BEVS

Let him. Won't get him anywhere & will cost him shed loads of £ on the premium line. They'll just think he is a barmy timewaster & wouldn't kiss 'n tell about your application anyway.

Quite see the point about the dear ole Mum getting it in the neck though.

McGowans

We got our case workers name today from NZIS and have been asked to write in with our request. I'll let you know how we get on in case it comes up again for anyone else. Needless to say we won't be inviting them to the bon voyage party, shame really as the children are lovely!

ned

I really would tell them to get stuffed, its non of their buisness

happynz

Why you are wasting any time and effort on this is beyond me. Get a backbone, man. I agree with Ned above. Tell 'em to get stuffed.

BEVS

Politely invite 'em.

I can sorta see why you are making this effort , although I wouldn't have been arsed to do it.

My husband is estranged from his poxy sister and I do know exactly the sort of problems this causes. :curse:

Thanks for posting up about this again. Reflecting on this, I suppose that NZIS must have received similar requests in the past. Law of averages say this aint the first or last time