why bother
#1
why bother
This is probably going to turn into a long winded rant of self pity so look away now if your easily annoyed.
I have just spent the last hour sat on my bed crying my eyes out (I'm 27 for christs sake not 14)
Moving to Perth was the best thing I ever did my son is doing well at school hubby is happy and i got preggers after years of trying and I'm happy(most of the time). Yes it is hard to settle and it took me a while. I've made friends.
Today just 1 little thing was enough to tip me over the edge and think why did i leave my happy cosey little life.
Yes I have post natal depression so i admit i'm more sensitive at the mo and I've allways blown mountins out of molehills according to most people who've known me a long time.
The ladies who post on here will understand. Do you remember being a teenager at school and how nasty girls could be to each other and how easily people were dropped as friends cos perhaps you wern't cool enough well believe me it happens as an adult too and when it happens, when you allready feel like shit it can really ****ing hurt.
The one person i really want is steve and he's away
Thankyou for having the patience to read this. I know I will get reples saying grow up, but hey this is the net and everyone has right to say what they want
I have just spent the last hour sat on my bed crying my eyes out (I'm 27 for christs sake not 14)
Moving to Perth was the best thing I ever did my son is doing well at school hubby is happy and i got preggers after years of trying and I'm happy(most of the time). Yes it is hard to settle and it took me a while. I've made friends.
Today just 1 little thing was enough to tip me over the edge and think why did i leave my happy cosey little life.
Yes I have post natal depression so i admit i'm more sensitive at the mo and I've allways blown mountins out of molehills according to most people who've known me a long time.
The ladies who post on here will understand. Do you remember being a teenager at school and how nasty girls could be to each other and how easily people were dropped as friends cos perhaps you wern't cool enough well believe me it happens as an adult too and when it happens, when you allready feel like shit it can really ****ing hurt.
The one person i really want is steve and he's away
Thankyou for having the patience to read this. I know I will get reples saying grow up, but hey this is the net and everyone has right to say what they want
#2
Re: why bother
This is probably going to turn into a long winded rant of self pity so look away now if your easily annoyed.
I have just spent the last hour sat on my bed crying my eyes out (I'm 27 for christs sake not 14)
Moving to Perth was the best thing I ever did my son is doing well at school hubby is happy and i got preggers after years of trying and I'm happy(most of the time). Yes it is hard to settle and it took me a while. I've made friends.
Today just 1 little thing was enough to tip me over the edge and think why did i leave my happy cosey little life.
Yes I have post natal depression so i admit i'm more sensitive at the mo and I've allways blown mountins out of molehills according to most people who've known me a long time.
The ladies who post on here will understand. Do you remember being a teenager at school and how nasty girls could be to each other and how easily people were dropped as friends cos perhaps you wern't cool enough well believe me it happens as an adult too and when it happens, when you allready feel like shit it can really ****ing hurt.
The one person i really want is steve and he's away
Thankyou for having the patience to read this. I know I will get reples saying grow up, but hey this is the net and everyone has right to say what they want
I have just spent the last hour sat on my bed crying my eyes out (I'm 27 for christs sake not 14)
Moving to Perth was the best thing I ever did my son is doing well at school hubby is happy and i got preggers after years of trying and I'm happy(most of the time). Yes it is hard to settle and it took me a while. I've made friends.
Today just 1 little thing was enough to tip me over the edge and think why did i leave my happy cosey little life.
Yes I have post natal depression so i admit i'm more sensitive at the mo and I've allways blown mountins out of molehills according to most people who've known me a long time.
The ladies who post on here will understand. Do you remember being a teenager at school and how nasty girls could be to each other and how easily people were dropped as friends cos perhaps you wern't cool enough well believe me it happens as an adult too and when it happens, when you allready feel like shit it can really ****ing hurt.
The one person i really want is steve and he's away
Thankyou for having the patience to read this. I know I will get reples saying grow up, but hey this is the net and everyone has right to say what they want
People can be so fickle here, some don't want to make close friends, they just want a large social circle and nothing more. Try not to get too upset. If someone has treated you badly, then their 'friendship' wasn't a real one in the first place. Cheer up.
#3
Re: why bother
This is probably going to turn into a long winded rant of self pity so look away now if your easily annoyed.
I have just spent the last hour sat on my bed crying my eyes out (I'm 27 for christs sake not 14)
Moving to Perth was the best thing I ever did my son is doing well at school hubby is happy and i got preggers after years of trying and I'm happy(most of the time). Yes it is hard to settle and it took me a while. I've made friends.
Today just 1 little thing was enough to tip me over the edge and think why did i leave my happy cosey little life.
Yes I have post natal depression so i admit i'm more sensitive at the mo and I've allways blown mountins out of molehills according to most people who've known me a long time.
The ladies who post on here will understand. Do you remember being a teenager at school and how nasty girls could be to each other and how easily people were dropped as friends cos perhaps you wern't cool enough well believe me it happens as an adult too and when it happens, when you allready feel like shit it can really ****ing hurt.
The one person i really want is steve and he's away
Thankyou for having the patience to read this. I know I will get reples saying grow up, but hey this is the net and everyone has right to say what they want
I have just spent the last hour sat on my bed crying my eyes out (I'm 27 for christs sake not 14)
Moving to Perth was the best thing I ever did my son is doing well at school hubby is happy and i got preggers after years of trying and I'm happy(most of the time). Yes it is hard to settle and it took me a while. I've made friends.
Today just 1 little thing was enough to tip me over the edge and think why did i leave my happy cosey little life.
Yes I have post natal depression so i admit i'm more sensitive at the mo and I've allways blown mountins out of molehills according to most people who've known me a long time.
The ladies who post on here will understand. Do you remember being a teenager at school and how nasty girls could be to each other and how easily people were dropped as friends cos perhaps you wern't cool enough well believe me it happens as an adult too and when it happens, when you allready feel like shit it can really ****ing hurt.
The one person i really want is steve and he's away
Thankyou for having the patience to read this. I know I will get reples saying grow up, but hey this is the net and everyone has right to say what they want
Awwww come here (((hug)))
You're bound to get upset, as you say you have PND and all those changes since you left your home. You will get lots of support on here so don't go away.
#4
Re: why bother
Do you remember being a teenager at school and how nasty girls could be to each other and how easily people were dropped as friends cos perhaps you wern't cool enough well believe me it happens as an adult too and when it happens, when you allready feel like shit it can really ****ing hurt.
STEVE GET HOME NOW!!!
#5
Re: why bother
I can honestly say that 99% of people i have met on here our fab and they know who they are but theres 1% who are so up there own arse's you would not believe. I call them the stepfords cos thats who they think they are
#6
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Joined: Jul 2004
Location: Adelaide
Posts: 1,090
Re: why bother
Having had pnd,my heart goes out to you.It was hubby who got me through it.Try to remember you won't feel like this forever.These people aren't worthy of your friendship.You're a much better person.Karma being sent your way
#7
Re: why bother
There see, you've cheered up abit already. Just stay on here for a chat if you have the time.
#8
Re: why bother
This is probably going to turn into a long winded rant of self pity so look away now if your easily annoyed.
I have just spent the last hour sat on my bed crying my eyes out (I'm 27 for christs sake not 14)
Moving to Perth was the best thing I ever did my son is doing well at school hubby is happy and i got preggers after years of trying and I'm happy(most of the time). Yes it is hard to settle and it took me a while. I've made friends.
Today just 1 little thing was enough to tip me over the edge and think why did i leave my happy cosey little life.
Yes I have post natal depression so i admit i'm more sensitive at the mo and I've allways blown mountins out of molehills according to most people who've known me a long time.
The ladies who post on here will understand. Do you remember being a teenager at school and how nasty girls could be to each other and how easily people were dropped as friends cos perhaps you wern't cool enough well believe me it happens as an adult too and when it happens, when you allready feel like shit it can really ****ing hurt.
The one person i really want is steve and he's away
Thankyou for having the patience to read this. I know I will get reples saying grow up, but hey this is the net and everyone has right to say what they want
I have just spent the last hour sat on my bed crying my eyes out (I'm 27 for christs sake not 14)
Moving to Perth was the best thing I ever did my son is doing well at school hubby is happy and i got preggers after years of trying and I'm happy(most of the time). Yes it is hard to settle and it took me a while. I've made friends.
Today just 1 little thing was enough to tip me over the edge and think why did i leave my happy cosey little life.
Yes I have post natal depression so i admit i'm more sensitive at the mo and I've allways blown mountins out of molehills according to most people who've known me a long time.
The ladies who post on here will understand. Do you remember being a teenager at school and how nasty girls could be to each other and how easily people were dropped as friends cos perhaps you wern't cool enough well believe me it happens as an adult too and when it happens, when you allready feel like shit it can really ****ing hurt.
The one person i really want is steve and he's away
Thankyou for having the patience to read this. I know I will get reples saying grow up, but hey this is the net and everyone has right to say what they want
Becky you poor thing. I know where you are coming from with the PND I had it too and it makes everthing suck. Have you still got your Mum with you?
I know its easy to say but this person can't of been a nice person to start with and they are the ones that have missed out on your freindship.
You should get down the gym and take it all out on the punch bag!
Sam
#9
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Joined: Apr 2002
Location: brisbane
Posts: 1,020
Re: why bother
really sorry that you feel down like this,get yourself a vodka and it will all seem better,no im not gonna say grow up cos i know just how much those comments can hurt.People think they are being so bloody clever with there sarcasm and dont realize the damage they can do.
We been here 2 and half years and would you believe the only negative and bitchy crapp ive had is from a British woman,all are aussie friends are great but this woman has been damn right nasty,comments about my weight,parenting,house and appearance"people will think its the cleaner coming out of your house' just because i dont dress to the same standard as her.I eventually retaliated and said that she had been nice all evening and had then spoilt it with a bitchy comment and she now has the audacity to tell my friend that i scare her.If only she knew how she had made me feel in the past.
Sorry about that ,i think i needed to get that off my chest,maybe the vodka advise wasnt so good after all.
But yeah i do know where you are coming from.if hubby isnt around maybe you can phone a friend from the UK,or you can always pm me and we can rant.
Chin up
Donna(im off to get another vodka)
We been here 2 and half years and would you believe the only negative and bitchy crapp ive had is from a British woman,all are aussie friends are great but this woman has been damn right nasty,comments about my weight,parenting,house and appearance"people will think its the cleaner coming out of your house' just because i dont dress to the same standard as her.I eventually retaliated and said that she had been nice all evening and had then spoilt it with a bitchy comment and she now has the audacity to tell my friend that i scare her.If only she knew how she had made me feel in the past.
Sorry about that ,i think i needed to get that off my chest,maybe the vodka advise wasnt so good after all.
But yeah i do know where you are coming from.if hubby isnt around maybe you can phone a friend from the UK,or you can always pm me and we can rant.
Chin up
Donna(im off to get another vodka)
#10
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Joined: Apr 2002
Location: brisbane
Posts: 1,020
Re: why bother
Good god in the time its taken me to type that youve had 8 replies,well done
Guys
Guys
#11
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Joined: Sep 2005
Posts: 3,997
Re: why bother
This is probably going to turn into a long winded rant of self pity so look away now if your easily annoyed.
I have just spent the last hour sat on my bed crying my eyes out (I'm 27 for christs sake not 14)
Moving to Perth was the best thing I ever did my son is doing well at school hubby is happy and i got preggers after years of trying and I'm happy(most of the time). Yes it is hard to settle and it took me a while. I've made friends.
Today just 1 little thing was enough to tip me over the edge and think why did i leave my happy cosey little life.
Yes I have post natal depression so i admit i'm more sensitive at the mo and I've allways blown mountins out of molehills according to most people who've known me a long time.
The ladies who post on here will understand. Do you remember being a teenager at school and how nasty girls could be to each other and how easily people were dropped as friends cos perhaps you wern't cool enough well believe me it happens as an adult too and when it happens, when you allready feel like shit it can really ****ing hurt.
The one person i really want is steve and he's away
Thankyou for having the patience to read this. I know I will get reples saying grow up, but hey this is the net and everyone has right to say what they want
I have just spent the last hour sat on my bed crying my eyes out (I'm 27 for christs sake not 14)
Moving to Perth was the best thing I ever did my son is doing well at school hubby is happy and i got preggers after years of trying and I'm happy(most of the time). Yes it is hard to settle and it took me a while. I've made friends.
Today just 1 little thing was enough to tip me over the edge and think why did i leave my happy cosey little life.
Yes I have post natal depression so i admit i'm more sensitive at the mo and I've allways blown mountins out of molehills according to most people who've known me a long time.
The ladies who post on here will understand. Do you remember being a teenager at school and how nasty girls could be to each other and how easily people were dropped as friends cos perhaps you wern't cool enough well believe me it happens as an adult too and when it happens, when you allready feel like shit it can really ****ing hurt.
The one person i really want is steve and he's away
Thankyou for having the patience to read this. I know I will get reples saying grow up, but hey this is the net and everyone has right to say what they want
I hazard a guess you are feeling particularly sensitive due to your condition and added to this Mr P4me is away so no one to bounce your thoughts off and no TLC
Hold your chin up, raise your head high and don't conform with bad behavior just to fit in. You'll soon find friends who have the same values, it just isn't going to happen overnight, just as it didn't in UK.
Keep on smiling and don't let the buggars get you down
#12
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Joined: Jul 2004
Location: Adelaide
Posts: 1,090
Re: why bother
really sorry that you feel down like this,get yourself a vodka and it will all seem better,no im not gonna say grow up cos i know just how much those comments can hurt.People think they are being so bloody clever with there sarcasm and dont realize the damage they can do.
We been here 2 and half years and would you believe the only negative and bitchy crapp ive had is from a British woman,all are aussie friends are great but this woman has been damn right nasty,comments about my weight,parenting,house and appearance"people will think its the cleaner coming out of your house' just because i dont dress to the same standard as her.I eventually retaliated and said that she had been nice all evening and had then spoilt it with a bitchy comment and she now has the audacity to tell my friend that i scare her.If only she knew how she had made me feel in the past.
Sorry about that ,i think i needed to get that off my chest,maybe the vodka advise wasnt so good after all.
But yeah i do know where you are coming from.if hubby isnt around maybe you can phone a friend from the UK,or you can always pm me and we can rant.
Chin up
Donna(im off to get another vodka)
We been here 2 and half years and would you believe the only negative and bitchy crapp ive had is from a British woman,all are aussie friends are great but this woman has been damn right nasty,comments about my weight,parenting,house and appearance"people will think its the cleaner coming out of your house' just because i dont dress to the same standard as her.I eventually retaliated and said that she had been nice all evening and had then spoilt it with a bitchy comment and she now has the audacity to tell my friend that i scare her.If only she knew how she had made me feel in the past.
Sorry about that ,i think i needed to get that off my chest,maybe the vodka advise wasnt so good after all.
But yeah i do know where you are coming from.if hubby isnt around maybe you can phone a friend from the UK,or you can always pm me and we can rant.
Chin up
Donna(im off to get another vodka)
#13
Re: why bother
Everyone seems to be sugesting I have a drink. I know i've got some bailys somewhere. thank god i bottle feed
#15
Re: why bother
Now baileys sounds like a nice treat tonight - served with some ice - now what did the say about revenge is a meal best served cold?
Much better friends outthere for you Mrs Perth For Me. And the BE ladies above are doing a grand job of supporting you - well done ladies.
Much better friends outthere for you Mrs Perth For Me. And the BE ladies above are doing a grand job of supporting you - well done ladies.