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Mountain Girl May 14th 2007 1:55 am

Re: Bye All From Craftybanshee
 

Originally Posted by Craftybanshee (Post 4778537)
And I'll miss your posts about your imaginary beaver pal :rofl:

The best of luck Crafty, you must do what is right for you and I hope you find your happiness again.

Thanks for all your contributions on here.

steve666 May 14th 2007 1:58 am

Re: Bye All From Craftybanshee
 

Originally Posted by hot wasabi peas (Post 4778605)
Imaginary!? :ohmy: :frown:

;)

Bless

raine66 May 14th 2007 2:00 am

Re: Bye All From Craftybanshee
 
I'm lost for words.:(

All I can say is I wish you and your family the very best of luck for the future.

Take care and come back to visit us every now and then. ;)

Craftybanshee May 14th 2007 2:00 am

Re: Bye All From Craftybanshee
 

Originally Posted by hot wasabi peas (Post 4778605)
Imaginary!? :ohmy: :frown:

;)


You mean ........ you didn't ...? :o :D Shhhhh everyone, don't tell HWP's ;)

Bleech May 14th 2007 2:58 am

Re: Bye All From Craftybanshee
 

Originally Posted by Craftybanshee (Post 4777681)
I wanted to post and say that we've decided to call it a day with regards to trying to emigrate to Canada. It's been an interesting journey over the past 3 1/2 years, with many ups and downs :eek:

We were going to give ourselves until the end of June, but Mr Banshee broke his right arm (writing arm) last week, and we are both feeling a bit fed up right now as I've been poorly too.

Hubby has been applying for as many as 4 jobs a day online and has not had a single e-mail. We even tried widening our net from Nova Scotia to other provinces but no luck. He has also called people in the past re. potential jobs, then they dry up.

I really feel that we are not meant to go, we've had so many things put in our way, each time we've gone across one barrier another one has appeared. Even when Mr Banshee went for his TEF in London, to try and get those last 2 points to reach the passmark for our SW application, it was on the day of the tube bombings in July 2005 and he missed one bomb by 15 mins! He could hear the bus bomb going off in the next street when he was sitting his TEF :ohmy:

Both of us are very drained, and I think we're wasting our time now. Our son will be leaving school in a few weeks and has got a place at a local college, our daughter will be going into Y10 in September. They are both bright kids and I don't want to uproot them at this stage in their education.

Obviously we're very disappointed, but it's not the end of the world. We will take another path in life. This is Canada's loss, not ours. We are all hard working, law abiding and decent.

If it hasn't happened after 3 1/2 years, I don't think it's going to now is it? We even had a contact inside immigration who spoke to companies on behalf of my husband! They were scared off by the length of time WP's took :( It wasn't meant to happen was it.

However, I no longer see my in-laws :unsure: They didn't agree with our plans. You certainly find out who your true family and friends are.

I'd like to thank all of you on this forum who have offered support (as well as banter and laughter) to us in the past, especially Yoong who pm'd me. The rest of you, you know who you are.

We don't have any set plans at the moment, just to both get better then think about our future.

Thank you and good luck!

That's very sad news CB. You applied roughly the same time as me, so I know your story and what you've been through very well.
It's such a shame when you read all the whiners moaning about returning from Canada, yet you can't even get out here asyou're one of those people who'd of knuckled down and made a go at it once you were here :thumbdown: Like you say, Canadas loss.
I've got a plan for you though. Get your son to apply then he can sponsor you to come out :)
Shame your calling it a day, but I guess there's only so much you can do :(
Best of luck mate.

Linda P May 14th 2007 3:18 am

Re: Bye All From Craftybanshee
 
It is sad after all this time........but I can understand how drained you must be, it takes over your life.

Keep an open mind....you never know what may come up!!!


All the best for the future,

Hope your both feeling better soon:)

Linda

startwin May 14th 2007 4:01 am

Re: Bye All From Craftybanshee
 

Originally Posted by Craftybanshee (Post 4777681)
I wanted to post and say that we've decided to call it a day with regards to trying to emigrate to Canada. It's been an interesting journey over the past 3 1/2 years, with many ups and downs :eek:

We were going to give ourselves until the end of June, but Mr Banshee broke his right arm (writing arm) last week, and we are both feeling a bit fed up right now as I've been poorly too.

Hubby has been applying for as many as 4 jobs a day online and has not had a single e-mail. We even tried widening our net from Nova Scotia to other provinces but no luck. He has also called people in the past re. potential jobs, then they dry up.

I really feel that we are not meant to go, we've had so many things put in our way, each time we've gone across one barrier another one has appeared. Even when Mr Banshee went for his TEF in London, to try and get those last 2 points to reach the passmark for our SW application, it was on the day of the tube bombings in July 2005 and he missed one bomb by 15 mins! He could hear the bus bomb going off in the next street when he was sitting his TEF :ohmy:

Both of us are very drained, and I think we're wasting our time now. Our son will be leaving school in a few weeks and has got a place at a local college, our daughter will be going into Y10 in September. They are both bright kids and I don't want to uproot them at this stage in their education.

Obviously we're very disappointed, but it's not the end of the world. We will take another path in life. This is Canada's loss, not ours. We are all hard working, law abiding and decent.

If it hasn't happened after 3 1/2 years, I don't think it's going to now is it? We even had a contact inside immigration who spoke to companies on behalf of my husband! They were scared off by the length of time WP's took :( It wasn't meant to happen was it.

However, I no longer see my in-laws :unsure: They didn't agree with our plans. You certainly find out who your true family and friends are.

I'd like to thank all of you on this forum who have offered support (as well as banter and laughter) to us in the past, especially Yoong who pm'd me. The rest of you, you know who you are.

We don't have any set plans at the moment, just to both get better then think about our future.

Thank you and good luck!

I don't see it as quitting, or throwing in the towel. You've put so much into it and given it your best shot, and maybe it's just not meant to be. I think it's quite brave to make this decision after so long. I wish you lots and lots of luck with whichever path your future takes you. Often, one door closes and another opens. Hope you continue to post on here.

Judy in Calgary May 14th 2007 4:11 am

Re: Bye All From Craftybanshee
 
Thank you for the update, Crafty.

All the very best to you in the future. :)

acer rose May 14th 2007 6:18 am

Re: Bye All From Craftybanshee
 

Originally Posted by Craftybanshee (Post 4777681)
I wanted to post and say that we've decided to call it a day with regards to trying to emigrate to Canada.

Sad news after all your efforts. Best of luck for the future.

Yoong May 14th 2007 6:35 am

Re: Bye All From Craftybanshee
 
Hi Crafty,
Hope you and Mr. B are feeling better.
Wishing you all the very best in the future.
Yoong

purple80 May 14th 2007 6:47 am

Re: Bye All From Craftybanshee
 
Hi Crafty,
All the best, you have to do what you feel is right, as someone who has only recently started this journey I have found this a bit of a shock, I guess I had never considered the possibility that it all just might get to much.
I promise not to listen to 'experts'.

:wub: Charlie :wub:

Cookie May 14th 2007 6:58 am

Re: Bye All From Craftybanshee
 

Originally Posted by Linda P (Post 4779071)
It is sad after all this time........but I can understand how drained you must be, it takes over your life.

Keep an open mind....you never know what may come up!!!


All the best for the future,

Hope your both feeling better soon:)

Linda

My sentiments exactly.

Good luck Crafty and family for whichever path your lives take. :thumbsup:

Alberta_Rose May 14th 2007 11:20 am

Re: Bye All From Craftybanshee
 
Just relax for a bit. You never know what the future may bring.

Take care m'dear! :wub:

Tiffin Tease May 15th 2007 4:17 am

Re: Bye All From Craftybanshee
 
I am so sorry to hear that you are not going to continue in your quest. Maybe you are right, it wasn't meant to me right now but maybe keep your fingers in the pie (so to speak) and something might change - you never know.

Good luck with all that you choose to do, be it in the UK or Canada or some other part of the world.

Best wishes to all of you
Ki

Suzyanne May 15th 2007 4:23 am

Re: Bye All From Craftybanshee
 
Sorry things have not turned out right for you. Good luck for the future, you just never know whats around the corner and as one book closes another one opens.

Best wishes
Suzyanne & Family


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