Marriage spouse family objecting
Aug 23rd 2018, 8:17 am
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Marriage spouse family objecting
All,
a friend had this question and posting on behalf
family of girl are objecting to a marriage and do not know of the intention of her wanting to marry my mate
how does he have to deal with this? Does he have to be up front and tell ukvi?
if girl sude know they will do anything to stop the marriage due to old cultral reasons
a friend had this question and posting on behalf
family of girl are objecting to a marriage and do not know of the intention of her wanting to marry my mate
how does he have to deal with this? Does he have to be up front and tell ukvi?
if girl sude know they will do anything to stop the marriage due to old cultral reasons
Aug 23rd 2018, 8:24 am
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Re: Marriage spouse family objecting
Hi Shadowfair, I don't think according to the law parents to "approve" the marriage.
If both parties are happy together and want to get married, it's ok. Also, I don't think he needs to disclose to the home office what girls parents think, from what i understood recently, letters from family and friends are not considered and have no value. Better not to mention it at all.
If both parties are happy together and want to get married, it's ok. Also, I don't think he needs to disclose to the home office what girls parents think, from what i understood recently, letters from family and friends are not considered and have no value. Better not to mention it at all.
Aug 23rd 2018, 8:29 am
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Hi Shadowfair, I don't think according to the law parents to "approve" the marriage.
If both parties are happy together and want to get married, it's ok. Also, I don't think he needs to disclose to the home office what girls parents think, from what i understood recently, letters from family and friends are not considered and have no value. Better not to mention it at all.
If both parties are happy together and want to get married, it's ok. Also, I don't think he needs to disclose to the home office what girls parents think, from what i understood recently, letters from family and friends are not considered and have no value. Better not to mention it at all.
they worried home office might say why they are not in your wedding picture etc
also if they apply and girl side wanted to ban the girl from exiting, can they escalate this to ho as urgency?
they want the girl to marry someone else ...
Aug 23rd 2018, 8:34 am
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Re: Marriage spouse family objecting
well he can’t have a wedding with girl side and they planning to regirter this with witness and father side
they worried home office might say why they are not in your wedding picture etc
also if they apply and girl side wanted to ban the girl from exiting, can they escalate this to ho as urgency?
they want the girl to marry someone else ...
Also, can they not apply without informing the brides family? Unless they know she applied they wouldn't be able to contact the HO.
What would happen the girl if she just marry your mate, would girls family kill the girl?
wow this case looks so complicated...
Aug 23rd 2018, 8:43 am
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I don't think it's a big deal for HO to see who is in the registry ceremony/wedding.How would they even know what monther/father of the bride looks like?
Also, can they not apply without informing the brides family? Unless they know she applied they wouldn't be able to contact the HO.
What would happen the girl if she just marry your mate, would girls family kill the girl?
wow this case looks so complicated...
Also, can they not apply without informing the brides family? Unless they know she applied they wouldn't be able to contact the HO.
What would happen the girl if she just marry your mate, would girls family kill the girl?
wow this case looks so complicated...
from what i understand they will ban her from leaving and can legally do that
where she lives father permission is needed for marriage on girl side and father can by same token ban the girl
they may just make her life like hell
Aug 23rd 2018, 11:47 am
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Re: Marriage spouse family objecting
All,
a friend had this question and posting on behalf
family of girl are objecting to a marriage and do not know of the intention of her wanting to marry my mate
how does he have to deal with this? Does he have to be up front and tell ukvi?
if girl sude know they will do anything to stop the marriage due to old cultral reasons
a friend had this question and posting on behalf
family of girl are objecting to a marriage and do not know of the intention of her wanting to marry my mate
how does he have to deal with this? Does he have to be up front and tell ukvi?
if girl sude know they will do anything to stop the marriage due to old cultral reasons
Aug 23rd 2018, 12:07 pm
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So their plan is to get married in a different country to county of the girl residence as she doesn’t need fathers permission in that case to get married and according to that countries law ( the one she is not resident in)
there will be father side inmediate gamily members and they will register it
would you even ezplain that to ukvi or just apply and explain nothing?
would they not say why marry in another country in addition to inital issue of not having her parents there
there will be father side inmediate gamily members and they will register it
would you even ezplain that to ukvi or just apply and explain nothing?
would they not say why marry in another country in addition to inital issue of not having her parents there
Aug 23rd 2018, 12:17 pm
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Re: Marriage spouse family objecting
So their plan is to get married in a different country to county of the girl residence as she doesn’t need fathers permission in that case to get married and according to that countries law ( the one she is not resident in)
there will be father side inmediate gamily members and they will register it
would you even ezplain that to ukvi or just apply and explain nothing?
would they not say why marry in another country in addition to inital issue of not having her parents there
there will be father side inmediate gamily members and they will register it
would you even ezplain that to ukvi or just apply and explain nothing?
would they not say why marry in another country in addition to inital issue of not having her parents there
Where do they want to marry?
What nationalities are they?
If they want to marry in the UK do either/both have the right to live there and marry there?
Aug 23rd 2018, 12:21 pm
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Re: Marriage spouse family objecting
wife bangladesh
place to get married either georgia or somewhere else that allows them to do so
husband/mate here and meets all requirements ( accommodation and financial )
considering fiance visa and then getting married ... is expensive to pay twice so doing it abroad and instead of paying for two applications, they are using the money to have a decent marriage in another country and enjoy the holiday as well
Last edited by Shadowfair; Aug 23rd 2018 at 12:42 pm.
