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Hm it's a lot easier to tell me to move on when obviously I don't want too. I'm
A very educated individual and I guess it's going to require a lot of hard work to somehow get him in. It's appalling that we let in all these asylum seekers who have zero benefit to our economic well being on PPV's but the partner of an Aus citizen will be refused. TPV's were sufficient and if I ever work in immigration I'll attempt to make some big changes.
A very educated individual and I guess it's going to require a lot of hard work to somehow get him in. It's appalling that we let in all these asylum seekers who have zero benefit to our economic well being on PPV's but the partner of an Aus citizen will be refused. TPV's were sufficient and if I ever work in immigration I'll attempt to make some big changes.
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Hm it's a lot easier to tell me to move on when obviously I don't want too. I'm
A very educated individual and I guess it's going to require a lot of hard work to somehow get him in. It's appalling that we let in all these asylum seekers who have zero benefit to our economic well being on PPV's but the partner of an Aus citizen will be refused. TPV's were sufficient and if I ever work in immigration I'll attempt to make some big changes.
A very educated individual and I guess it's going to require a lot of hard work to somehow get him in. It's appalling that we let in all these asylum seekers who have zero benefit to our economic well being on PPV's but the partner of an Aus citizen will be refused. TPV's were sufficient and if I ever work in immigration I'll attempt to make some big changes.
Your partner committed a serious offence. As I said earlier, it must have been pretty serious if he was sentenced to 5 years. So, also as I said earlier, either you're going to have to live in UK if you want to be near him or as others have suggested you're gonig to have to move on with your life and get over him.
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Hm it's a lot easier to tell me to move on when obviously I don't want too. I'm
A very educated individual and I guess it's going to require a lot of hard work to somehow get him in. It's appalling that we let in all these asylum seekers who have zero benefit to our economic well being on PPV's but the partner of an Aus citizen will be refused. TPV's were sufficient and if I ever work in immigration I'll attempt to make some big changes.
A very educated individual and I guess it's going to require a lot of hard work to somehow get him in. It's appalling that we let in all these asylum seekers who have zero benefit to our economic well being on PPV's but the partner of an Aus citizen will be refused. TPV's were sufficient and if I ever work in immigration I'll attempt to make some big changes.
Next - Australia, just like every other country, has the right to set its own migration rules. I do know that they are a lot more lenient on character issues than the US and Canada, especially where family are concerned, but you still need to accept those rules.
It may well be possible for him to move here in the future. There are people on the forum with prison sentences in their past who have successfully got visas, but you are looking a few years ahead. Read the link I posted above regarding character requirements, and get in touch with a registered agent and have a chat about future prospects, then you will know whether its worth aiming for..
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I would have thought a 'very educated individual' would be far more aware of what a serious crime their partner has committed, and why many countries would not want them. Five years is a long time. They do not lock people up for that long for small things!
Personally no matter how much I loved someone, I could NEVER respect them if they had committed that crime, which would be the end of the relationship.
Personally no matter how much I loved someone, I could NEVER respect them if they had committed that crime, which would be the end of the relationship.
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But I do agree that if we trust our partners or family not to reoffend, we can't expect another country or government to do so.
If I was in that situation, I would go to Australia and wait for my partner. If my relationship was strong enough it would last the length of time. If not, then I would move on.
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Hmmm tricky one....and no real right/wrong answers. One of those questions I personally think you can only answer when you've been in the situation - and know all the background..........
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Well it's complete idiocy to undermine my credibility or academic achievements merely based on my feelings for my boyfriend. Nevertheless I'll wait for him to get out of prison and submit an application repeatedly in effort that they give in (so long as there are no really hefty fees). He regrets what his done and turned himself in even the family described themselves as 'shocked' at the sentence duration, however unfortunately doesn't justify means to an end. Thanks all for the advice I shall pursue migration advice in the nearer future!
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I would have thought a 'very educated individual' would be far more aware of what a serious crime their partner has committed, and why many countries would not want them. Five years is a long time. They do not lock people up for that long for small things!
Personally no matter how much I loved someone, I could NEVER respect them if they had committed that crime, which would be the end of the relationship.
Personally no matter how much I loved someone, I could NEVER respect them if they had committed that crime, which would be the end of the relationship.
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Well it's complete idiocy to undermine my credibility or academic achievements merely based on my feelings for my boyfriend. Nevertheless I'll wait for him to get out of prison and submit an application repeatedly in effort that they give in (so long as there are no really hefty fees). He regrets what his done and turned himself in even the family described themselves as 'shocked' at the sentence duration, however unfortunately doesn't justify means to an end. Thanks all for the advice I shall pursue migration advice in the nearer future!
No one's saying you're stupid or undermining your education/qualifications. What they mean is that you're being remarkably ignorant/innocent/immature in terms of immigration rules and requirements. Just because you're an intelligent Australian means absolutely nothing to DIAC in regards your boyfriend. You're not applying, he is. You're sponsoring, in this respect, your qualifications, history etc are kind of irrelevant (in DIACs eyes anyway). There have to be rules and not one rule for one and one rule for someone else.
When it does become time to consider applying, he will be well advised to hire a highly reputable MARA registered agent, like George Lombard who would be able to present your application in the most favourable light possible. If he does it himself, there's a far greater chance of failure.
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Hm it's a lot easier to tell me to move on when obviously I don't want too. I'm
A very educated individual and I guess it's going to require a lot of hard work to somehow get him in. It's appalling that we let in all these asylum seekers who have zero benefit to our economic well being on PPV's but the partner of an Aus citizen will be refused. TPV's were sufficient and if I ever work in immigration I'll attempt to make some big changes.
A very educated individual and I guess it's going to require a lot of hard work to somehow get him in. It's appalling that we let in all these asylum seekers who have zero benefit to our economic well being on PPV's but the partner of an Aus citizen will be refused. TPV's were sufficient and if I ever work in immigration I'll attempt to make some big changes.
The vision of this remains with me, even after 20 years. the driver had no regard for my firends life. How do i know this. He failed to stop. your boyfriends action, could and may still, (trauma can lead to long term mental illness), bring devastation on the victims and its familiys life. My friend has diifculties, which i wont go into, as a direct result of the injuries sustained.
im sure its unintentional, but your threads come accross as if your partner has been locked up unfairly for stealing a packet of sweets
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By the way, the way you referred to asylum seekers, Thats an insult!
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I don't think its an insult, these asylum seekers/Terrorists arrive in my country illegally and are at the cost of the taxpayer clothed, fed, medically treated, given phone cards & cigarettes and yet they burn down the Villawood immigration centre and create home made bombs to injure members of the emergency services.
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I don't think its an insult, these asylum seekers/Terrorists arrive in my country illegally and are at the cost of the taxpayer clothed, fed, medically treated, given phone cards & cigarettes and yet they burn down the Villawood immigration centre and create home made bombs to injure members of the emergency services.
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