condo that goes against me lol - who could say.
Whistker is not my idea of fun. Great for snowboarding and looking round the village but it is all a very young crowd up there who want to party and pass out the next morning - those days are over for me.
I have already thought about moving away from Vancouver but I love my job and the people and it is difficult, especially to up sticks and start all over again somewhere else.
Then again, I am not getting any younger
I also sometimes think that because I'm not a size 0, petite, yoga obsessed, frenchbull dog owner living in a condo that goes against me lol - who could say.
Whistker is not my idea of fun. Great for snowboarding and looking round the village but it is all a very young crowd up there who want to party and pass out the next morning - those days are over for me.
I have already thought about moving away from Vancouver but I love my job and the people and it is difficult, especially to up sticks and start all over again somewhere else.
Then again, I am not getting any younger
#25
Re: Feeling homesick - 6 months in Calgary
Canada's like hemorrhoids. You get used to it if you have to put up with it long enough.
Anyway, who needs close friends and family close by when you can show them what a great life and decision you made via facebook.
On the downside, if you still don't like it after a year or two, your friends will have moved on when you move back home so you'll have to piss around making new ones anyway
Anyway, who needs close friends and family close by when you can show them what a great life and decision you made via facebook.
On the downside, if you still don't like it after a year or two, your friends will have moved on when you move back home so you'll have to piss around making new ones anyway
#26
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I popped over to Scotland last month after finishing a job in Portugal, and the only thing that's changed is people have gotten older...everything else is still the same, no-one has even moved house in the 3 and a half years since i left
#27
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#28
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I don't mean they actually move or change as such. More that they go on without you until they're not really bothered where you're home or not