New member De-facto proof questions
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New member De-facto proof questions
Hi all, firstly let me say I have already tried searching for the answers to these questions but havnt had much luck somethings usually different about the situation or I felt assuming it was correct & relevant to us wasn't worth the risk! We decided a few years ago we wanted to make the move but rather foolishly didn't look into it anymore & just started saving recently however we went to an expo & paid for a visa eligibility & assessment consultation. I'm 24 my partner is 21 & I'm an electrician etc so all good for the 175 n we now know quite a bit more.
However; we've been living together at my parents house for 6months now in order to save money on renting etc but how do we prove this? Iv read a bit about stat decs but don't understand how thy work etc, could we get a backdated 1 or have we now got to get 1 (or more??) & officially "start" the 12month relationship requirement (we've been together 2 1/2 years now & do have some proof of this such as joint invitations & plane tickets etc) Is this what we need? or something else? Written references from each set of parents sayin we are co-habitating at my fathers? we are opening a joint bank account this weekend but obviously don't have any joint bills etc from the house as my father pays them, it's his house after all lol I do pay him upkeep but this is always cash in hand, how do you prove things like this?
Basically put: How do we prove we've lived together for 12months while living at my parents house? Thanks in advance!
However; we've been living together at my parents house for 6months now in order to save money on renting etc but how do we prove this? Iv read a bit about stat decs but don't understand how thy work etc, could we get a backdated 1 or have we now got to get 1 (or more??) & officially "start" the 12month relationship requirement (we've been together 2 1/2 years now & do have some proof of this such as joint invitations & plane tickets etc) Is this what we need? or something else? Written references from each set of parents sayin we are co-habitating at my fathers? we are opening a joint bank account this weekend but obviously don't have any joint bills etc from the house as my father pays them, it's his house after all lol I do pay him upkeep but this is always cash in hand, how do you prove things like this?
Basically put: How do we prove we've lived together for 12months while living at my parents house? Thanks in advance!
Last edited by Tom_Kelly; Jan 27th 2011 at 3:57 pm.
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Re: New member De-facto proof questions
Hi all, firstly let me say I have already tried searching for the answers to these questions but havnt had much luck somethings usually different about the situation or I felt assuming it was correct & relevant to us wasn't worth the risk! We decided a few years ago we wanted to make the move but rather foolishly didn't look into it anymore & just started saving recently however we went to an expo & paid for a visa eligibility & assessment consultation. I'm 24 my partner is 21 & I'm an electrician etc so all good for the 175 n we now know quite a bit more.
However; we've been living together at my parents house for 6months now in order to save money on renting etc but how do we prove this? Iv read a bit about stat decs but don't understand how thy work etc, could we get a backdated 1 or have we now got to get 1 (or more??) & officially "start" the 12month relationship requirement (we've been together 2 1/2 years now & do have some proof of this such as joint invitations & plane tickets etc) Is this what we need? or something else? Written references from each set of parents sayin we are co-habitating at my fathers? we are opening a joint bank account this weekend but obviously don't have any joint bills etc from the house as my father pays them, it's his house after all lol I do pay him upkeep but this is always cash in hand, how do you prove things like this?
Basically put: How do we prove we've lived together for 12months while living at my parents house? Thanks in advance!
However; we've been living together at my parents house for 6months now in order to save money on renting etc but how do we prove this? Iv read a bit about stat decs but don't understand how thy work etc, could we get a backdated 1 or have we now got to get 1 (or more??) & officially "start" the 12month relationship requirement (we've been together 2 1/2 years now & do have some proof of this such as joint invitations & plane tickets etc) Is this what we need? or something else? Written references from each set of parents sayin we are co-habitating at my fathers? we are opening a joint bank account this weekend but obviously don't have any joint bills etc from the house as my father pays them, it's his house after all lol I do pay him upkeep but this is always cash in hand, how do you prove things like this?
Basically put: How do we prove we've lived together for 12months while living at my parents house? Thanks in advance!
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Re: New member De-facto proof questions
also rental agreements-do you have one of these from when you started living together?
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Re: New member De-facto proof questions
Hi all, firstly let me say I have already tried searching for the answers to these questions but havnt had much luck somethings usually different about the situation or I felt assuming it was correct & relevant to us wasn't worth the risk! We decided a few years ago we wanted to make the move but rather foolishly didn't look into it anymore & just started saving recently however we went to an expo & paid for a visa eligibility & assessment consultation. I'm 24 my partner is 21 & I'm an electrician etc so all good for the 175 n we now know quite a bit more.
However; we've been living together at my parents house for 6months now in order to save money on renting etc but how do we prove this? Iv read a bit about stat decs but don't understand how thy work etc, could we get a backdated 1 or have we now got to get 1 (or more??) & officially "start" the 12month relationship requirement (we've been together 2 1/2 years now & do have some proof of this such as joint invitations & plane tickets etc) Is this what we need? or something else? Written references from each set of parents sayin we are co-habitating at my fathers? we are opening a joint bank account this weekend but obviously don't have any joint bills etc from the house as my father pays them, it's his house after all lol I do pay him upkeep but this is always cash in hand, how do you prove things like this?
Basically put: How do we prove we've lived together for 12months while living at my parents house? Thanks in advance!
However; we've been living together at my parents house for 6months now in order to save money on renting etc but how do we prove this? Iv read a bit about stat decs but don't understand how thy work etc, could we get a backdated 1 or have we now got to get 1 (or more??) & officially "start" the 12month relationship requirement (we've been together 2 1/2 years now & do have some proof of this such as joint invitations & plane tickets etc) Is this what we need? or something else? Written references from each set of parents sayin we are co-habitating at my fathers? we are opening a joint bank account this weekend but obviously don't have any joint bills etc from the house as my father pays them, it's his house after all lol I do pay him upkeep but this is always cash in hand, how do you prove things like this?
Basically put: How do we prove we've lived together for 12months while living at my parents house? Thanks in advance!