Back in the UK for 9 months and decided we made the wrong choice!
#16
Re: Back in the UK for 9 months and decided we made the wrong choice!
You know... that's not true for me....
back for a year+.. looking at the weather in Ontario, & struggling to understand why I stayed as long as I did .... (and I have citizenship)
It all comes down to where you left, where you came back too, and what you expect out of life....
back for a year+.. looking at the weather in Ontario, & struggling to understand why I stayed as long as I did .... (and I have citizenship)
It all comes down to where you left, where you came back too, and what you expect out of life....
#17
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Re: Back in the UK for 9 months and decided we made the wrong choice!
You're right, the people who really like Canada usually have grown up on a sink-hole council estate in the North with no prospects of a decent job etc. I suppose the endless strip malls, freezing weather and lack of culture is a small price to pay to be away from a Benefits Street type of an environment. But people who have a decent education and have come from a nice village in England probably wouldn't like it here. Its all relative to your circumstances.
But.... it has to be a bit of a sh1t hole to then be happy in places like winterpeg, or deadmonton
#18
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Re: Back in the UK for 9 months and decided we made the wrong choice!
I guess it all comes down to did you trade up or did you trade down when you moved ? And that in turn is determined by what you want in life.
#19
Re: Back in the UK for 9 months and decided we made the wrong choice!
You know... that's not true for me....
back for a year+.. looking at the weather in Ontario, & struggling to understand why I stayed as long as I did .... (and I have citizenship)
It all comes down to where you left, where you came back too, and what you expect out of life....
back for a year+.. looking at the weather in Ontario, & struggling to understand why I stayed as long as I did .... (and I have citizenship)
It all comes down to where you left, where you came back too, and what you expect out of life....
#20
Re: Back in the UK for 9 months and decided we made the wrong choice!
You're right, the people who really like Canada usually have grown up on a sink-hole council estate in the North with no prospects of a decent job etc. I suppose the endless strip malls, freezing weather and lack of culture is a small price to pay to be away from a Benefits Street type of an environment. But people who have a decent education and have come from a nice village in England probably wouldn't like it here. Its all relative to your circumstances.
#21
Re: Back in the UK for 9 months and decided we made the wrong choice!
You're right, the people who really like Canada usually have grown up on a sink-hole council estate in the North with no prospects of a decent job etc. I suppose the endless strip malls, freezing weather and lack of culture is a small price to pay to be away from a Benefits Street type of an environment. But people who have a decent education and have come from a nice village in England probably wouldn't like it here. Its all relative to your circumstances.
#22
Re: Back in the UK for 9 months and decided we made the wrong choice!
You're right, the people who really like Canada usually have grown up on a sink-hole council estate in the North with no prospects of a decent job etc. I suppose the endless strip malls, freezing weather and lack of culture is a small price to pay to be away from a Benefits Street type of an environment. But people who have a decent education and have come from a nice village in England probably wouldn't like it here. Its all relative to your circumstances.
Nowt to be shamed of Oink that you came from a 'sink hole council estate', whether it was similar to an 'up North' or a 'Birmingham' benefits street' one.
I'll bet there aren't too many village folks that emigrated to Canada, why would they - unless of course they're from the pit villages.
#25
Re: Back in the UK for 9 months and decided we made the wrong choice!
I moved from a pretty little village in Sussex surrounded by the beautiful South Downs...but I still can't see myself going back...too much traffic, too expensive and too much of a rat race...
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Re: Back in the UK for 9 months and decided we made the wrong choice!
You're right, the people who really like Canada usually have grown up on a sink-hole council estate in the North with no prospects of a decent job etc. I suppose the endless strip malls, freezing weather and lack of culture is a small price to pay to be away from a Benefits Street type of an environment. But people who have a decent education and have come from a nice village in England probably wouldn't like it here. Its all relative to your circumstances.
Your posts here suggest you've lived in North America for many years now. So given your numerous comments of a similar ilk, Canada being a shithole etc, when are you going to summon the testicular fortitude to offer/explain to the Canada lovers here why, given your obvious disgust/hatred of Canada, you continue to live/stay in this country when it appears you have the financial wherewithal to return to your beloved England.
It seems hypocritical and probably fraudulent.
#27
Re: Back in the UK for 9 months and decided we made the wrong choice!
The cold isn't so bad if you are used to the cold damp winters of Scotland,the dryness is a nice change which has greatly benefited my health.
Edmonton isn't so bad,I still don't understand why ex pats moan and whine about the place,it doesn't feel like living in a city,which is a good thing,it's great having the handiness of shops nearby like a city but without that crammed in feeling.
It's also great that there's barely any of that upper class snobbery here.
I will always respect the hard working man that's made an attempt to better his or his families lives over the upper class ungrateful snobs that always seem to have the need to put down the backgrounds of others.
Edmonton isn't so bad,I still don't understand why ex pats moan and whine about the place,it doesn't feel like living in a city,which is a good thing,it's great having the handiness of shops nearby like a city but without that crammed in feeling.
It's also great that there's barely any of that upper class snobbery here.
I will always respect the hard working man that's made an attempt to better his or his families lives over the upper class ungrateful snobs that always seem to have the need to put down the backgrounds of others.
#28
Re: Back in the UK for 9 months and decided we made the wrong choice!
Your comments reek of snobbery. Two things no-one has any control over whatsoever are where one is born and to whom.
Your posts here suggest you've lived in North America for many years now. So given your numerous comments of a similar ilk, Canada being a shithole etc, when are you going to summon the testicular fortitude to offer/explain to the Canada lovers here why, given your obvious disgust/hatred of Canada, you continue to live/stay in this country when it appears you have the financial wherewithal to return to your beloved England.
It seems hypocritical and probably fraudulent.
Your posts here suggest you've lived in North America for many years now. So given your numerous comments of a similar ilk, Canada being a shithole etc, when are you going to summon the testicular fortitude to offer/explain to the Canada lovers here why, given your obvious disgust/hatred of Canada, you continue to live/stay in this country when it appears you have the financial wherewithal to return to your beloved England.
It seems hypocritical and probably fraudulent.
#29
Re: Back in the UK for 9 months and decided we made the wrong choice!
Your comments reek of snobbery. Two things no-one has any control over whatsoever are where one is born and to whom.
Your posts here suggest you've lived in North America for many years now. So given your numerous comments of a similar ilk, Canada being a shithole etc, when are you going to summon the testicular fortitude to offer/explain to the Canada lovers here why, given your obvious disgust/hatred of Canada, you continue to live/stay in this country when it appears you have the financial wherewithal to return to your beloved England.
It seems hypocritical and probably fraudulent.
Your posts here suggest you've lived in North America for many years now. So given your numerous comments of a similar ilk, Canada being a shithole etc, when are you going to summon the testicular fortitude to offer/explain to the Canada lovers here why, given your obvious disgust/hatred of Canada, you continue to live/stay in this country when it appears you have the financial wherewithal to return to your beloved England.
It seems hypocritical and probably fraudulent.
Back on topic though, I think you have to make the most of wherever you are living to get the best out of a country. I lived in Ontario for a few years which didn't suit me at all, but tried to make the most of the opportunity. Then moved to Vancouver which was far more enjoyable (from a personal perspective). I had a fantastic standard of living in the UK, but that "grass is greener" question would never have been answered had we not tried.
People, I imagine, will always be happiest if they live where their heart is, and there is no right or wrong answer to that!
#30
Re: Back in the UK for 9 months and decided we made the wrong choice!
I like oink's posts, they are so 'what shall we say' .... illuminating at times, gets folks to wake up & read the posts.
At least we know oink is from a council estate, who has been in Canada forever, that we have 'village people' on the threads & a few self-proclaimed snobs
It just doesn't get any better than this, to show that as immigrants from all walks of life, living here in Canada puts everyone on the same level - ignoring the snobs of course & those that still think they live in small minded Britain