Would Love to move back but...
#16
Re: Would Love to move back but...
Oops, sorry, didn't mean to ignore your question, I have only been popping in for a "drive-by" every now and then and missed your post.
The answer is a definitive "you bet". It would have been a simple way of returning (i.e., H-1B sorted by employer, position sitting waiting for me, etc.). In contrast, the option of returning now involves the whole find a job, interview, receive offer (or not), negotiate conditions, deal with visa application (not all universities pay for the necessary attorney fees), etc., etc., in other words such a logistical nightmare that I'm not putting any serious thought into it for a while.
At the time the suggestion of a sabbatical was made, another prof had been given 12 months unpaid leave to (supposedly) be with her mother in Texas (in truth, she was testing the waters with a mind to moveback their permanently). I was serving on the Dept personnel committee at the time and saw that it was a pretty straightforward process and that nobody really had any objections.
So why didn't I pursue the same possibility? Couple of things, really.
First, I didn't want to "inconvenience" the Department if I decided not to return. As it turned out, my replacement wasn't hired until 10 months after I left, and can't start until she completes her PhD in January, i.e., 18 mths after I left. So that turns out to have been a dumb reason.
Second, like many people on here, I was convinced the move home was permanent, yadda, yadda, and so it just didn't seem to make sense to postpone the inevitable. But you NEVER know what life has in store for you (in my case, insane house price rises, drastic plummeting of the dollar, many facets of unexpected culture shock, etc.). Anyone who has been surfing this Forum for a while knows of dozens of cases of people being sure that emigrating (or returning) was the right thing, and then 2 years (or 1 year, or even 6 months) down the line having that "Oh sh*t" moment. That's why when JAJ keeps reminding returnees to consider their options before jumping ship, get citizenship, etc., I for one think he is doing absolutely the rght thing, and not simply propogating a "Don't do it" philosophy about returning. I don't know why he gets so much grief for trying to help people keep their options open.
The answer is a definitive "you bet". It would have been a simple way of returning (i.e., H-1B sorted by employer, position sitting waiting for me, etc.). In contrast, the option of returning now involves the whole find a job, interview, receive offer (or not), negotiate conditions, deal with visa application (not all universities pay for the necessary attorney fees), etc., etc., in other words such a logistical nightmare that I'm not putting any serious thought into it for a while.
At the time the suggestion of a sabbatical was made, another prof had been given 12 months unpaid leave to (supposedly) be with her mother in Texas (in truth, she was testing the waters with a mind to moveback their permanently). I was serving on the Dept personnel committee at the time and saw that it was a pretty straightforward process and that nobody really had any objections.
So why didn't I pursue the same possibility? Couple of things, really.
First, I didn't want to "inconvenience" the Department if I decided not to return. As it turned out, my replacement wasn't hired until 10 months after I left, and can't start until she completes her PhD in January, i.e., 18 mths after I left. So that turns out to have been a dumb reason.
Second, like many people on here, I was convinced the move home was permanent, yadda, yadda, and so it just didn't seem to make sense to postpone the inevitable. But you NEVER know what life has in store for you (in my case, insane house price rises, drastic plummeting of the dollar, many facets of unexpected culture shock, etc.). Anyone who has been surfing this Forum for a while knows of dozens of cases of people being sure that emigrating (or returning) was the right thing, and then 2 years (or 1 year, or even 6 months) down the line having that "Oh sh*t" moment. That's why when JAJ keeps reminding returnees to consider their options before jumping ship, get citizenship, etc., I for one think he is doing absolutely the rght thing, and not simply propogating a "Don't do it" philosophy about returning. I don't know why he gets so much grief for trying to help people keep their options open.
#17
Re: Would Love to move back but...
I hope you are enjoying Australia, I have quite a few freinds spread aroud the place.
Best regards, Kev....
#18
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Joined: May 2007
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Re: Would Love to move back but...
Hi Graphicsgal,
I too am mid 40's and originate from Hadleigh in Essex. Spent most of my youth there as well as South Benfleet. Lived in Ashdown Cres' and Meadow Rd. Went to Hadleigh Jnr and Deanes schools. I Have made visits back to the Uk on several occassions during the last 11 years that I have lived in AUS. While we enjoy our visits (feel like a tourist) I cannot envisage living there again on a permanent basis. The country does not have a great deal to offer us anymore and the day to day lifestyle for us would be alot harder than what we enjoy in AUS. As for UK house prices!!!!!!
Sorry this does not address your questions. Best of luck in your decision.
I too am mid 40's and originate from Hadleigh in Essex. Spent most of my youth there as well as South Benfleet. Lived in Ashdown Cres' and Meadow Rd. Went to Hadleigh Jnr and Deanes schools. I Have made visits back to the Uk on several occassions during the last 11 years that I have lived in AUS. While we enjoy our visits (feel like a tourist) I cannot envisage living there again on a permanent basis. The country does not have a great deal to offer us anymore and the day to day lifestyle for us would be alot harder than what we enjoy in AUS. As for UK house prices!!!!!!
Sorry this does not address your questions. Best of luck in your decision.
Jackie
#19
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Joined: Mar 2005
Location: Berwick,Melbourne.
Posts: 244
Re: Would Love to move back but...
My 3 girls were at Ravenscote and Tomlinscote, have been in Melbourne for almost 3 years.
Tracy