TechieGirl

Hi all,

I am looking for some insights into people's experiences in moving to Australia. I am facing a predicament where my visa has come through and I am not so sure I want to go any more.

I am South African born, single, 32, been living in London for 7 years and is soon to be British. I am due to move to Australia in April on the 175 visa, but the idea of uprooting myself from a good life that has taken me 7 years to carve out, a life I love, for the sake of an ideal of the life I think I might have in Australia fills me with worry.

Up until a year ago I was so sure that this is what I wanted to do, I had after all worked at it for so long. But now that the move is imminent, now that I am almost British and can call this home forever, I am not so sure. At the same time I don't want to regret not taking the leap of faith, it is after all that same mindset that brought me to the UK in the same place, a decision I would never regret.

So should I stay or go?

Look forward to hearing your thoughts. Thanks in advance!

old.sparkles

Looking at your signature, you must have validated your visa and it should be valid until 2016 - so if you're not sure it's the right thing to do now then why not wait and see what happens. As you say, you are about to get British citizenship and have a good life at present, so there is no real rush to make any decisions now - other than the plans you had made which presumably could be rescheduled or shelved

Bermudashorts

The two reasons you have mentioned for going that I saw in that were; in search of an ideal life (even though your current one sounds very happy) and in case you regret it (you could just as easily regret walking away from what you do have).

It doesn't sound to me like you should go, not unless you would enjoy spending another 7 years carving out a life. But yes the visa will last, maybe postpone the decision until later.

Graham and Maria

Stay where you are...
What makes you think you will like Australia any better than London, which you already 'Love' ??

You have a life you love, I wouldn't throw it away.

paulry

Depends where you see yourself in the future. Will London seem like such a cool place when you're in your 40s ...and 50s? It was perfect for me when I moved there as a single 27 year old (what great days they were! ) but fast forward 15 years to early middle aged, settled, married life with two kids in secondary school, and I was desperate to escape. My wife was the same.

Strategically I would say if you can afford to wait and re-apply at a later stage - if you later change your mind, then stay put until (and if) you tire of it. Does your skill assure you of the ability to migrate to Australia when you are older? Do they stand the test of time? For example: are you a nurse or a teacher or some other very high in demand professional? If they are then no hurry - Australia can wait

Pollyana

Purely personal views - don't do it!
If you have a life that is good, my instant instinct is - don't do it. If you have a life you love, I would SHOUT Don't do it. The risk is too great.
But if you are the sort of person who loves to take a risk and cam move on easily and you have options - and money- to go elsewhere if it doesn't suit you....then OK, go for it. but have that escape route, have the cash available to leave and move on.

Sounds like you have already moved countries once, so maybe you have a good mindset and can settle easily...which makes it more difficult. Have a read of the posts by Alfresco, one of our Mods. He did SA to the UK then to Aus. was happy in the UK and is now happy in Aus.

BASHO

When a man is tired of London, he is tired of life: Samuel Johnson

--Or woman--Al.

Pollyana

Indeed

Can't imagine ever tiring of this fabulous city

BASHO

I feel I must write more , I was once happy in London having carved out a life that had an infinitely rewarding and interesting future , I allowed the green grass syndrome to get the better of me , my only excuse, I was very young.

Now 50 years later and at the tail end of the run pursuing the green grass that started then and I can state unevocably if you've got it in London and you're happy keep it , the rest isn't worth diddly.

Australia = holiday--at the most .

chris955

As has been said many times on this forum If it aint broke dont fix it.
Australia doesnt magically give people a better life, you sound as if you have a good life already.

TheCreature

"London's a shithole": 90% of the UK population.

chris955

There seems to be an almost infinite amount of things to do, it really would take a very long time to tire of it.

TheCreature

odd then that most Londoners seem to have tired of the place.

TheCreature

odd then that most Londoners seem to have tired of the place.

brissybee

I appreciate this is a difficult decision but the following steps could help you make up your mind. First, get your face fully made up, dress as you would normally go to work, sit in a sauna for the morning and take with you a sound recording of people speaking through their noses. When you have become accustomed to the climate and the accent, ask a friend to put buckets of spiders and snakes into the sauna with you. When you are used to squashing and tip-toeing around the fauna and are comfortable looking look like Alice Cooper because your make up has melted, pay about $1700 to leave the sauna (about the price of a return airfare) and head off for a relaxing afternoon at the beach. You will be expected to rave about the beach because as any Australian will tell you, the beaches are beautiful in Australia and the weather is always sunny. You may find the sand is a little hot but once the soles of your feet have burnt you will find the sea-lice filled and stinger infested waters most comforting. If you are prepared to just paddle, you won't have to worry about sharks. At the end of the day you may be able to buy a couple of king prawns for about $26.00 a kilo for dinner and you will be considered a true Australian if you swill these down with beer. You may fall asleep watching football, another football or Australia's Funniest Home Video Show. Repeat the above for the rest of your life. Alternatively, you could have a holiday down under, marvel at the oddities which make the Antipodes so unique and return to the life you love in a country where you can pop over to Paris for a weekend and never have to worry about looking like Alice Cooper watching strangers' home videos on television.