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Old May 25th 2011, 3:05 pm
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Originally Posted by el_richo

What you also need to bear in mind is that new posters such as the OP live in the dream whereas those in Canada live in reality
Are the dreams and reality a million miles apart? Or just a void.
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Old May 25th 2011, 3:27 pm
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Ive lived in Canada now for 7 years and reading back my post from a few years ago, i was very unsettled. Then I gave up expats for a while, I can only assume I was going through my busy but happy stage of life, and had no need for advice. But here I am, spending a few minutes a day reading again. Its interesting reading peoples threads about waiting to move over, and understanding where their coming from. Canada has been hell, but its also been great fun, just like life in England. When we arrived we spent alot of time comparing. When you get that out of your system, it does get easier.
I do miss England, but not enough to go back. When you shut your door at night, you could be any where in the world.
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Old May 25th 2011, 3:39 pm
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Originally Posted by canbritdenise
Ive lived in Canada now for 7 years and reading back my post from a few years ago, i was very unsettled. Then I gave up expats for a while, I can only assume I was going through my busy but happy stage of life, and had no need for advice. But here I am, spending a few minutes a day reading again. Its interesting reading peoples threads about waiting to move over, and understanding where their coming from. Canada has been hell, but its also been great fun, just like life in England. When we arrived we spent alot of time comparing. When you get that out of your system, it does get easier.
I do miss England, but not enough to go back. When you shut your door at night, you could be any where in the world.
Can you elaborate on hell. My main concern is that in the UK I've always worked with a good bunch of lads, lots of banter etc and as I'm a good mixer I'm hoping for a similar working relationship there and not alienated for being a migrant.
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Originally Posted by CANADIAN CARPERS
Can you elaborate on hell. My main concern is that in the UK I've always worked with a good bunch of lads, lots of banter etc and as I'm a good mixer I'm hoping for a similar working relationship there and not alienated for being a migrant.
Don't expect to go for occasional early doors bears after work.
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Originally Posted by Alan2005
Your smug level is still lower than average for a Vancouver resident.
Is it showing that much?
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Originally Posted by CANADIAN CARPERS
Are the dreams and reality a million miles apart?
For some it seems, yes.
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I work in an office in NS and its full of banter, amazingly laid back although its a busy office. The office staff are great and those out and about doing "the work" are fun too. Less corporate than anywhere I have worked before
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Originally Posted by Howefamily
I work in an office in NS and its full of banter, amazingly laid back although its a busy office. The office staff are great and those out and about doing "the work" are fun too. Less corporate than anywhere I have worked before
I wish i had that. The office over here is the complete opposite. Very corporate, serious, boring people who don't interact that much. T'is why i work from home most of the time now. I have much better banter with my 5 month old Pug
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Originally Posted by Alan2005
Don't expect to go for occasional early doors bears after work.
Shit, I'll be working with bears
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Originally Posted by CANADIAN CARPERS
Shit, I'll be working with bears
Oops. But I think I'll let it stand.
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Old May 25th 2011, 5:05 pm
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Originally Posted by Howefamily
I work in an office in NS and its full of banter, amazingly laid back although its a busy office. The office staff are great and those out and about doing "the work" are fun too. Less corporate than anywhere I have worked before
Interestingly my work said that I brought the banter to the office, and before that no one talked to each other..
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Originally Posted by christmasoompa
With respect, you're not in Canada yet. I'm sure that Ducktastic and other forum members who planned their move for years were well aware of the cost of car insurance and other negatives about Canada, but years of research on an internet forum doesn't substitute for the experience.

ooh just saw my name!

Indeed. We planned this move for years, bored everyone senseless with it, including ourselves. However the planning, reccie trips and all that do not compare with the day to day of being here. For a lot of reasons it is just not for us, no drama, no biggy.

We are lucky, we can turn the ship around and head on home, I know not everyone is in our position.
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Old May 25th 2011, 5:25 pm
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Originally Posted by ducktastic
ooh just saw my name!

Indeed. We planned this move for years, bored everyone senseless with it, including ourselves. However the planning, reccie trips and all that do not compare with the day to day of being here. For a lot of reasons it is just not for us, no drama, no biggy.

We are lucky, we can turn the ship around and head on home, I know not everyone is in our position.
Have you tried different areas in Canada, I read a thread from a couple who were miserable in BC but tried NS before giving up totally and now they love it.
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Originally Posted by ducktastic
ooh just saw my name!

Indeed. We planned this move for years, bored everyone senseless with it, including ourselves. However the planning, reccie trips and all that do not compare with the day to day of being here. For a lot of reasons it is just not for us, no drama, no biggy.

We are lucky, we can turn the ship around and head on home, I know not everyone is in our position.
quoted because it's true.

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Originally Posted by CANADIAN CARPERS
Good point, maybe that's why peeps are giving up after such a short time. Fail to prepare, prepare to fail. I for one appreciate both the pos and neg on here, for instance the high cost of car insurance was an eyeopener.
It really isn't that simple. And there are plenty of posters, like me, who had no preparation at all for moving here and like it quite a lot. It's a crapshoot honestly.
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