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ChrisAsh Sep 29th 2016 4:38 am

When Does Homesickness Kick in?
 
Hey,

Just wondering when homesickness kick in or if it will at all

Been in SK for about 3 months now and haven't felt it once, I thought these first few months would be hell, but its been really really easy.

I've moved out alone, no family came along. I won't be going home for Christmas due to work, so maybe then.

I guess it is different for everyone, feeling pretty lucky so far, maybe I won't even feel it? (That makes me feel a little guilty actually)

Snowy560 Sep 29th 2016 5:05 am

Re: When Does Homesickness Kick in?
 
Hi

You might experience "Culture shock" and go through recognized stages. I did.

Everything is wonderful at first till you move to the next stage ...

https://travel.gc.ca/travelling/livi.../culture-shock

But then again ... you might not ...


S

evets Sep 29th 2016 5:11 am

Re: When Does Homesickness Kick in?
 
I suspect everyone is different, it all really depends on your reasons for moving!

You could still be in the honeymoon phase.

Not sure why you should think about feeling guilty not experiencing homesickness, if you have moved with the right intentions then why would you feel it. What do you think you are missing?

ChrisAsh Sep 29th 2016 5:24 am

Re: When Does Homesickness Kick in?
 
I'm actually Canadian, just lived in england for my whole life, so I'm well adjusted for life here... so far.

I moved for my dream job so its all good!

I don't know why there is a guilt, maybe I should just get on with it and enjoy my time, rather than worry about the lack of homesickness hahah

Hurlabrick Sep 29th 2016 7:40 am

Re: When Does Homesickness Kick in?
 

Originally Posted by ChrisAsh (Post 12064050)
I'm actually Canadian, just lived in england for my whole life


Pretty much me too!

beckiwoo Sep 29th 2016 10:53 am

Re: When Does Homesickness Kick in?
 
My homesickness comes and goes.

I can't say for sure what can trigger it although around Christmas time it's not so good.

BristolUK Sep 29th 2016 11:46 am

Re: When Does Homesickness Kick in?
 

Originally Posted by Snowy560 (Post 12064038)
But then again ... you might not ...

:nod:

12 years so far...still waiting...:)

Silverdragon102 Sep 29th 2016 12:15 pm

Re: When Does Homesickness Kick in?
 
8 years here and both hubby and me waiting for it to hit

Engineer_abroad Sep 29th 2016 2:18 pm

Re: When Does Homesickness Kick in?
 
10 months in a haven't yet really got any homesickness. I am still going through a process of comparing absolutely everything to how it was back home and getting frustrated at all the same stuff that you never think of. This is slowly getting better though.

Simon Legree Sep 29th 2016 2:55 pm

Re: When Does Homesickness Kick in?
 
Since March 14 1969 and I'm still waiting for it to kick in ! ;)

MarylandNed Sep 29th 2016 3:01 pm

Re: When Does Homesickness Kick in?
 

Originally Posted by ChrisAsh (Post 12064030)
Just wondering when homesickness kick in or if it will at all

It's a bit like asking "how long is a piece of string?" when it's not certain that there is a piece of string.

BristolUK Sep 29th 2016 3:47 pm

Re: When Does Homesickness Kick in?
 

Originally Posted by MarylandNed (Post 12064448)
It's a bit like asking "how long is a piece of string?" when it's not certain that there is a piece of string.

I have a piece of string in my pocket. I don't really, but now I've seen this video I'm considering it. :rofl:


JonboyE Sep 29th 2016 4:15 pm

Re: When Does Homesickness Kick in?
 

Originally Posted by BristolUK (Post 12064254)
:nod:

12 years so far...still waiting...:)

17 years for me. I must still be in the honeymoon phase.

caretaker Sep 29th 2016 5:13 pm

Re: When Does Homesickness Kick in?
 
In Yorkton he'll get Christmas and Ukrainian Christmas, a twofer!

Siouxie Sep 29th 2016 5:29 pm

Re: When Does Homesickness Kick in?
 

Originally Posted by BristolUK (Post 12064254)
:nod:

12 years so far...still waiting...:)

15 for me - still waiting too! :)


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