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KRoss Jan 30th 2009 1:08 am

Re: A bit speechless!
 

Originally Posted by Elaine B. (Post 7229490)
I think it's got a lot to do with your attitude Countries aren't miserable, people are miserable you can choice to look at life in a positive way or just spend you energy complaining.

Gosh! I so agree with you. I was happy living in Scotland and am happy living here. Good/Bad things about both countries.
However, back to the hairdresser, I got my old hairdresser to do my hair the day before I flew out! She had been cutting my hair for 18 year, I was sadder leaving her than some of my family members! However I was lucky enough to find one here in London ( she does come from London Uk though!)

Purley Jan 30th 2009 1:15 am

Re: A bit speechless!
 
When it comes to the weather, people enjoy complaining! I would be willing to bet as many people whine about the fact that its bucketing down with rain again -- in England, as they do about the fact that its 30 below and snowing in Canada!

Piff Poff Jan 30th 2009 3:15 am

Re: A bit speechless!
 

Originally Posted by LucyLocket10 (Post 7229505)
I agree about choosing to look at life in a positive way, but it's hard to when the country you live in isn't in a very positive situation at present.

Countries aside, it seems whatever someone writes they'll be shot down if their opinion isn't the same as everyone elses.

LucyLocket, it's you that is being argumentative and shooting people down in flames. I only ever try to give balanced, honest opinions on why myself and family have experienced - something a lot of newbies to the site don't like when they hear something negative about their new chosen country - I was once the same;) As I have said to you already in this thread, I wish you every success in your move.

There is a lot of negativity here in Canada about the recessions too. I do read the news from England and it does sound awful there. It sounds awful in the USA and it sounds awful in Ontario too. (Alberta is still in it's little bubble of denial at the moment).

So LucyLocket welcome to the forum - try to read balanced views yourself before getting defensive and argumentative - you'll get a lot more out of them that way. (I'm typing that in a suggestive helpful tone not a sarky one).

MikeUK Jan 30th 2009 3:29 am

Re: A bit speechless!
 

Originally Posted by LucyLocket10 (Post 7229505)
I agree about choosing to look at life in a positive way, but it's hard to when the country you live in isn't in a very positive situation at present.

I think that's one of the key differences I found moving to Canada

The locals are much better at looking at problems in a positive light
I suspect the winter has something to do with it, and being here a few years you find your self doing it too
When winter gets you down you remember all the mosquitoes that died in the fall, melting in the summer heat , you think about the walk across the car park in January, when the recession gets you down you remember all the miserable gits for the most part are still in the UK, and they can’t sell the house and move here either,
and gently the smile appears across your face :rofl:

LucyLocket10 Jan 30th 2009 3:46 am

Re: A bit speechless!
 

Originally Posted by Piff Poff (Post 7229975)
LucyLocket, it's you that is being argumentative and shooting people down in flames. I only ever try to give balanced, honest opinions on why myself and family have experienced - something a lot of newbies to the site don't like when they hear something negative about their new chosen country - I was once the same;) As I have said to you already in this thread, I wish you every success in your move.

There is a lot of negativity here in Canada about the recessions too. I do read the news from England and it does sound awful there. It sounds awful in the USA and it sounds awful in Ontario too. (Alberta is still in it's little bubble of denial at the moment).

So LucyLocket welcome to the forum - try to read balanced views yourself before getting defensive and argumentative - you'll get a lot more out of them that way. (I'm typing that in a suggestive helpful tone not a sarky one).

Wow, consider my hands well and truly smacked! :o

I actually have been reading a lot of the other boards and people's opinions, it is only recently I have felt confident enough to post with a view of my own. Perhaps the fleeting first comment I made wasn't the greatest, but I stand by it that that's how I feel about the UK at the moment. It was up to others how they decided to react to it....

Thank you for the welcome btw, as forums go it's great to find people who are willing to give advice, experience and help which is much needed with a life changing decision in the pipeline.

Maybe next time I'll try to leave a post which won't cause such a big reaction...maybe! :p

Siliconwombat Jan 30th 2009 3:55 am

Re: A bit speechless!
 

Originally Posted by Piff Poff (Post 7229975)
LucyLocket, it's you that is being argumentative and shooting people down in flames.

ElaineB followed by yourself were the ones who made it an argument in the way you replied to LucyLockets initial comment on the current state of the UK

I only ever try to give balanced, honest opinions on why myself and family have experienced - something a lot of newbies to the site don't like when they hear something negative about their new chosen country - I was once the same;)
You still dont like it and then your negative about it as well, which youre right does make a nice balanced viewpoint...or really indecisive...

As I have said to you already in this thread, I wish you every success in your move.

A kind word, possibly a bit late but at least its a start

There is a lot of negativity here in Canada about the recessions too. I do read the news from England and it does sound awful there. It sounds awful in the USA and it sounds awful in Ontario too. (Alberta is still in it's little bubble of denial at the moment).

The recession is only a part of whats going on in the UK, many of the problems have been present, and growing, for many years

So LucyLocket welcome to the forum - try to read balanced views yourself before getting defensive and argumentative - you'll get a lot more out of them that way. (I'm typing that in a suggestive helpful tone not a sarky one).

Once again defensiveness is only required in the face of hostility, what was she supposed to do when you started this ridiculous argument, reply "oh sorry maam, please forgive me for my transgression of not subscribing to the Piff Poff authorized view, it will never happen again" ? (written in a true questioning tone not a sarcastic one!!!)

FFS! End of for me, I really shouldnt care what you do but it really winds me up when people are attacked for no reason at all.

I hope you continue to enjoy Canada as much as you obviously do, I know I will.


Ps. nice one lucylocket! There are some very helpful people on here, dont apologise for your post though you were spot on!

Cassie 10000 Jan 30th 2009 4:09 am

Re: A bit speechless!
 

Originally Posted by Siliconwombat (Post 7230084)
FFS! End of for me, I really shouldnt care what you do but it really winds me up when people are attacked for no reason at all.

I hope you continue to enjoy Canada as much as you obviously do, I know I will.


Ps. nice one lucylocket! There are some very helpful people on here, dont apologise for your post though you were spot on!


I've just read through the posts and I can't see where you are saying that you or Lucy are being attacked?

People have different views and opinions, there is plenty of room for everyone on BE. :)

Piff Poff Jan 30th 2009 4:18 am

Re: A bit speechless!
 

Originally Posted by Siliconwombat (Post 7230084)
FFS! End of for me, I really shouldnt care what you do but it really winds me up when people are attacked for no reason at all.

I hope you continue to enjoy Canada as much as you obviously do, I know I will.


Ps. nice one lucylocket! There are some very helpful people on here, dont apologise for your post though you were spot on!


You are one weird person - you're posts have really confused me. I have not done any attacking - at all. I was asked a question - that's all, I answered.

Anyway I have a lot more important things on my mind right now than wondering if someone has read my typewritten words the wrong way.

Cassie 10000 Jan 30th 2009 4:32 am

Re: A bit speechless!
 

Originally Posted by Piff Poff (Post 7230159)
You are one weird person - you're posts have really confused me. I have not done any attacking - at all. I was asked a question - that's all, I answered.

Anyway I have a lot more important things on my mind right now than wondering if someone has read my typewritten words the wrong way.

I think that's whats happened here Piff Poff. I can't see where the posts you have written may have upset anyone.

I think its best puttng this to bed rather than going round in circles, anyway have you had any luck in trying to find a new hairdresser? :) One of the things I do is if you see anyone with a nice hair cut just go up to them and ask them where they get it done. They will like the compliment :thumbsup:

Elaine B. Jan 30th 2009 4:47 am

Re: A bit speechless!
 

Originally Posted by Cassie 10000 (Post 7230210)
I think that's whats happened here Piff Poff. I can't see where the posts you have written may have upset anyone.

I think its best puttng this to bed rather than going round in circles, anyway have you had any luck in trying to find a new hairdresser? :) One of the things I do is if you see anyone with a nice hair cut just go up to them and ask them where they get it done. They will like the compliment :thumbsup:

I have to agree Cassie not much point in responding further. I wish you all have a good hair day:D

Cassie 10000 Jan 30th 2009 4:55 am

Re: A bit speechless!
 

Originally Posted by Elaine B. (Post 7230254)
I have to agree Cassie not much point in responding further. I wish you all have a good hair day:D

I wish you a very good hair day as well :)

Great to see we are getting back on topic, there must be some guys on here that like their hairdresser/Barber.

MikeUK Jan 30th 2009 6:29 am

Re: A bit speechless!
 

Originally Posted by Cassie 10000 (Post 7230279)
there must be some guys on here that like their hairdresser/Barber.

Its a guy thing, we realy don't care that much

unless she's hot, we'll have forgotton who and even where by the next time a hair cut needed

Cassie 10000 Jan 30th 2009 6:36 am

Re: A bit speechless!
 

Originally Posted by MikeUK (Post 7230668)
Its a guy thing, we realy don't care that much

unless she's hot, we'll have forgotton who and even where by the next time a hair cut needed

So if she was hot, you would go back, right ;)

Trophy Jan 30th 2009 7:11 am

Re: A bit speechless!
 

Originally Posted by MikeUK (Post 7230011)
when the recession gets you down you remember all the miserable gits for the most part are still in the UK, and they can’t sell the house and move here either,
and gently the smile appears across your face :rofl:

Well thanks a bunch for that.

MikeUK Jan 30th 2009 7:23 am

Re: A bit speechless!
 

Originally Posted by Cassie 10000 (Post 7230697)
So if she was hot, you would go back, right ;)

I might if I remember that she was hot when I need the next haircut

more than likely I'll be sitting in the chair thinking how boring the guy is cutting my hair and that the last place at least she looked hot even if she was as dull as dish water
;)

MikeUK Jan 30th 2009 7:24 am

Re: A bit speechless!
 

Originally Posted by Trophy (Post 7230778)
Well thanks a bunch for that.

I try to be sympathetic, but it just gives me indigestion :(

sans Jan 30th 2009 8:32 am

Re: A bit speechless!
 

Originally Posted by LucyLocket10 (Post 7224852)
Does he know what he's coming back to?! :confused: After reading all the reasons why, I'd still be inclined to stay put rather than come back the hole that the UK is at the moment!

Oh and what a lovely hole it is .......


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