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Ngulra Oct 19th 2019 3:38 pm

Need advice on primary schooling in Canada (Toronto)
 
We have moved to Toronto with two kids (8 and 6). They completed year 3 and 1 respectively in a London private day school. We moved to Toronto and they are now in a top-10 local TDSB school. Because entry is by age here, they are now in grade 3 and 1. I find both kids are at least two years ahead of their classmates. We have spoke to their teachers but there is no possibility to promote them up a grade. There are no extension classes either and the ability to cater to their academic level is next to nill in the class. My son has recently been tested for giftedness in grade 3 but I have no idea about the result of this test yet or how our options change if he qualifies.

I am looking for some advice on (a) how to approach TDSB to allow their needs to be taken more seriously or (b) alternative school options in Toronto. We would have loved to send them to a British school but none exists. We are thinking private schools may be an option but not sure if our situation is caused more by differences in UK/North American pedagogical approach (in which case we would face the same issue in the private system).

The difference in schooling has been the most challenging issue in our move, as we are not sure whether we will be here for two years or permanently. But right now we feel our kids are not learning much compares to what they were in London, and it is providing a reason to go back.

dbd33 Oct 20th 2019 12:36 am

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I go against the grain on the educational threads due to having pursued education for my children in Toronto as hard as the Chinese parents of their competitors. Still, I have some sympathy for the common view that small children are behind in Canada but it evens out toward the end of high school. Your time of stay is critical, if you're here permanently then the standard advice applies; find an IB school move your children to the feeder schools for it (in our case the Collège français).. If you're only here short term then I think you need to put up the cash for whichever schools feed UCC or Branksome or Appleby.

advent25 Oct 20th 2019 12:37 am

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tive school options in Toronto. We would have loved to send them to a British school but none exists. We are thinking private schools may be an option but not sure if our situation is caused more by differences in UK/North American pedagogical approach (in which case we would face the same issue in the private system).

The difference in schooling has been the most challenging issue in our move, as we are not sure whether we will be here for two years or permanently. But right now we feel our kids are not learning much compares to what they were in London, and it is providing a reason to go back.
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We moved almost 2 years ago and are facing a similar issue. If you are planning to be here for a while then you have to accept that this is the education system here and focus on the positives I.e. it actually allow kids to be kids and enjoy their childhood rather than having the relentless pressure (we moved right after my daughter passed the 11 plus). My daughter is adamant that she wants to attend a British university and for that reason only we are looking at private options for Grade 9.

dbd33 Oct 20th 2019 12:44 am

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Originally Posted by advent25 (Post 12751192)
My daughter is adamant that she wants to attend a British university and for that reason only we are looking at private options for Grade 9.

I don't know that that is necessary. Our children had offers from universities in Europe based on their scores in the IB and the (US) SAT and, as noted above, they attended a state funded high school. I would think moving for university is less of an issue than a move back earlier in life. I don't think it would be money well spent as what is primarily being purchased at private schools is a network of contacts; it's not much help knowing half the government of Canada if you live in Tower Hamlets.

HGerchikov Oct 20th 2019 6:46 pm

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Originally Posted by dbd33 (Post 12751194)
I don't know that that is necessary. Our children had offers from universities in Europe based on their scores in the IB and the (US) SAT and, as noted above, they attended a state funded high school. I would think moving for university is less of an issue than a move back earlier in life. I don't think it would be money well spent as what is primarily being purchased at private schools is a network of contacts; it's not much help knowing half the government of Canada if you live in Tower Hamlets.

This.
I also read an article a couple of years ago (but can't remember where now so you might want to research yourself) that said that state schools in affluent areas of the gta had significantly better results than the private options.

Zoe Bell Oct 21st 2019 11:49 am

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I have some experience of private schools in Toronto, not as a parent.
One of the schools DBD mentions runs IB right from Junior Kindergarten. If I had the money i would certainly send my children there.
In my opinion the IB is a superior program to anything else offered.

Ngulra Oct 23rd 2019 2:10 am

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Thanks. We tried to get into the French system (Via Monde) as I am fluent but as kids are not, they were not granted admission. I can't see how we could target College Francais. French immersion is also not an options for us as oversubscribed. I'm starting to look at IB schools and can see York School and Sunnybrook as possible options but not much else.

scilly Oct 23rd 2019 2:54 am

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Do any of the state schools in your area offer IB?

Several of them do here in Vancouver, including our local high school.

Zoe Bell Oct 23rd 2019 11:59 am

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boys or girls?

for girls you could look at Branksome Hall

also check out IB Schools Of Ontario

SoftwareDev Nov 2nd 2019 7:12 pm

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We are planning to move to Toronto next summer with a 12 yr and 10 yr old and have been looking into this as well. Although we don't currently have any plans to return back to the U.K but was always comforting to think that in the worst case if things really don't work out, we could move back before year 10 for my eldest son. He could then pick up where we left off. However looking into schools and now wondering how far behind he would be to other year 10s has definitely added to the pressure of getting this right.

One thing that I have done is get in touch with a high school teacher we know there. She mentioned the following:

"Any newcomers would go through WWTW(we welcome the world) they usually do assessments and place children appropriately"

Can't find much information about this on the net, wonder if anybody else has come across this? She's going to get me further info from a colleague.

Has anybody moved back to the U.K. with secondary school age kids and if so what was your experience?

MillieF Nov 3rd 2019 11:42 am

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I’m not in Toronto, but did arrive with an 11 year old who was going into middle school, grade 6. Middle school was hard as he was bored stiff and had covered the vast majority of the broader curriculum before he came here. He didn’t like grades 9 and 10 much either and struggled with his attitude, and concentrated on track and field etc, which was good socially. Grades 11 and 12 went splendidly though as he’d started on the IB programme. He graduated last year with good marks and, is loving the first year of uni:thumbup:

It really feels like a minefield moving here. You don’t come here to specifically screw up the life of your children and I think the vast majority come here to give their kids more opportunities later on. At the risk of stating the bleeding obvious, the more invested we have been in his studies the better he has done. We took our eye off the ball when he was 15 or so and we were having a few family problems and it all went a bit pear shaped...but I think we’ve recovered :fingerscrossed:

Very best of luck...moving here doesn’t always seem easy, and it’s damned hard work, but eventually it gets better:thumbup:

Siouxie Nov 3rd 2019 4:32 pm

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Originally Posted by SoftwareDev (Post 12758176)
We are planning to move to Toronto next summer with a 12 yr and 10 yr old and have been looking into this as well. Although we don't currently have any plans to return back to the U.K but was always comforting to think that in the worst case if things really don't work out, we could move back before year 10 for my eldest son. He could then pick up where we left off. However looking into schools and now wondering how far behind he would be to other year 10s has definitely added to the pressure of getting this right.

One thing that I have done is get in touch with a high school teacher we know there. She mentioned the following:

"Any newcomers would go through WWTW(we welcome the world) they usually do assessments and place children appropriately"

Can't find much information about this on the net, wonder if anybody else has come across this? She's going to get me further info from a colleague.

Has anybody moved back to the U.K. with secondary school age kids and if so what was your experience?

Welcome Centres
https://www.tdsb.on.ca/test1/New-to-...eption-Centres

rivingtonpike Nov 3rd 2019 7:48 pm

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Both our girls went through the elementary system here in BC. But at Grade 8 the local High School is one of these "progressive - self paced" places. We felt compelled to put our eldest into the private system. The youngest will follow next year when she reaches Grade 8. When we looked at the options where we live, we felt the expense was an investment worth making. I fully concede that financially we are privileged to be in the position that we have the option to take the path we have.

SoftwareDev Nov 17th 2019 12:27 am

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Originally Posted by Siouxie (Post 12758421)

thanks... just what I was looking for

SoftwareDev Nov 17th 2019 12:39 am

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Originally Posted by MillieF (Post 12758326)
I’m not in Toronto, but did arrive with an 11 year old who was going into middle school, grade 6. Middle school was hard as he was bored stiff and had covered the vast majority of the broader curriculum before he came here. He didn’t like grades 9 and 10 much either and struggled with his attitude, and concentrated on track and field etc, which was good socially. Grades 11 and 12 went splendidly though as he’d started on the IB programme. He graduated last year with good marks and, is loving the first year of uni:thumbup:

It really feels like a minefield moving here. You don’t come here to specifically screw up the life of your children and I think the vast majority come here to give their kids more opportunities later on. At the risk of stating the bleeding obvious, the more invested we have been in his studies the better he has done. We took our eye off the ball when he was 15 or so and we were having a few family problems and it all went a bit pear shaped...but I think we’ve recovered :fingerscrossed:

Very best of luck...moving here doesn’t always seem easy, and it’s damned hard work, but eventually it gets better:thumbup:

maybe I’m over thinking it but definitely something that is putting a lot of pressure on us. The children love the time they spend there, have spent lot of their summers there. Appreciate it’s going to be completely different to them going on vacation but they are adamant they want to move and would leave tomorrow if they could. They are doing well at school here so the pressure to get this right and not take any opportunities away from them is definitely very worrying. Hoping to be in over in Toronto soon so will definitely pop into the local schools and ask if there is any option to have them tested when they arrive and see what grade they need to be put in. Even if it’s unlikely they would!

dbd33 Nov 17th 2019 12:09 pm

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Originally Posted by SoftwareDev (Post 12764877)


maybe I’m over thinking it but definitely something that is putting a lot of pressure on us. The children love the time they spend there, have spent lot of their summers there. Appreciate it’s going to be completely different to them going on vacation but they are adamant they want to move and would leave tomorrow if they could. They are doing well at school here so the pressure to get this right and not take any opportunities away from them is definitely very worrying. Hoping to be in over in Toronto soon so will definitely pop into the local schools and ask if there is any option to have them tested when they arrive and see what grade they need to be put in. Even if it’s unlikely they would!

Can they skate? They'll be socially disadvantaged if they cannot.



SoftwareDev Nov 17th 2019 4:43 pm

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Originally Posted by dbd33 (Post 12764999)
Can they skate? They'll be socially disadvantaged if they cannot.

lol... nope... maybe their cousins can teach them how to 😉

Ngulra Dec 3rd 2019 3:24 pm

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Thanks for these responses. We've applied to a range of schools and will see what happens.

One thing to keep in mind. If you child is coming to Toronto before grade 3, when they get to grade 3 they will be tested in the public system for giftedness (CCAT test). We started in grade 3 in September and I just heard he tested as highly gifted. I am not sure he is actually gifted though, or whether he had a lot more 'academics' in his British school! But now it seems a range of specialised public schools are open to us on top of private options. I'm not sure how a public gifted school compares to some of the top Toronto private schools mentioned in this thread. Thoughts welcome!

Partially discharged Dec 4th 2019 10:25 am

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Originally Posted by Ngulra (Post 12773285)
Thanks for these responses. We've applied to a range of schools and will see what happens.

One thing to keep in mind. If you child is coming to Toronto before grade 3, when they get to grade 3 they will be tested in the public system for giftedness (CCAT test). We started in grade 3 in September and I just heard he tested as highly gifted. I am not sure he is actually gifted though, or whether he had a lot more 'academics' in his British school! But now it seems a range of specialised public schools are open to us on top of private options. I'm not sure how a public gifted school compares to some of the top Toronto private schools mentioned in this thread. Thoughts welcome!

My own thoughts. Our two children (now 19 and 23) both went through the public system from the beginning. We never even considered the 'fee paying' route. My father went through it in the UK (I didn't) and found the schooling to be good for his field and ensured he got into university in the UK in the 50's when few did. Here in Canada our daughter went through the french immersion system, went to the catchment area schools and graduated and went on to university. Our son was identified as 'gifted' about grade 3 and we resisted that stream until grade 9. He went to the 'gifted' high school (which also had catchment area students and ESL students) and did well and is now at university in a program he likes. It was the right thing for him as I think he could have got bored especially in math and science with the standard academic stream of some classes in high school.

The IB school in Ottawa is about 30 km away with commute times not much fun but there is a dedicated bus that gets you there. However, with the distance/commute times it takes up a lot of time you could be doing other things.

In terms of private schools, I know 2 alumni of a well known girls private school in Toronto. One did well in her career, the other (daughter of the one who did well) was accepted as she was a daughter of an alumni, lived there as a boarder, somehow was passed along and graduated. She went to a university that wouldn't be an "A" list university in Ontario and halfway through first year quit as she couldn't handle it as it was discovered she was dyslexic and couldn't keep up. Somehow, the private school never knew this ??

Everybody has different experiences, but I think there are other options than private schools in Toronto.

HGerchikov Dec 5th 2019 12:40 am

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Originally Posted by Ngulra (Post 12773285)
Thanks for these responses. We've applied to a range of schools and will see what happens.

One thing to keep in mind. If you child is coming to Toronto before grade 3, when they get to grade 3 they will be tested in the public system for giftedness (CCAT test). We started in grade 3 in September and I just heard he tested as highly gifted. I am not sure he is actually gifted though, or whether he had a lot more 'academics' in his British school! But now it seems a range of specialised public schools are open to us on top of private options. I'm not sure how a public gifted school compares to some of the top Toronto private schools mentioned in this thread. Thoughts welcome!

I have reservations about the Gifted program, here is why.

The school my boys went to was a very highly rated state school. It offered enhanced classes in various subjects, mainly Maths and Science. Both of my boys were late developers, so did not come out as gifted in grade 3 (in fact one of them never took the test as he was in Gr 4 when we moved), however they had hit their stride by high school.
The way the enhanced classes worked was that any child designated as gifted had an automatic spot in all the classes - if there were any spaces left then they were filled with other high performing kids. Both my boys made it to the Enhanced Maths class. The eldest one was lucky as there were not so many gifted kids in his year so once he gained his spot and continued to maintain his high grades his spot wasn't threatened. The younger one however was in a year with a lot of gifted students.

He won a spot in Grade 9 into the Enhanced Math along with a few other non gifted kids. By Grade 10 other gifted children had arrived at the school resulting in the non gifted being removed from the class. By the end of Grade 10 my son was the only non gifted student who still had his spot. In many cases the kids who lost their place had significantly better marks than the gifted kids who took it. It didn't matter what their marks were - their place was guaranteed.
My son went on to win the school maths prize at graduation for the highest overall mark (100%) and yet if just one more child who at age 8 had been determined to be smarter than other kids (even if currently running a 40% average) had joined the school then he would have been kicked out of the enhanced class.

I don't feel that this is a great situation for the non gifted students - but I think it is considerably worse for the gifted ones who get the place regardless of effort or results - how to instigate a sense of entitlement in one easy lesson.

Ngulra Dec 5th 2019 3:11 am

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Originally Posted by HGerchikov (Post 12774214)
I have reservations about the Gifted program, here is why.

The school my boys went to was a very highly rated state school. It offered enhanced classes in various subjects, mainly Maths and Science. Both of my boys were late developers, so did not come out as gifted in grade 3 (in fact one of them never took the test as he was in Gr 4 when we moved), however they had hit their stride by high school.
The way the enhanced classes worked was that any child designated as gifted had an automatic spot in all the classes - if there were any spaces left then they were filled with other high performing kids. Both my boys made it to the Enhanced Maths class. The eldest one was lucky as there were not so many gifted kids in his year so once he gained his spot and continued to maintain his high grades his spot wasn't threatened. The younger one however was in a year with a lot of gifted students.

He won a spot in Grade 9 into the Enhanced Math along with a few other non gifted kids. By Grade 10 other gifted children had arrived at the school resulting in the non gifted being removed from the class. By the end of Grade 10 my son was the only non gifted student who still had his spot. In many cases the kids who lost their place had significantly better marks than the gifted kids who took it. It didn't matter what their marks were - their place was guaranteed.
My son went on to win the school maths prize at graduation for the highest overall mark (100%) and yet if just one more child who at age 8 had been determined to be smarter than other kids (even if currently running a 40% average) had joined the school then he would have been kicked out of the enhanced class.

I don't feel that this is a great situation for the non gifted students - but I think it is considerably worse for the gifted ones who get the place regardless of effort or results - how to instigate a sense of entitlement in one easy lesson.

Agreed, this sounds hugely unfair. But would you say that the enhanced maths programme your boys took was on par with what they would have gotten at a private school? Did their social skills suffer by being streamed with 'gifted' kids and their high-performing ilk?

HGerchikov Dec 5th 2019 12:16 pm

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Originally Posted by Ngulra (Post 12774247)
Agreed, this sounds hugely unfair. But would you say that the enhanced maths programme your boys took was on par with what they would have gotten at a private school? Did their social skills suffer by being streamed with 'gifted' kids and their high-performing ilk?


I recognise that this is a very small sample size but our neighbour's son went to one of the best private schools in the country (certainly expensive). The neighbours paid my son (who was the same age) to tutor him. Another family I know with 4 boys sent the oldest two to private school - they were already in the private system in the UK. The youngest two though started in the state system here and the parents felt no need to switch them to private as they felt the education they were getting was on a par.

By the time our boys were in the enhanced class their social skills were already developed, and a lot of their friends from before were already in the program, I noticed no issues and, in the case of the older one, his confidence rocketed as a result of the recognition of his efforts. Also, due to the lack of academic pressure in their early years they were both able to pursue other activities, like sports. So, as well as the Math prize our youngest also won a top player award on the varsity ice hockey team.

My opinion is that, provided your child isn't causing trouble due to be under challenged at school, just roll with it. They really do catch up by the time they leave school and the system allows them the time to develop into more rounded individuals. If you go back to the UK before they are 12 or 13 then they may need a few private tutoring sessions to align them with the UK curriculum but sounds like they are bright so shouldn't be too much of a problem for them.

MillieF Dec 7th 2019 2:37 am

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Originally Posted by HGerchikov (Post 12774396)

My opinion is that, provided your child isn't causing trouble due to be under challenged at school, just roll with it. They really do catch up by the time they leave school and the system allows them the time to develop into more rounded individuals. .

This phrase sums up most of my experience with young people and education in Canada. They aren’t hot house plants, if they aren’t ‘gifted’ in their early life, it gives them chance to flower later on, as they are discovering themselves. I was really worried in Grade 2 that my child’s phonics were going to bring his future development to a standstill...it didn’t and it works itself out...one hopes...and tries:blink:

Oakvillian Dec 12th 2019 4:13 pm

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Originally Posted by Ngulra (Post 12774247)
Agreed, this sounds hugely unfair. But would you say that the enhanced maths programme your boys took was on par with what they would have gotten at a private school? Did their social skills suffer by being streamed with 'gifted' kids and their high-performing ilk?

Refer to DBD's comments way up-thread. The core-curriculum education in private schools, so far as I can tell from those parents and high-school age kids I know who are in both the private and public systems, is no better or worse than that available in the public system, especially if you're in a state-funded school that offers the IB programme. I have no direct experience of the gifted programme in my school board, but know several parents who are moderately unhappy with the way it's delivered, finding that their kids are more socially isolated than they would be in the "general population." Of course, some of those kids have a tendency towards social awkwardness anyway, but I don't think the gifted streaming helps.

In terms of facilities for sports, creative arts, and extracurriculars, there's no doubt that the money in the private system makes for stronger provision, there's often a wider selection of "stuff," a stronger faculty for visual arts, music, drama, etc. But even there, public high schools hold their own: the school my eldest son attends (and my younger kids will follow him into in due course) has a very strong reputation for music and drama, for example, and he's been able to study vocal performance as part of his core courseload. The downside is that publicly-funded schools are beholden to the funding whims of government, so crap like a 50% cut in permanent music staff leads to combined-grade courses and larger class sizes. But that doesn't seem to stop the kids.

The other thing that private schools buy you is a network of other moderately-to-extremely-wealthy people, who will become the captains of industry and the bulwarks of government in their adult life. If there's a possibility your kids may not stay in Canada through university and beyond, that network becomes worth much less. IMO, this is what parents are buying when they pay for private education. There's maybe an illusion that the education itself is somehow better, but there is no evidence to support that assertion.

Secam Dec 13th 2019 6:25 pm

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It is interesting that Canada consistently ranks tops in the world for education, and yet those moving to Canada find that in the early grades their children are far ahead of Canadian students. My only thinking is that Canada starts slower than other countries.

https://cimg2.ibsrv.net/gimg/british...c249a8d3a0.jpg

dbd33 Dec 13th 2019 9:42 pm

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Originally Posted by Secam (Post 12778484)
It is interesting that Canada consistently ranks tops in the world for education, and yet those moving to Canada find that in the early grades their children are far ahead of Canadian students. My only thinking is that Canada starts slower than other countries.

https://cimg2.ibsrv.net/gimg/british...c249a8d3a0.jpg

I think the accepted view on this site is that Canadian education does start slowly and then catches up with the result at the end of high school being the same. Obviously this matters if moving children between countries while they're in high school but, otherwise, probably not.


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