OK well I am somewhat frusterated. I have met a wonderful man who wants to marry me, move to canada and be with me. I am not financially set to sponser him , have no co-sponserer, how do we get together? We dont want to have to wait over a year or so to be together. Do we marry anyways? but then I read one lady's husband was refused so what are the choices here? It is way too expensive to fly back and forth how can he get here and stay here while the paperwork is being done? And will he be accepted at all?