My 'Canniversary' (boring, be warned!)
 

So it’s 3yrs on Vancouver Island for me & mine tomorow, plus our 23rd wedding Anniversary …….. These are my thoughts/ramblings so far (long & potentially boring!!) :unsure:

Nanaimo ……. Our first impressions were ‘ugh!’ … it’s like a lot of other towns/cities here ~ highway through dozens of strip malls, car showrooms, dodgy looking motels & fast food outlets! BUT, 3yrs in, I know the place pretty well, its scenery is amazing, the people on the whole are friendly & helpful, lakes, beaches, mountains all easily accessible …. It’s SO green! ~ I almost find it strange now if people don’t speak when we’re walking the dog or wandering around the harbour whereas when I first got here I thought it was odd how many peeps did speak! Love living near the Ocean, plus, Tofino, Vancouver, Mt Washington, Victoria are all daytrips. (We’ve even done Whistler for the day ~ albeit a bloomin’ long day!)

Weather ……. The first summer was a revelation to me ~ much warmer & longer than I had imagined (one of my biggest worries was the weather, IF we stay in Canada I don’t wanna be shoveling snow when I’m a pensioner) Last summer was OK, although not quite as nice as 2006 & this summer was beautiful ….. On the last day of term (I work for the school district) we took all the kids to Rathtrevor beach ……. There were whales breaching & bald eagles flying around (plus a dead seal on the beach!) …… it’s been lovely almost ever since ;) ……. Yep, it rains but it’s nowhere near as wet as I thought it would be ~ some parts are wetter than others apparently ~ rain shadows/micro climates?!?! I dunno.

My teenagers …….
The older one (19) is at Vancouver Island University & starts her 3rd year in Jan ~ she is the first person in either of our families to ever go to Uni! ……. She is finding the work pretty hard at the moment & this time last year had a major ‘wobble’, gave up Uni & spent the money she had saved for the following semester on a horse!! She spent many an hour sat in the field with ‘Java’ while I worried to death about her but it gave her a new focus & she’s fulfilled her dream of owning a horse, has been in a couple of competitions, has a few rosettes under her belt & is learning to be a riding instructor.
She said at first it was hard for her to make ‘real friends’ as most of the kids have known each other from kindergarten but that has improved greatly with Uni & having a p/t job (hooray!!)
She is working to put herself through Uni, we paid for the first year then told her she needed to find a p/t job, she can live at home & we will support & help her for as long as she needs it but she has to take a bit of responsibility for her education ……. I feel really bad sometimes that I can’t afford to pay for the whole degree but there is a sign up in my school that says ‘By making your kids lives too easy you make it harder for them’ this rings true with my daughter as she refuses to learn to drive & just phones me up from wherever, at whatever time & announces ‘I’m done, can you come & get me?’ Aarrgghh!

My son is completely different ~ phew! ~ 16yrs old, he didn’t like seniors much in Bristol & would be finished now if we were still there, here he’s in grade 11, he finds English easy, loves Math, finds Socials ‘boring’ & is in his 3rd year of Japanese, he coaches grade 8 rugby twice a week after school, loves the amount of sports he gets to play, can e-mail his teachers if he’s stuck with his homework (bl**dy good job coz my Japanese is non-existent!)
& has just started his first p/t job at a golf club …….. Hope he manages to keep it & stops driving the golf carts into the sand, bless him!
He was a neat, little, short haired kid when we got here & has morphed into a 6ft, hairy, deep voiced teenager, his hair sits on his shoulders & he wears shorts with his undies showing for about 10months a year!

Jobs ……. I’d need another hour & another essay to try & explain the logistics of working for the school district, lets just say it’s a pain in the ar*e getting enough seniority to become a regular employee but worth digging my heels in coz after 15yrs of this type of job, I LOVE having the summer off & being finished by 3pm so will jump through the school districts hoops to get it!

My OH got a permanent full time job offer yesterday he’s been doing the job as a casual but now will have the benefits as well …… this is the job he wanted to secure when we came out on our recce in 2004!! (Island time eh?!!) He works for VIHA, he starts on 4 weeks holiday a year, plus stats PLUS an extra 10 days per year because he works so many minutes over the daily max of 7.5 ……. the downside for him is the job is in Victoria & we’re in Nanaimo but again, we’ll muddle along for now & see what happens when No2 child finishes school ………. If it wasn’t for the kids I think we’d be looking at moving to Vic but my son said to me a while ago ‘Mom, I moved halfway around the world with you but I don’t want to move again’ so here we stay for the time being ….. Mind you, there are a lot worse places we could be!

So to sum up ….. Thank gawd I hear you say ……. Many, many times here it’s seemed like 1 step forward 2 steps back, property is way more expensive than many other parts of Canada, we aren’t mortgage free, don’t own half a dozen properties, didn’t come here with a huge pot of money & own 2 old cars ….. To be honest it’s been a hard slog …… it still is ……. OH travels for hours & hours a week, I miss my best friend SO much & still feel quite lonely here …… I know a lot of people through my job but miss those long term mates.
On the upside, we’re more confident people (coz we’ve had to be!) I am learning to ride a horse, have been part of a Dragon boat racing team & am much fitter (thank you dog!) than I used to be ……… next stop, citizenship

Good luck to all in the process …….. It’s a hell of a ride :eek: x x x

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Not boring at all - wonderful. Well done to all of you.

So I get it's been "a hard slog, but worth it" from you :thumbup:

And here's to many more - the "worth it" ones, not the "hard slog" ones ;)

:beer:

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[QUOTE=bananahammock;6825482]So it’s 3yrs on Vancouver Island for me & mine tomorow, plus our 23rd wedding Anniversary …….. next stop, citizenship

Good luck to all in the process


Wow loved reading the entire posts , can empathise with many of your observations and judging from your experiance youve done all the hard work now concentrate on getting citizenship under your belt

A VERY HAPPY CANNIVERSARY TO YOU AND YOURS

eb

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Happy 3rd Canniversary Jo:thumbsup:

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Thanks for the interesting post!!Happy Canniversary:thumbsup::thumbsup:
Yoong

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Congratulations :thumbup: your post was wonderful I enjoyed reading.

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Happy Canniversary!:thumbsup:

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Happy Canniversary #3.
Thanks for your excellent post.

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Many congrats.

E&J.

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happy canniversary from up island! :thumbsup:

(ups, closing in on those 3 years too :o )

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Your account was very interesting to me, bananahammock. Happy Canniversary! :thumbsup:
x

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Did you poke it with sticks ?

Not boring BTW, happy Canaversary. :thumbup:

R.

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Awww thanks everyone :thumbsup:

Rich ........ no I didn't, but only coz a bald eagle was sat on the carcass & I was scared of it :o ....... saved the sticks for poking the kids when no-one's looking tho! :D

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Fantastic report, loved it. And from one Bristolian to another - gert lush me babby:D

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Me too.:) Congratulations on 3 years

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What...no pictures for me to play with? :confused:;):)

Congrats on number three my dear, may there be many more. :thumbsup:

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Churz fer that me luvver :)

Oh, if you insist :D ....... these are from the last week, 1. Where we live, 2. Our other boat ;) 3. Otters (can you enhance this one me dear?) 4. Looking towards Nanaimo 5. View from the carpark at work.

Thanks to all for your good wishes :wub:

This time last year I was so miserable here I didn't want to write one of these posts ....... whichever wise souls said it takes xxx amount of years to settle IMHO is dead right! Kids seem 100% settled, me & he not quite there, but plugging away & less & less ready to give it up :thumbsup: (This is today, tomorrow may be different! :eek:)

Cheers all, Jo

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Great post happy Canniversary Bananahammock, sounds like you are enjoying it with all its ups and downs :thumbsup:

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Congrats Jo, happy 3# Caniversery.

My family are just about to join me, at last, and I hope we can post on our #3.

Best Wishes Sent.

Paul

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Hey you!

3 years under your belt - that's awesome! Hope you had a glass to celebrate? :beer:

And you know where we are when you want to come and learn to ski. I can't promise that my breakfasts are as good as at the Log House but I'll give it a go! :thumbsup:

Love

Me, him and the dog! xxx

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Well that was polite ;):lol: Really pleased OH's job has become permanent:thumbsup: :wub:

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Thanx peeps :wub:


A glass? yep, just the 1 tho obviously :thumbsup: ...... never gonna get the hang of that skiing lark but might bring my mate to your neck of the woods next summer .......... ps .... I'm sure your breakfasts are lovely (& probably cheaper than the Log House!!)

I'm a very polite persom you know ;) ........ if I tell everyone it's like Stepford, all the women are called Kathy or Barb, the dudes have full beards, trucks & are usually called Doug or Dave, plus everyone goes to bed at 9pm no-one will want to come here :eek:

Yep, it is good news about OH's job ...... bout time too!
How's life in the motherland?

x x x

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Haha thats what you told me :p :D .........In my corner its brill.....not been knifed or mugged yet .......I keep lurking on the corner for the rapist....if he's their he's not telling me haha :blink::eek:

Seriously tho its great.........Just having trouble getting a morgage :frown: now.
So say hi to Kathy,Barb,Doug and Dave will you:D

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Congrats!

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Good description.

Congrats.

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Thanks for the interesting post, and congrats on OH's job. Can he set up a work-from-home arrangement in advance for the odd winter days when the Malahat is bad? We have a couple of Cobble Hill/Duncan area folks that have to do that occasionally.

Happy 3rd Canniversary :thumbup:

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Cheers Madmac :)

I wish! He works in a Childrens Hospital so has to be there 'in person' unfortunately for him, on the bright side tho he has a fair few vacation days so will probably end up using some of those :o

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Happy Canniversary BH :thumbsup:

Great read! Had to chuckle about your morphing kids - know exactly what you mean :rofl:

Congrats to Mr BH in his job. Glad you are all feeling pretty settled too.

................. from a fellow Dragonboat "athelete" ;)

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Last yr their was only one day that Mr K didn't make it through to Victoria......due to the snow. And he never managed to get out of Nanaimo:blink:

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Wonderful post. Happy Canniversary
:thumbsup: