Leave to Remove back to the UK
#16
Re: Leave to Remove back to the UK
I will also comment on your remark that the OP
Originally Posted by hungryHorace
sort out the personal issues in her life like an adult
MissionUKSB. I am sorry to read of your situation and that your marriage is in difficulties.
From our members here on the very helpful France forum you will have quite some hurdles to overcome to remove your child from her father.
Please do keep checking in here as writing and off loading can sometimes really help to clear the mind to a good way forward. This lot in here will be of support.
All the best.
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Re: Leave to Remove back to the UK
"I am desperate to return to the UK and you can imagine my horror in discovering it is impossible without his consent"
If the lady in question was referring to her and their child they would have written something similar to the following.
"I am desperate to return to the UK with my child"
If you can help me understand how you understood the OP to be including her child in her statement (despite no evidence of this) I would be most obliged.
(feel free to delete this and PM the explanation to help my understanding if that's more appropriate as I don't want to hijack this thread).
If the lady in question was referring to her and their child they would have written something similar to the following.
"I am desperate to return to the UK with my child"
If you can help me understand how you understood the OP to be including her child in her statement (despite no evidence of this) I would be most obliged.
(feel free to delete this and PM the explanation to help my understanding if that's more appropriate as I don't want to hijack this thread).
Last edited by hungryhorace; Jul 11th 2017 at 12:51 am.
#18
Re: Leave to Remove back to the UK
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We all understood what you wrote, I have had friends in similar situations in France and you can navigate this tricky time. Just do everything by the book - that article was sent to me by a friend who went through it all like you. I wish you well and please do come back as those of us who regularly contribute on the french forum will help you..HH doesn't normally come to this forum since he has no experience of living in France
Bon Courage!
We all understood what you wrote, I have had friends in similar situations in France and you can navigate this tricky time. Just do everything by the book - that article was sent to me by a friend who went through it all like you. I wish you well and please do come back as those of us who regularly contribute on the french forum will help you..HH doesn't normally come to this forum since he has no experience of living in France
Bon Courage!
Last edited by BEVS; Jul 11th 2017 at 1:06 am. Reason: snip the unhelpful bit . thanks
#19
Re: Leave to Remove back to the UK
Oh do grow up. You're like a petulant child who loves to dish out rudeness but gets his panties in a twist when it's given back.
Maybe you should sort out the personal issues in your life and start acting like an adult.
And PS, the report button is where it's always been if you feel the need to run to the mods.
Maybe you should sort out the personal issues in your life and start acting like an adult.
And PS, the report button is where it's always been if you feel the need to run to the mods.
#20
Re: Leave to Remove back to the UK
To reset this thread.
The title of this thread is
"Leave to Remove back to the UK"
The term 'Leave to remove' relates to the law and practice of removing a child to the UK. The opening poster has a two year old child and an estranged husband . They live together in France.
The title of this thread is
"Leave to Remove back to the UK"
The term 'Leave to remove' relates to the law and practice of removing a child to the UK. The opening poster has a two year old child and an estranged husband . They live together in France.
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Re: Leave to Remove back to the UK
My parents have secured an hours free consultation with a specialist solicitor when me and DD return for our final trip at the end of the month
We are renting so at gives me a home to go back to,
Does the above mean that the OP is visiting the UK at end of month to see a specialist solicitor, and that she has a home in the UK (albeit it rented?)
If so, she should consider not returning to France. Sounds like her parents are supportive of her, so she could stay with them.
We are renting so at gives me a home to go back to,
Does the above mean that the OP is visiting the UK at end of month to see a specialist solicitor, and that she has a home in the UK (albeit it rented?)
If so, she should consider not returning to France. Sounds like her parents are supportive of her, so she could stay with them.
#22
Re: Leave to Remove back to the UK
My parents have secured an hours free consultation with a specialist solicitor when me and DD return for our final trip at the end of the month
We are renting so at gives me a home to go back to,
Does the above mean that the OP is visiting the UK at end of month to see a specialist solicitor, and that she has a home in the UK (albeit it rented?)
If so, she should consider not returning to France. Sounds like her parents are supportive of her, so she could stay with them.
We are renting so at gives me a home to go back to,
Does the above mean that the OP is visiting the UK at end of month to see a specialist solicitor, and that she has a home in the UK (albeit it rented?)
If so, she should consider not returning to France. Sounds like her parents are supportive of her, so she could stay with them.
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Re: Leave to Remove back to the UK
Hi everyone,
This is my first post, I'm clutching at straws finding information on Leave to Remove cases from France to the UK.
My husband and I sold up and moved to France last year with our two year old daughter. I am 42 and my husband is 60. We moved after he was made redundant however he move was really quick, from the "idea" phase to move was less than three months. I was railroaded into agreeing with the dream of being mortgage free and me being able to travel back to the uk whenever I liked with DD due to the £100k buffer we would have in the bank. The reality is devastating. I have no money of my own, my husband has spent all the money on a pool amongst other things, is telling me trips to the UK will be limited to one a year. He runs the business here, controls the finance and has a healthy pension pot he can access whenever he likes. Our marriage has fallen apart. We are in separate beds and I just feel trapped. He seems to enjoy the isolation I have with no friends. I am desperate to return to the UK and you can imagine my horror in discovering it is impossible without his consent, which he would never agree to in a million years. My parents have secured an hours free consultation with a specialist solicitor when me and DD return for our final trip at the end of the month. I would welcome to hear from anyone who has gone down he "leave to remove" route in France and won. I can't find a single case!
This is my first post, I'm clutching at straws finding information on Leave to Remove cases from France to the UK.
My husband and I sold up and moved to France last year with our two year old daughter. I am 42 and my husband is 60. We moved after he was made redundant however he move was really quick, from the "idea" phase to move was less than three months. I was railroaded into agreeing with the dream of being mortgage free and me being able to travel back to the uk whenever I liked with DD due to the £100k buffer we would have in the bank. The reality is devastating. I have no money of my own, my husband has spent all the money on a pool amongst other things, is telling me trips to the UK will be limited to one a year. He runs the business here, controls the finance and has a healthy pension pot he can access whenever he likes. Our marriage has fallen apart. We are in separate beds and I just feel trapped. He seems to enjoy the isolation I have with no friends. I am desperate to return to the UK and you can imagine my horror in discovering it is impossible without his consent, which he would never agree to in a million years. My parents have secured an hours free consultation with a specialist solicitor when me and DD return for our final trip at the end of the month. I would welcome to hear from anyone who has gone down he "leave to remove" route in France and won. I can't find a single case!
Go to your Mairie ASAP and ask to see the Assistante Sociale. She'll be able to point you in the direction of a French Avocat, possibly pro bono, who can advise you on the question of this departure and your separation.
But please don't try to leave France without the "AST", you may be accused of abduction. This is in fact the original purpose of the AST, to prevent one divorced parent taking a child "home" without the other parent's permission (and, at present, to prevent minors from leaving France to join Daesh.)
Get advice in France ASAP!! Good luck
#24
Re: Leave to Remove back to the UK
I missed this part. Without the "Autorisation de Sortie du Territoire" from the Mairie, signed by your child's father, it's unlikely you'll be able to leave France with her, and you won't get to the appointment in the UK.
Go to your Mairie ASAP and ask to see the Assistante Sociale. She'll be able to point you in the direction of a French Avocat, possibly pro bono, who can advise you on the question of this departure and your separation.
But please don't try to leave France without the "AST", you may be accused of abduction. This is in fact the original purpose of the AST, to prevent one divorced parent taking a child "home" without the other parent's permission (and, at present, to prevent minors from leaving France to join Daesh.)
Get advice in France ASAP!! Good luck
Go to your Mairie ASAP and ask to see the Assistante Sociale. She'll be able to point you in the direction of a French Avocat, possibly pro bono, who can advise you on the question of this departure and your separation.
But please don't try to leave France without the "AST", you may be accused of abduction. This is in fact the original purpose of the AST, to prevent one divorced parent taking a child "home" without the other parent's permission (and, at present, to prevent minors from leaving France to join Daesh.)
Get advice in France ASAP!! Good luck
However, if the parents are not separated with no legal proceedings already started, then I believe that she can take her own child out of the country without needing a sortie du territoire.
From here -http://www.douane.gouv.fr/articles/a13149-retablissement-de-l-autorisation-de-sortie-du-territoire-ast-pour-les-mineurs
"Obligation en vigueur depuis le 15 janvier 2017 pour les mineurs qui voyagent seuls ou sans être accompagné d'un titulaire de l'autorité parentale."
As for what she does after this, the article I posted slightly earlier in the thread gives some good advice near the bottom.
https://content.next.westlaw.com/Doc...ge=true&bhcp=1
If there has been any domestic violence or abuse towards her or the child, then the OP should get this documented and take it to the UK with her.
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Re: Leave to Remove back to the UK
I totally agree that the OP should get advice.
However, if the parents are not separated with no legal proceedings already started, then I believe that she can take her own child out of the country without needing a sortie du territoire.
From here -http://www.douane.gouv.fr/articles/a13149-retablissement-de-l-autorisation-de-sortie-du-territoire-ast-pour-les-mineurs
"Obligation en vigueur depuis le 15 janvier 2017 pour les mineurs qui voyagent seuls ou sans être accompagné d'un titulaire de l'autorité parentale."
As for what she does after this, the article I posted slightly earlier in the thread gives some good advice near the bottom.
https://content.next.westlaw.com/Doc...ge=true&bhcp=1
If there has been any domestic violence or abuse towards her or the child, then the OP should get this documented and take it to the UK with her.
However, if the parents are not separated with no legal proceedings already started, then I believe that she can take her own child out of the country without needing a sortie du territoire.
From here -http://www.douane.gouv.fr/articles/a13149-retablissement-de-l-autorisation-de-sortie-du-territoire-ast-pour-les-mineurs
"Obligation en vigueur depuis le 15 janvier 2017 pour les mineurs qui voyagent seuls ou sans être accompagné d'un titulaire de l'autorité parentale."
As for what she does after this, the article I posted slightly earlier in the thread gives some good advice near the bottom.
https://content.next.westlaw.com/Doc...ge=true&bhcp=1
If there has been any domestic violence or abuse towards her or the child, then the OP should get this documented and take it to the UK with her.
But Murphy's Law being what it is, the OP should still seek advice in France, and it is to be hoped that the father doesn't lodge an Opposition before the departure without the OP's knowledge.....
#26
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I would be getting my documentation together.
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..... and why does she need official documentation to go on vacation with her daughter back to the UK? Loads of Brits go between France and the UK for vacations and don't have to carry letters of consent from each parent.
My sister has just entered the UK with her son from France (hubby still in work) and she was not asked for an official letter for her to enter with her son.
The OP has only been in France for a year; the family are all Brits; the child was born in the UK; I doubt whether French laws will have much relevance.
Last edited by SanDiegogirl; Jul 11th 2017 at 10:28 pm.
#28
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She would be home in the UK, so, personally, I'd feel safer fighting for my rights than in France.
..... and why does she need official documentation to go on vacation with her daughter back to the UK? Loads of Brits go between France and the UK for vacations and don't have to carry letters of consent from each parent.
My sister has just entered the UK with her son from France (hubby still in work) and she was not asked for an official letter for her to enter with her son.
The OP has only been in France for a year; the family are all Brits; the child was born in the UK; I doubt whether French laws will have much relevance.
..... and why does she need official documentation to go on vacation with her daughter back to the UK? Loads of Brits go between France and the UK for vacations and don't have to carry letters of consent from each parent.
My sister has just entered the UK with her son from France (hubby still in work) and she was not asked for an official letter for her to enter with her son.
The OP has only been in France for a year; the family are all Brits; the child was born in the UK; I doubt whether French laws will have much relevance.
They live in France so are subject to french law and if she goes and doesn't come back then she can be charged under the Hague Convention and forced to bring the child back. This will also go against her in future child custody hearings. If you read the link I posted you will see that French custody law protects the rights of the child to see both parents. For that reason, the most common way around the Hague convention law is to show violence or abuse.
As for the divorce law, they no longer satisfy the residency requirements for the UK. And in any case, having your divorce in the British courts means it is almost impossible to enforce any decisions in France. it's supposed to work but doesn't.
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Re: Leave to Remove back to the UK
She will be fine provided her OH agrees to it. In normal circumstances, you are right about parents taking their kids freely out of the country.
They live in France so are subject to french law and if she goes and doesn't come back then she can be charged under the Hague Convention and forced to bring the child back. This will also go against her in future child custody hearings. If you read the link I posted you will see that French custody law protects the rights of the child to see both parents. For that reason, the most common way around the Hague convention law is to show violence or abuse.
They live in France so are subject to french law and if she goes and doesn't come back then she can be charged under the Hague Convention and forced to bring the child back. This will also go against her in future child custody hearings. If you read the link I posted you will see that French custody law protects the rights of the child to see both parents. For that reason, the most common way around the Hague convention law is to show violence or abuse.
Sorry pf, this should be directed to the OP!
#30
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I think if she went back to the UK with her daughter (simply as a tourist returning from her holidays) and then immediately started divorce prooceedings then I believe this would pre-empt any possible attack under the Hague Convention.
Since the OP has not been on the forum since 6th July, it may well be that this is all moot.