Moving back across the pond after a massive mistake!!!!
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Moving back across the pond after a massive mistake!!!!
Hi... Id love to hear of anyone who have made the trip across the canada and moved back to uk after some reason or another.. Since being back in the UK we realised how much the country is in such a mess!!! But its not until you look back on what you had and realise it wasnt all that bad. We lived in calgary for nearly 4 years. The winters were brutal and we all missed the coast so much.... lived near the coast all my life in swansea. Our children age 16 and 13 miss certain things about canada but most of all the good schools. Cant beleive that the uk schools wont put our daughter into the year she came out of. Yr 10 but should be in yr 11. After 4 months of struggle we have decided tomove across to nova scotia. This was our first choice but at the time no job for hubby. Id love to hear from anyone who has settled in halifax and any other help would be so grateful. My husband want to join the police force but no jobs right now. look forward to any replies.
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Re: Moving back across the pond after a massive mistake!!!!
Hi... Id love to hear of anyone who have made the trip across the canada and moved back to uk after some reason or another.. Since being back in the UK we realised how much the country is in such a mess!!! But its not until you look back on what you had and realise it wasnt all that bad. We lived in calgary for nearly 4 years. The winters were brutal and we all missed the coast so much.... lived near the coast all my life in swansea. Our children age 16 and 13 miss certain things about canada but most of all the good schools. Cant beleive that the uk schools wont put our daughter into the year she came out of. Yr 10 but should be in yr 11. After 4 months of struggle we have decided tomove across to nova scotia. This was our first choice but at the time no job for hubby. Id love to hear from anyone who has settled in halifax and any other help would be so grateful. My husband want to join the police force but no jobs right now. look forward to any replies.
Good luck!
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Re: Moving back across the pond after a massive mistake!!!!
Can you give us more ideas on how the UK is in such a mess. went home at Christmas and loved it, now think that it could be for us again.
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I'm sure many people have had lovely trips back to the UK for Christmas. I know I have. However, that isn't exactly indicative of what it would be like to live there full-time. It's the same concept as emigrating to Canada after a nice holiday there - it's not the same thing.
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Hi There.. We have been in uk now since sept 29th 2011. We feel that the state of the economy will have a bad affect on our childrens future.. now 16 and 13. In canada kids dont leave school till age 18 and i think this is a great thing. The longer they stay in school the better i say. Our daughter was put in a year below... our choice because we felt it would benfit them... which it has. Since returning no school will place ourdaughter into the yr she has just come out of... bad mistake because she will not hav the chance to sit her gcse because she woulnt of done any course work.. When you look back and realise what you had things dont look so bad.. We feel everyone seems glum here wiht unemployment soaring and crime on the increase. My husband is a police officer and realise the problems of antisocial and just larger louts on a whole. We have realised that uk has a glum future especially with this goverment and the stateof nhs.Ive had an eye opener and realise why people thought we were nuts to return back. We are looking to move back to canada but nova scotia our first choice. ID really think twice before you leap. We never had the chance to return for a trip so this is our first time back in nearly 4 years. hope this helps but as i say... nothing is what it is until you actually have a feel for any place thats only when you know if you have made the right choice... Never say never thats my moto in life!!!
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Re: Moving back across the pond after a massive mistake!!!!
Hi... Id love to hear of anyone who have made the trip across the canada and moved back to uk after some reason or another.. Since being back in the UK we realised how much the country is in such a mess!!! But its not until you look back on what you had and realise it wasnt all that bad. We lived in calgary for nearly 4 years. The winters were brutal and we all missed the coast so much.... lived near the coast all my life in swansea. Our children age 16 and 13 miss certain things about canada but most of all the good schools. Cant beleive that the uk schools wont put our daughter into the year she came out of. Yr 10 but should be in yr 11. After 4 months of struggle we have decided tomove across to nova scotia. This was our first choice but at the time no job for hubby. Id love to hear from anyone who has settled in halifax and any other help would be so grateful. My husband want to join the police force but no jobs right now. look forward to any replies.
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Re: Moving back across the pond after a massive mistake!!!!
Hi... Id love to hear of anyone who have made the trip across the canada and moved back to uk after some reason or another.. Since being back in the UK we realised how much the country is in such a mess!!! But its not until you look back on what you had and realise it wasnt all that bad. We lived in calgary for nearly 4 years. The winters were brutal and we all missed the coast so much.... lived near the coast all my life in swansea. Our children age 16 and 13 miss certain things about canada but most of all the good schools. Cant beleive that the uk schools wont put our daughter into the year she came out of. Yr 10 but should be in yr 11. After 4 months of struggle we have decided tomove across to nova scotia. This was our first choice but at the time no job for hubby. Id love to hear from anyone who has settled in halifax and any other help would be so grateful. My husband want to join the police force but no jobs right now. look forward to any replies.
In the end we realized that North America was where we wanted to raise our kids. Canada was our first choice but the first job opportunities I heard about were in the US. After a phone interview, I accepted a job in Maryland we moved here 14 years ago - it was the first time we'd ever set foot in the place. Since then we've had nice trips back to the UK - but we had those before our move back there too so nice trips are not indicative of what it's like to live there.
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Hi... Id love to hear of anyone who have made the trip across the canada and moved back to uk after some reason or another.. Since being back in the UK we realised how much the country is in such a mess!!! But its not until you look back on what you had and realise it wasnt all that bad. We lived in calgary for nearly 4 years. The winters were brutal and we all missed the coast so much.... lived near the coast all my life in swansea. Our children age 16 and 13 miss certain things about canada but most of all the good schools. Cant beleive that the uk schools wont put our daughter into the year she came out of. Yr 10 but should be in yr 11. After 4 months of struggle we have decided tomove across to nova scotia. This was our first choice but at the time no job for hubby. Id love to hear from anyone who has settled in halifax and any other help would be so grateful. My husband want to join the police force but no jobs right now. look forward to any replies.
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Could it be the issue with the UK schools is that your daughter needs to start her GCSE courses from the beginning and not half way through and that's why they have put her into year 10. What she has done in Canada will not transfer and therefore won't enable her to successfully complete her GCSE's.
It makes sense to put a child backif it means they can catch up on the work. Not in the uk TO MUCH RED TAPE AS FAR AS IM CONCERNED. Its pathetic why would want tkids to leave school without exams. Look at the state of the unemployment its laughable.
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Hi There.. We have been in uk now since sept 29th 2011. We feel that the state of the economy will have a bad affect on our childrens future.. now 16 and 13. In canada kids dont leave school till age 18 and i think this is a great thing. The longer they stay in school the better i say. Our daughter was put in a year below... our choice because we felt it would benfit them... which it has. Since returning no school will place ourdaughter into the yr she has just come out of... bad mistake because she will not hav the chance to sit her gcse because she woulnt of done any course work.. When you look back and realise what you had things dont look so bad.. We feel everyone seems glum here wiht unemployment soaring and crime on the increase. My husband is a police officer and realise the problems of antisocial and just larger louts on a whole. We have realised that uk has a glum future especially with this goverment and the stateof nhs.Ive had an eye opener and realise why people thought we were nuts to return back. We are looking to move back to canada but nova scotia our first choice. ID really think twice before you leap. We never had the chance to return for a trip so this is our first time back in nearly 4 years. hope this helps but as i say... nothing is what it is until you actually have a feel for any place thats only when you know if you have made the right choice... Never say never thats my moto in life!!!
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No... We put her back a year when we moved to canada not the other way.
It makes sense to put a child backif it means they can catch up on the work. Not in the uk TO MUCH RED TAPE AS FAR AS IM CONCERNED. Its pathetic why would want tkids to leave school without exams. Look at the state of the unemployment its laughable.
It makes sense to put a child backif it means they can catch up on the work. Not in the uk TO MUCH RED TAPE AS FAR AS IM CONCERNED. Its pathetic why would want tkids to leave school without exams. Look at the state of the unemployment its laughable.
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Why do you think you will be able to cope with the winters any better on the east coast? I appreciate it may not get as cold as it does in Alberta but cold is cold. You don't appear to be the type of family to embrace the winter. Does it really matter if the outside temperature is minus 10 or 20, if you are indoors?
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The UK will be keeping kids in school till 18 also.
They are gradually instigating that plan...
They are gradually instigating that plan...
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No... We put her back a year when we moved to canada not the other way.
It makes sense to put a child backif it means they can catch up on the work. Not in the uk TO MUCH RED TAPE AS FAR AS IM CONCERNED. Its pathetic why would want tkids to leave school without exams. Look at the state of the unemployment its laughable.
It makes sense to put a child backif it means they can catch up on the work. Not in the uk TO MUCH RED TAPE AS FAR AS IM CONCERNED. Its pathetic why would want tkids to leave school without exams. Look at the state of the unemployment its laughable.
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Schooling here is not as easy going as far as yr groups etc. In canada they do on ability not yr groups and thats what it should be like. Each child is different in progress etc. Ive seen it for myself her and still after 4 months i cant get our kids into school because of it.